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On the ancient people's view of love from the love poems in The Book of Songs

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The Book of Songs is the earliest extant collection of poems describing the love between men and women in China, which, to some extent, reflects people's unique view of love at that time. Among them, love poems write the pure feelings of men and women in the Zhou Dynasty at the beginning of the perfection of the etiquette system, show the beautiful emotional world of mankind, and show the pure and healthy love view held by ancient people. In ancient times, people had a correct and noble understanding of love: young men and women had an attitude of "flowers can be folded straight" towards love; Single-minded attitude towards love, the concept of a lady with a gentleman; Obsession and persistent pursuit of love; When men and women are together, they show their pure and fresh nature; Take the way of falling in love at first sight; Gradually left a brand of customs on the concept of love. The love poems in The Book of Songs have left us an indelible emotional brilliance, which will always inspire our future generations to pursue the true meaning of love.

The courage to pursue love, the eager desire and pursuit of love, is frank and straightforward.

"The wind? Zhao Nan? There are plums: "there are plums, but there are actually seven!" Please me, scholar, please be lucky! There are plums, actually three! Beg me to learn, I will do it today! There are plums and a basket! Beg me to learn! "This is a girl's emotional song when picking plums, revealing her desire to cherish youth and love. Taking the ripeness of plums as a metaphor, she bluntly expressed her desire to get married. The girl in the poem falls off from the yellow ripe fruit of plum trees, becoming scarce and few left. When she thought that her precious youth was passing away quietly and quickly, she couldn't help singing a heart sound of expecting a man to woo her and marry her. This short poem expresses women's desire and pursuit of love tactfully, delicately and boldly from touching the scene (the change of plum) to feeling (eager to propose) and from being excited to being endowed.

There is an obsession and persistent pursuit of love.

Love is the purest expression of human feelings and the most charming flower in human emotional world. It is precisely because of its endless mystery that it attracts people's unremitting pursuit. "The wind? Qin Feng? The poem Jiaxu truly reproduces the unique mentality of people who fall in love because of infatuation. Their infatuation is unpredictable, that infatuation, that infatuation, that loneliness, that helplessness, that lingering, that persistence, although not a word, are all between the lines. The poem Jiaxu has been passed down through the ages because of the hero's obsession and persistent pursuit of love: difficulties and dangers on the road can't stop him, and repeated failures can't make him shrink back. He goes up and down, not afraid of hardship. This love sings the eternal ideal and pursuit theme of human beings. People have fun in the process of constant pursuit, so that the soul is constantly sublimated. Therefore, love has naturally become the eternal theme of human beings, as French romain rolland said: "Love is a permanent belief.

Self-consciousness in the face of marriage breakdown

Under the values that men are superior to women and the moral ethics that bind women, ancient women were abandoned from time to time. In The Book of Songs, the poems of abandoning wives account for a large proportion. Among them, Feng Wei? Self-protection is the most representative.

Meng tells the story of the heroine from love and marriage to being abused and abandoned. Accuse her husband of ruthlessness and express her affection: "I don't have to worry about my wife." Scholars are anxious. It can still be said. Women are anxious. I can't say it. "

The characters and events written in the poem are very representative, revealing the oppression and oppression suffered by ancient women and reflecting the unreasonable reality of the unequal marriage system in which men are superior to women.

It can be seen from the poem that women in feudal society had no effective guarantee in the marriage system. They may be mercilessly abandoned by their husbands at any time, so they can only accept their fate. However, they did not submit to humiliation, but dared to express their dissatisfaction, complain from their hearts, accuse their husbands of atrocities and criticize social inequality. This is the embodiment of women's independent consciousness when their marriage broke down.

Sincere, simple, positive and healthy concept of love (happiness without prostitution, sadness without injury)

The love in The Book of Songs is sincere and natural, abandoning secular prejudice, which is the emotional expression of individual life instinct. The love poems in The Book of Songs, whether about the success or failure of love, happiness, troubles, gains and losses, or changes in separation and integration, all have the characteristics of "righteousness", that is, the feelings of these love poems are sincere, warm, simple and healthy, and "wind" is best at describing people's temperament and infecting readers to educate people. Poems in the "Wind" in The Book of Songs can blow everything like the natural spring breeze, giving out "Wan", such as Nan Zhou? Guan Ju is talking about men's love for women. Nan Zhou? The poem Guan Yu enthusiastically expresses a gentleman's love and pursuit for a gentle, beautiful, virtuous and honest woman. "Guan Yu's pigeon, in Hezhou, is a gentle and graceful lady, and a gentleman is good." Expressed her admiration and desire to accompany her, and her feelings were simple and sincere.

In the poem, a gentleman falls in love with a beautiful girl who picks leeks, but "insatiability". He can only pin his good wishes on his inner admiration and imagination. The pursuit of this "gentleman" failed, but his psychology and behavior were positive and healthy. But when he is "popular", he can strictly control his feelings and behaviors. He feels that only with his talent and morality can he win the girl's heart. Gentlemen also adopt a relatively healthy and positive attitude when pursuing ladies. He hopes to impress the girl's heart with his sincerity. So he took the civilized action of "Friends of Harp" and "Music of Bells and Drums", trying to impress and attract girls. This poem fully embodies the simplicity of folk customs, the integrity of human nature and the harmony of sound and gas at that time.

Pay attention to ethics, follow etiquette, and the concept that a lady matches a gentleman.

"The wind? Nan Zhou? Guanju is the opening work of The Book of Songs, and it is also a love poem, which reflects the ancient people's attention to marriage and family. Family is the basic unit of social organization, and it is composed of a married man and a married woman. In the five rounds of our interpersonal relationship in China, the relationship between husband and wife began. Marriage is no joke. After marriage, men and women have various obligations and responsibilities. Not only for the reproduction of future generations, but also for promoting the evolution of society. So a good concept of marriage and family is very important. The ancient concept of marriage and family attached great importance to ethics and basically followed the ceremony.

Some love poems in The Book of Songs not only express the attitudes of ancient young men and women towards love, but also reveal their views on mate selection. Nan Zhou? Guan Yu: "Guan Yu's dove is in Hezhou. My Fair Lady is a gentleman, and the "good lady" in a man's mind is a lady, and it is a quiet, quiet and serene lady, just like the preface to Shi Mao in the late Han Dynasty. It is worth mentioning that the man in the poem is generous in pursuing love only when he thinks that "My Fair Lady" is a good spouse in his mind (a gentleman is a good gentleman), rather than the simple "My Fair Lady, a gentleman is a good gentleman" that is popular in everyone's mouth. This "direct" is not "seeking".

Furthermore, The Book of Songs not only expresses sincere feelings and healthy love, but also highlights the pursuit of noble morality by the hero and heroine. In addition to Nan Zhou's Guan Ju, which advocates that a lady should match a gentleman, Ge Tan focuses on showing a girl's diligence and filial piety, Yao Tao wants the bride to live in IKEA, and the national wind advocates that a woman should be virtuous. For example, the young man in "Zheng Feng has a lesbian car" is not only "Yan Rushun Hua" to the bride-Jiang Meng, but also walks generously, virtuous and noble, which is impressive. The young man is full of love for her. In Xiaoya? In "Cecilio", the poet who went to the Song State to marry the bride also happily married a virtuous bride, as if the six reins in his hand had become the strings of the piano, expressing the poet's values of mate selection. It can be said that the Han nationality attaches equal importance to the unnatural beauty of charm and the elegant inner beauty of virtue, and demands the perfect unity of the two.

Naive and simple, romantic and free, sincere and pure, natural and natural emotional expression.

Love is a unique feeling of human beings, a spontaneous and involuntary emotional impulse, and an individual's self-choice. The love in The Book of Songs is warm and romantic, fresh and pure, the communication between hearts, and the collision between feelings.

Nan Zhou? The author of the poem Guanluo enthusiastically expressed his love and pursuit for a beautiful, virtuous and honest chicken-picking woman. "Guan pheasant dove, in Hezhou, is a gentle and graceful lady, and a gentleman is good." She expressed her admiration and yearning for companionship, with simple and sincere feelings, long joy and light sadness, which showed the frankness and agility of love between men and women.

The party between men and women is the most fascinating thing for young people in love, and it is also the most important part of the whole love life. What attitude lovers have towards love and how they feel about each other can be completely expressed from the modality when they meet. In ancient times, the feelings between young lovers were very sincere and pure, which freed them from the bondage of powder and material shell and was the natural expression of the original state of human nature. "The wind? Hurricane? The quiet girl truly reproduces the fresh and pure feelings of men and women in love: "quiet girl, I am in the corner of the city." Deliberately hiding for me to find, scratching my head. The quiet girl looks good. Give me a tong tube. Red has a bright red color. Love it is really a bright color. This country exploits me, Meili Yi and is rare. Prostitutes think beauty is embarrassing. "A man is waiting for his lover in a corner of the city, and he is impatient to scratch his head. My lover came and gave him a gift, a tube and a hairpin. He fondled the motorcycle, not because the gift was special, but because it was given by a beautiful woman. This tube looks ordinary, but it represents a woman's sincere and pure love for him. Feelings are delicate and sincere. This poem vividly expresses the pure and romantic first love feelings of boys and girls, which not only depicts the innocent beauty of women and the simple infatuation of men, but also shows their deep affection, joy, health and sincere love.

The Book of Songs, as a true record of the life experiences of ethnic youth, shows us the beautiful and pure emotional world of human beings and reflects the pure and healthy view of love in ancient times. These poems not only show respect for the noumenon of human life and strong appeal for individual value, but also show people's lofty understanding of love and their warm and healthy demand for love at that time. Emotionally, they are sincere, sincere, warm, simple and healthy, and they are the true feelings and natural expressions of human true feelings. The Book of Songs praised the purity, naturalness and naturalness of the communication between men and women in the Zhou Dynasty at the beginning of the perfection of the etiquette system, and showed the respect for the noumenon of human life and the strong pursuit of human individual value. This is the most brilliant and simple thought in China's ancient culture. To sum up, it is pure and beautiful, positive and healthy, practical and rational, and noble in morality.

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