Love is a mysterious thing. When it comes, you can't resist it if you want to; Time's up. I can't catch it if I want to. It is this feeling of being at arm's length that makes many lovers in the world miserable. Many ancient legends about love are beautiful and fascinate the world. For example, The Fairy Couple. Yong Dong in The Fairy Couple is a poor farmer. By chance, she met the Seventh Princess who was stolen from the world. They fell in love at first sight and vowed to get married. Later, in order not to be separated from "xianggong", the Seventh Princess was deprived of her fairy bones and degraded to be a human being. From then on, the two of them lived a happy life.
I have thought about it countless times: a princess in heaven, who is so loved by people, is a daughter after all. No matter how sensible and gentle she is, how can she stand the life of a clear soup and scanty water? If it is for love, then I admire her loyalty to love. But as a princess, even if we respect each other as guests, there will always be many trivial things in life, especially Dong Yongjia, who is poor and has to be frugal in spending money. How can a princess stand it? What's more, their family backgrounds are very different, and their views on marriage, love and life are completely different. How can they live happily? The story has a beautiful ending, but their married life has been brushed aside. I think the storyteller has foreseen their future life, but he doesn't want to break the fantasy of love in the world, so he just ignores it.
The legend is full and the reality is skinny.
People in modern society are more open-minded and outspoken when they advocate love. But what a heavy word "love" is. Behind it lies the responsibility to each other and their families, and the oath of never giving up. Many people say their love easily, swear to each other for many years, and finally break up. Because their love has no material basis, all their promises are just empty words.
Many men will say, "I will treat you well all my life!" " "What is' good'? This means not only giving the woman spiritual consideration, but also taking responsibility for the other family, and these responsibilities must be based on material things.
Love is not a matter for two people. Love without material foundation is not firm. Without a material foundation, love will always decay with time.
So, don't say love easily, because at that time, our shoulders were too young to bear those responsibilities.