Remember: not as deep as the sky, but you can have the elegance of white clouds; There is no grandeur of the sea, but you can have the elegance of the stream; There are no evergreen pine and cypress, but you can have endless grass. ...
Yes, there are too many things you can't have, but you can actually have more as long as you find yourself.
Finding yourself is the premise of knowing yourself correctly. The so-called "the ruler is short and the inch is long." Of course, you are not a perfect person. You have your own shortcomings, but you also have your own advantages. First, find your own advantages. The discovery of your own advantages can enhance your self-confidence, and then this full affirmation of yourself will make you hold your head high and strut forward. Self-confidence, self-esteem and self-love. Constantly strive for self-improvement. By discovering your own shortcomings, you can prevent the breeding of arrogance. Advantages and disadvantages are like light and shadow. It is unfair and objective to deny any of them. Only by discovering their own advantages and disadvantages can people make an objective and comprehensive evaluation of themselves. They are neither arrogant nor self-deprecating.
Finding yourself is not only your own foundation. Only when people evaluate themselves objectively and comprehensively can they take targeted measures according to actual needs to learn from each other's strong points and achieve qualitative change through quantitative change, thus promoting their own leap. British Prime Minister Churchill is famous for his wonderful speeches. In his speech, his words, intonation, gestures and expressions all reveal extraordinary strength and courage. Churchill's radio speech during World War II became the spiritual pillar for British soldiers and civilians to resist fascist aggression. But who would have thought? In order to change himself, young Churchill discovered his strengths and weaknesses: persistence in dreams and shy personality. From then on, Churchill began to train himself strictly. After many years, he finally overcame his shortcomings and grew from a teenager who fell in love with Ai to a charismatic and shocking national leader.
In fact, everyone is a golden sand in the vast yellow sand. How difficult it is for people to recognize themselves in this golden eye! Therefore, Jinsha, which only expected others' affirmation, gradually regarded itself as an ordinary yellow sand without meeting Bole for a long time, thus burying itself. Those who can find their own sands can hold their heads indomitable under the scorching sun and show their distinctive brilliant light!
Find yourself, tomorrow will be different!