Five argumentative essays on high school students' family style 1 Things are wrong, things are wrong. People from generation to generation have changed several times, and there may not be much left, but the spirit is passed down from generation to generation. The wisdom of ancestors' production and life has become the wealth of future generations. Family style and family instructions are more important. It is the crystallization of several generations' ideas.
Every time I watch TV series, I am shocked by the harsh or grandiose family style. The ancestral temple played on it, the ancestral memorial tablets are arranged in a peremptory way, and we dare not be careless. It leaves spiritual excitement and spiritual comfort for future generations, and future generations are also proud of the prosperity of their predecessors. Family rules are more sacred. There will always be a thick family rule to judge whether you are right or wrong when you finish anything. The names of your ancestors are inviolable. Of course, this is a TV series. In daily life, I have never seen such a big ostentation and extravagance.
It is undeniable that even if there are no heavy family rules, every family will have several words passed down from generation to generation, or several principles of being a man. Our family is no exception. Grandpa is a veteran, and his parents are both made in party member and China. Naturally, this throttle training is indispensable. I am a naughty post-90 s Xiong Haizi, where can I stand this imprisonment! But as a new youth in the 2 1 century and a flower of the motherland, I certainly want to correct my conduct and leave more. Therefore, some family rules and family instructions will still play a positive role in dealing with people.
When I was a child, my grandfather grew up with me. He always tells me how important it is to be calm and calm. When I was a child, Mao Mao was very manic. I didn't take it seriously at all. But as I get older, I realize more and more how important it is to be calm and calm. The low-key point of these four words is actually calm, that is, calm at any time and under any circumstances. It can not only alleviate the influence of bad things, but also enhance your personality charm. Impatience gradually faded, and calmness made me invincible. In fact, this calmness is first transformed into calmness, and finally sublimated into grace. Maybe after years of precipitation and washing, it will make me elegant and intellectual. No matter how reserved these things are, they can't be faked, and they can't be learned in a short time. They paved a slightly flat road for women for me.
Calm and calm reflects the other side of life-talking. Don't talk about it every day, but there is too much knowledge in it, and not many people can really keep a good balance. This is too much to say, especially broken, especially wordy; Talking too little means that you are too slow and inflexible. If you can handle this well, you will be more valuable to others, which is also a demonstration of your ability. It is the calmness of speaking and doing things in life that makes me better. This is what family discipline has brought me, and I am very grateful.
Family precepts are around each of us and play a role inadvertently. The family air door training that has been washed and practiced for so long by years is still shining.
If you pay attention, you will find how neat the flower beds on the roadside are. The plants inside don't grow wantonly on the road, but behave themselves in their own small world and never cross the edge of the flower bed. The flowers and plants born in the wilderness are at sixes and sevens, making it difficult for people to move forward half a step. Parents are like gardeners, and children are like these flowers and plants. Without pruning, it is difficult to become a talent. Family style and family precepts are invisible scissors that affect children.
The best diamonds must be cut. Unless you learn, you will become an animal.
Learning and flogging are the family precepts of our family, just like a small tree that has no support when it is young. When it grows up, it may be called a worthless tree and can only be used as firewood. If a person does not flog when he is a child and goes astray, it will be difficult for him to return to the right path in the future. Behavior should be regulated and restrained from an early age, so that it can become a habit, and it can be better self-disciplined when it grows up.
All virtues put filial piety first, regardless of traces.
Filial piety is a family style in our family, just like an old saying: "filial piety of all virtues comes first, regardless of their hearts." For example, at home, the older generation says they are alive, and the younger generation should listen carefully. Even if they are wrong, don't blame them in person, and you can remind them quietly afterwards. Don't talk loudly, don't contradict the old man, don't move chopsticks in front of the old man, and don't stand up and sit for the younger generation. The family is old. I have been influenced by this ethos since I was a child, and I have formed the habit of respecting the old and loving the young. Even when I am away from home, I will remember these teachings, and good habits will be brought to the society to infect more people. Filial piety focuses on the heart and is not good at it. Just like a rich man, he sends money to his parents every month and hires a nanny, but he doesn't often go home to see them. This can't be called filial piety. This is false filial piety.
Family training refers to the family's instruction to children and grandchildren to live and manage their families in the world, which has a binding effect on personal education and principles. Family precepts will continue to spread with the development of families. Similarly, family precepts can also be used as a family image. When a family is talked about by others, people will first think of family precepts, which symbolize the quality of the family. Family precepts also play an important role in the prosperity of the motherland, and the prosperity of the country is naturally inseparable from good family precepts.
Family style is a family cultural style passed down from generation to generation, which reflects the spiritual outlook, moral quality, aesthetic style and overall temperament of family members. Family style is often formed because there is an outstanding person in the family who is admired by other family members, and then after several generations of family members abide by their ancestral teachings.
As the saying goes, "the family style is rigorous, and future generations will be generations." Yes, the family style of a family leads to the quality of the family, which is very important for its long-term spread and reproduction. The family style is "rigorous", and our family is probably a counterexample. But in my eyes, our family style has been labeled as "serious and relaxed, demanding but not suffocating"
There are "good characters and bad characters" in movie novels, and Home is no exception. Mom is synonymous with serious education, and dad is the role of comforting us and making us laugh after we are criticized. Well, they're back to their original colors.
"Look, look, how many points did you get this time? A few days ago, Hai watched TV every day, and his mobile phone didn't even give up eating. And you look at yourself, you are half a wall high, clothes and quilts are still littered ... "My mother's voice sounds a little angry, looking at the anger shining in her eyes, it is estimated that there is still an end to growth, so I have to silently and sincerely lower my head and be criticized for being so big! Don't answer if you make a mistake? ..... "My mother seems to be more angry at my silence. Yu Guang noticed that his mother's palm was about to fall, and his heart tightened, gritting his teeth and waiting for punishment. Nervous bugs are eating away at my heart bit by bit. It's like a year of fear. However, there is no imaginary pain. I looked up and my father stood in front of me, pretending to be angry and "scold" me for being naughty. Hey, hey, I'm relieved. Fortunately, my father appeared. Mom was still angry and looked at me by luck. Smiling makes her face stink. "You have to look like a middle school student!" "At some point, he began to ask-how about the exam results, how to tidy up the room, independence, independence and so on. I am like a cat that stole the smell, laughing to escape this little robbery. How's it going? I suppose your family also has a good policeman and a bad policeman?
Although my father always rescues me in time with my mother's help, although he always greets me with a smile and often jokes with us, he attaches great importance to my study. In particular, I was asked to "study independently." In his view, "autonomous learning" means "active learning". He thinks my personal attitude towards learning is very important. In his opinion, as long as the score is not low, it is enough. Therefore, whenever my mother is upset about my grades and doesn't give me a good look, my father is my lifeline, always making me happy and giving me comfort and care.
I grew up in this occasionally nervous but happy family. From small to large, it is always accompanied by mother's strictness and father's care. I am very grateful to such a family, such a father and mother. They taught me to be more mature and independent than my peers. Without their education, I would not be who I am today. They let me know how to be grateful, how to get along, how to feel, and how to deal with people.
I really like this "family style" that pays equal attention to kindness and prestige.
Research on family style of senior high school students: 4. Family is nursery and children are seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Children can only be outstanding if they are influenced by a good family style. Recently, with the popularity of the word "family style", I can't help seeing photos of my grandparents educating me.
When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates when you go to school." If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I'll go to your teacher. " ! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me a "political lesson" when I'm free, tells some classic stories, and teaches me to be frank when things go wrong, to get along well with teachers and classmates at school, and not to always have conflicts with others. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates.
Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experiences in military service, and warns me: "Few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. You must learn to bear hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do great things! " Grandpa also taught me: "Only by suffering can you become a master." Only after experiencing an unbearable environment can we cultivate real talents and excel in our future work and life. Perhaps this is "the sky is going to drop, and people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies and skins", I think.
Now, I have entered high school and become a high school student. I have developed a good habit of being helpful, hard-working and simple. Come to think of it carefully, these are closely related to our family style. Grandma still gives me a "political lesson" before going to school every time, and grandpa still tells me the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation from time to time before and after meals, such as thrift and hard work. I'm happy to listen to them, because that's a good family style in our family.
I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Nowadays, some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and "positive energy" has been passed down. If we add a good family style to the construction, the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's life will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!
Family Style of Senior High School Students Five Family Styles are like role models, with good role models and bad role models. -inscription
Home is our most trustworthy harbor. If the family style is the water in this small bay, we are the fish raised in this bay. "Water" made us, and we succeeded in "water". Half of the good habits we have developed since childhood depend on school education and the other half are influenced by family style. It is the family style maintained by my parents that has made me.
I first learned about "family style" in the third grade. I had an argument with my classmates on campus that day and was very unhappy. After returning home, grandpa asked, "Is the grandchild back?" I was unhappy, so I replied, "Who else but me? ! "Grandpa frowned slightly, like a crescent moon. When my father heard this, he was angry at once, but he still suppressed his anger and said, "What you just did was wrong. You refuted grandpa. Please apologize to grandpa. " I replied, "How am I wrong? I just answered my grandfather's question. " Looking back now, it is really "difficult to toast". Dad was angry and annoyed, but he didn't do it at last. He's just laying out the facts and reasoning with his heart.
At that time, I was really "a newborn calf is not afraid of tigers". Listening to my father's teachings, I can't refute a word. I'm getting more and more angry. I don't want to listen, so I want to go into my room and do my homework. Just as I was about to enter the door, I kicked the door again. Terrible! I kicked my foot on the latch! I screamed with pain.
As soon as my father heard me calling, he ran to me, held me in one hand and pulled down my socks in the other. I looked at it carefully and immediately ran to get iodophor and cotton swabs to disinfect me. Seeing that the swelling had disappeared a little, he was not idle and went to see the doctor next door. Finally, it's nothing serious. He took a deep breath and said, "Be careful next time and say something."
I feel very strange in my heart: why did my father's reaction at this time change so much from when I was educated before? The next thing, it solved my doubts.
On the sofa, tell dad what happened at school today. My mother came back and listened to my description and said, "Our family is very open and never cares what others say about us." But I still feel very wronged. My father said the family style inherited from Grandpa Gaozu: criticize and correct mistakes in time, but never start work; For things that cannot be changed in time, let nature take its course. Although I was still young at that time, I also understood that it was very important, so I deeply remembered it in my mind.
Under the influence of this family style, although I am a little elegant, I am only a little superficial. I have to keep trying. My family style has been passed down for more than ten generations, but I can't break the inheritance in my hands.
It is precisely because of the influence of family style that I slowly change every day, like water droplets starting to converge into rivers, like saplings starting to grow into towering trees, like star crumbs starting to condense into twinkling stars. Family style changes me and refines me, and I will grow more perfect in this river!