After reading a famous book, I believe everyone has a lot to share. At this time, the most important feeling after reading it is that you can't forget it. How to write a review and avoid writing a "running account"? The following are 800 words (8 commonly used) I compiled after reading "The Weakness of Human Nature". Welcome to read the collection.
After reading The Weakness of Human Nature, I spent a few days reading The Weakness of Human Nature by Mr. Dale Carnegie, which benefited a lot. Read it carefully, as if enjoying a delicious life feast and enjoying yourself. Although it was only a quick glance, I was deeply impressed by Mr Carnegie's wisdom. It seems that this is not just a book, but a philosophy of life that embodies countless experiences and lessons, and shines with wisdom everywhere. It is like a mirror, which allows me to know myself, to know myself, to improve myself, to be a slave, and to manage my life more perfectly.
"Sincerely appreciate and praise others" is my deepest feeling after reading this book. I have read this book once and can only get a general understanding. Be sure to read it several times and understand its meaning with your heart. The so-called "know yourself and know yourself, and win every battle" is true on the battlefield and in life. A person who knows each other better and knows himself better can be comfortable and invincible in life.
In the book, the author talks about how we should learn to appreciate others sincerely in our life and work. Carnegie said: "There is only one way to get others to do anything-give them what they want." "In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little praise for the world. This little spark of friendship will ignite the flame of friendship. " Yes!
Carnegie said: "People are like this. When they do something wrong, they only blame others, not themselves. " Perhaps this sentence is not strange to us and is often used, but we have made some changes to it. After the change, it became, "He is like this. When he does something wrong, he will only blame others, not himself. " Seemingly subtle differences are actually subtle differences. When you say this sentence with one finger pointing at others, maybe the other finger is pointing at yourself! Carnegie hit the nail on the head by pointing out this bad habit. We always like to be above others and talk about their right and wrong. Why can't we compare ourselves with them and look at ourselves? When others do badly, is what they do perfect? When you realize that you will make mistakes, you will rise to a higher level and sum up an eternal truth: "To err is human." ? The cause of this disease is the lack of understanding and tolerance between people.
Mr Carnegie's wisdom has undoubtedly opened a door of cognition for us, which is not only an exposition of life philosophy, but also a detailed analysis of human nature. Only by recognizing the weakness of human nature and facing it squarely can we improve ourselves better. Perhaps what the ancients called: "Be brave after knowing shame" is the truth.
After reading "Weakness of Human Nature" 2, I actually read the whole book "Weakness of Human Nature". My favorite sentence is: "All love and good deeds should be cashed in immediately. Don't hesitate and don't stay. Time flies, time waits for no one, life is only once. "
We all live in this world, but what is the meaning of living? Why should we get along with people? How should we get along with others? Every day, different problems bother us. When we are young, we are taught that "the beginning of life is good in essence". Maybe this is our primary subconscious when we get along with others. In fact, there is nothing wrong. When we get along with others with a kind heart, we praise others with our sincerity and treat others with a kind heart, and others will repay you with this attitude. Of course, attitude is important. When we get along with others with a sincere heart, the world will become beautiful. We really have to live in this world with a kind heart. Although heart and heart are always connected, sometimes scheming and scheming are mutually exclusive. When we are sincere and kind, others sometimes don't think so. The ancients said that people's hearts are all flesh, and only by taking care of each other can we achieve the relationship between life and death.
I think that living in the present world, we should have a dual mentality. Kindness and honesty are very important, but we should also have our own bottom line, so that the world can survive and develop better ~ Kindness is a kind of kindness, and we should hold a kind attitude and be grateful to all those who care about ourselves. I also believe that this is an attitude towards life and a moral character. When you make friends with others with a kind heart and know how to treat others with dedication, you will feel the beauty of life. If you are always kind, you will get the favor of good thoughts and your mood will be natural and peaceful. Being kind to others is being kind to yourself, which is a blessing. I often think so. I believe that even every little thing in life is like this. When we walk in the world this time, we will meet so many monsters on the road. But when we have a kind heart, the world will be fair and will not treat you badly. When others say yes, they will affirm their own views. This is the most basic respect, so that others can be kind to you.
We all believe that a person's beauty is from the inside out. Appearance is important, but the beauty of the soul is the real beauty. Everyone can be ugly, but must be kind, because it is from the heart. Kind people will always reveal a different kind of light, just like lotus leaves mud and is not stained, which has other characteristics. Cultivate your mind, be warm and kind, treat others with a kind mind, and treat others with kindness and sincerity, so that the world will treat you fairly. You give me a hug, I give you a smile, you give me a drop of water, I pour a sea, sow kindness and honesty, and the world will become better!
Comment on "the weakness of human nature" 3 Seven things to do when opening the door in the morning. Everything is inseparable from money, especially people who live in cities now.
As the saying goes, money makes the mare go; Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money; It is difficult for rich people to have no money; Money is the root of all evil; The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is bustling, all for profit; A gentleman loves money, takes it wisely and uses it properly.
So how do we know money, how to live in harmony with money, and let money bring us convenience without hurting us?
One of the most common misconceptions about money is that money can make us happy. In fact, too much money will not bring happiness, but will easily become the source of hatred, fighting and other troubles. Money is a fair way in life. How much money can improve our quality of life depends on how wisely we use our money, not how much money we have.
Even if we have the whole world, we can only eat three meals a day and sleep in one bed at a time. One way to stop worrying about money is to make a spending plan and then spend money according to it.
Thrift is wise. Thrift applies not only to money, but also to everything in life, from using one's time and energy wisely to developing prudent living habits. Thrift means managing ourselves scientifically, our time and money, and making the most wise use of the resources in our lives.
We advocate thrift, and we also oppose improper thrift. True frugality is not stingy, but economical and efficient, not stingy, but appropriate expenditure.
As long as you spend money carefully, most people can reduce their considerable expenses. If people can make full use of their creativity and wisdom, they can live a happy life without spending any money.
The real intrinsic value of human beings is a stable pace of life and long-term material enjoyment.
Avoid the debt trap. Debt is the most distressing thing in the world. Only those who are troubled by debt, constantly subjected to the demands and oppression of creditors and suffering from debt can understand that debt is the greatest threat to life. Debt will wear away a person's physical strength, boldness of vision, character, spirit, interest and tolerance. Because the oppression of debt will destroy all the hopes of a person's life.
Choosing to invest in the most valuable things is a beneficial consumption and an active lifestyle, which will enable you to live an honest, simple and valuable life and finally gain the wealth of your dreams.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature", I bought some books and brought them out when I went home last time. More than a year has passed, and I just finished reading "The Weakness of Human Nature" recently. I am a little touched and want to write something.
The book is divided into three parts, plus a special edition. The first part is the popular principle, the second part is the principle of moving people's hearts, and the third part is the method of changing each other.
The first part is divided into several parts under the principle of popularization. When talking to others, you should pay your own sincerity, give your own sincerity to each other, give your sincere concern to each other, and don't forget to bring your own smile when talking to each other, and so on. Generally speaking, you should treat others sincerely, praise them sincerely, and remember their names no matter how long you have no friends.
The second part is the touching principle: it is also divided into several sections. We should look at each other's heart, consider problems from each other's standpoint, satisfy his self-esteem and his importance. In this way, we can't severely point out each other's mistakes, can't be impulsive, and should consider each other's positions and difficulties. If you want the other person to agree with a plan, let him mistakenly think that the plan was put forward by himself, and at the same time, you can use praise and praise. If you want to impress people, you should consider the problem from the other side's position, respect each other, don't embarrass each other, give each other a chance to speak, clearly understand what the other side wants to express, understand each other's position, and often praise each other. It suddenly occurred to me that I had my first formal job after graduating from college. At that time, there was another alumnus who joined me in the unit. Everyone is a little white and knows nothing. But he always wants to tell me what to do. I thought I was still a person who could listen to other people's opinions, but after listening to his words, I always stepped into the pit. Then when I have a problem and he tells me what to do, I reply to him directly. Now that I think about it, I am really young. It is reasonable for young people to express their views and opinions. After all, just entering the unit, I always want to be recognized by others. He's right. Look, just do it. If not, do it according to your own ideas. Why go back and let him down?
The third part is the way to change each other. This is also to take care of each other's face and respect each other. If you want to point out the other person's mistakes, you should also start with praise, no matter how little progress the other person has made. If you are wrong, be brave enough to admit it.
The main thread that runs through the book is mutual respect, mutual care and mutual praise, and considering problems from each other's standpoint. It seems that everyone knows it, but it is more important to do it.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature", I finally finished reading this thick and heavy book and didn't like it very much. I've heard a lot about you before, and I thought it was a philosophical "argumentative paper" about human nature. Only after reading a few pages did I realize that this is actually a reference book for us to teach how to socialize. Nowadays, such books abound in bookstores-how to become an excellent leader, how to become a high-level salesman, how to get along with people in the workplace and so on. , can be used as a mother. Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature can be widely spread and praised. On the one hand, it may be because the market when this book was published was not so popular with success and social methodology. On the other hand, it may be because the social background at that time was cold and smoky after the industrial revolution, economic crisis, world war and cold war. This is a sincere and convincing guide on how to establish friendly and cooperative relations and good communication with people.
To tell the truth, I didn't actually read the whole book, because I read the beginning of Seven Ways to Make Your Family Harmonious and found that those who guide the relationship between husband and wife are really not interested in reading it again, and that's it.
The content of this book is very true. The method is given first, and then the practice of some celebrities and students in Carnegie social guidance class is used to further explain how to apply theory to practice. Finally, the main points are summarized and some psychological analysis is made. I can't tell which ones were written by the author and which ones were added by later generations. Although I don't want to read it again after reading it several times, the short story is still very interesting, and I can always turn over a few pages every time I pick it up.
The weakness of human nature mentioned is mainly the demand for self-esteem, that is, the desire to be valued and respected. Therefore, in communication, if you can use some tips to make the other party feel important, you can often get better results. For example, turning what needs to be done by the other party into wanting guidance because the other party is very powerful, and immediately praising others for not being, looks a bit like how to kiss up quietly. Actually, it doesn't mean that, because the object of this method is not only people with higher status or ability than you, but all partners.
I admire Carnegie for summarizing such fragmentary social means into such a thick book. He can cover everything. After all, many times, how we communicate with people is an instinct, which is difficult to summarize in words. So, if you feel that your EQ is not so high and you are a little confused in getting along with others, you can dig out this book to learn. But I still want to say that this book is quite boring.
Comments on human weakness. Mr. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature has benefited me a lot. After reading Carnegie's works, I realized that there is a book here that teaches people how to deal with people. This book is just right for us who are about to enter the society. Learning how to deal with others is not only conducive to improving one's ability, making oneself better integrated into society, thus achieving success, but also conducive to integrating oneself with the people around him, making others happy and making oneself happy.
In the process of reading this book, I feel that every chapter I read will have a new feeling. At first, I didn't know much about it. Only by reading and thinking repeatedly and combining your own experience can you understand.
If you want to take it, you must give it first. Do you want others to be interested in you? Then you have to be interested in others first. If we always make others interested in us, we will never get sincere friendship. Therefore, in social interaction, we should take the initiative to know and appreciate others.
The profound philosophy of dealing with various relationships in life and work in "The Weakness of Human Nature" especially benefited me a lot:
First, the skills of getting along with others. "Try to understand others and don't ask questions; Try to put yourself in their shoes. Why do they do this? This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticism and accusation, which makes people feel sympathy, patience and kindness. " Putting yourself in others' shoes is a necessary condition for making sincere friends in life. Only by knowing how to put yourself in others' shoes can you gain recognition and respect from others. Not only life, but also work.
Second, how to work better. How can I work better? Mr. Carnegie told us: "The first step for an individual to mature should be to dare to take responsibility." Indeed, being a man in this world will face many responsibilities in society and be responsible for your own actions. You need more responsibility in your work. A person's ability may be high or low, but if he is a serious and responsible person, at least he will be respected by others. A person who dares to take responsibility will also be recognized by the team and the collective, which is the best way to gain friendship.
Third, a happy life. How can we live happily in the face of layers of pressure? Mr Carnegie said: "The life that can be shared is rich and colorful. Indeed, share the happiness of life with others, and then maybe you will get more happiness from it.
The weakness of human nature has taught me too much and made me more good friends. "In human nature, the deepest nature is the desire to be valued by others." Please let us cherish our friends and let friendship surround you.
After reading The Weakness of Human Nature, I feel that "human nature is selfish", which is my first feeling after reading The Weakness of Human Nature. It is precisely because people are selfish that egoism will occupy a place in interpersonal communication. The weakness of human nature tells people how to overcome "egoism", how to win friendship and influence others. There were many versions of "The Weakness of Human Nature" before, and I only read it occasionally, but I was not able to read the article carefully until I had the author list version of "The Weakness of Human Nature". What I appreciate most in this edition is the exclusive addition of several illustrations. These illustrations undoubtedly add a lot of interest and attract quite a few readers. Dale Carnegie, the author of The Weakness of Human Nature, is the father of modern adult education in the United States, a psychologist and interpersonal relationship scientist, and is regarded as the greatest spiritual mentor in the 20th century.
The New York Times once commented on Carnegie: "In addition to the Statue of Liberty, Carnegie is a symbol of the United States." It is true that Carnegie would never have written such a "social classic" without his profound insight into human nature. Carnegie saw "human nature" clearly through his own life experience and understood the weakness of "self-centeredness" in human nature. So, in the book "The Weakness of Human Nature", we see the detailed and vivid examples cited by the author. From this, we can see the simple and clear rules of interpersonal communication given by the author.
In the contemporary society where chicken soup is rampant, the weakness of human nature is indeed "dry goods", which brings a touch of bright color to inspirational culture. It is definitely different from those sensational chicken soup, but based on the comprehensive application of psychology and interpersonal relationships. The book is divided into six chapters, covering family life, business negotiation, company management, social communication, emotional communication and many other interpersonal rules. All these rules of interpersonal communication tell us to put people first, overcome the human weakness of "egoism", treat people with sincerity and courtesy. The weakness of human nature is indeed a very practical book. It is a panacea for impetuous people to guard against arrogance and rashness, a timely rain for those who are frustrated in love, and an exclusive secret recipe for those who are emotionally retarded ... It guides those who are confused about interpersonal communication and those who are confused, and it is worthy of being a "classic of interpersonal relationship". If there is no such effect, how can we explain that it has been reprinted several times since it came out and sold all over the world? Of course, it also has its audience. For people with mature psychology, decent behavior and familiarity with interpersonal relationships, there is naturally no need to waste time on this book. Therefore, whether to read this classic or not still needs everyone to look at it according to their own facts.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature" and reading a good book, people can benefit a lot. I recently read a good book, from which I learned a lot. That book is a weakness of human nature.
The book The Weakness of Human Nature was written by Dale Carnegie in America. I was about to leave the bookstore that day when I saw this book. The introduction of the cover-an inspirational classic that inspires thousands of readers to overcome difficulties and create a brilliant life-attracted me and made me buy it without hesitation. When I got home, I opened my book. Yes, I did. It's probably about how to communicate with people and let you know how to be a better person and how to overcome difficulties ... I can't put it down. I read the whole book at one sitting. So thick, but so attractive!
There is a short story that has a deep influence on me: "Before criticizing others, I criticize myself and say that the author has a secretary who is his niece. When he first took office, he did nothing and basically made mistakes everywhere. But whenever he made a mistake, the author didn't scold him, but told his secretary that he had made similar mistakes before, and then said how he corrected them and wouldn't make such mistakes again. Later, the secretary's job was like a completely different person, excellent ... There are many such stories in this book ... These stories are very extensive and all related to our daily life. From the middle of the story, people can know a lot, so we can learn a lot from people, by going up a flight of stairs.
This book is really worth reading. It is the second best seller in the world after the Bible. Reading can enrich our knowledge. Reading more good books can help us understand a lot of scientific knowledge. Reading can give us "clairvoyance". As the saying goes, "A scholar knows what's going on in the world without going out." "strategize and win a thousand miles." Read more books, you can know the past and know everything. Reading can enlighten us. Reading some books about history can stimulate our patriotic enthusiasm. Reading can improve our writing. Reading some books about writing can help us to correct some shortcomings in our composition, thus improving our writing level. Another advantage of reading is to prepare for our future life.
Reading can not only broaden our horizons, increase our knowledge, cultivate good self-study ability and reading ability, but also further consolidate all kinds of knowledge learned in class, improve our reading ability and composition ability, and even be of great help to the study of various subjects. Therefore, we should read more good books to enrich our life!
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