This sentence reveals the important principles of dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference. People should have a broad mind. When dealing with people, don't be narrow-minded, be generous and forgive others. If you push something you hate to others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things deadlocked and out of control. The communication between people should really adhere to this principle, which is the embodiment of respecting others and treating others equally. In this world, we should not only pay attention to our own existence, but also pay attention to the existence of others. Everyone is equal. Do not do to others what you don't want them to do to you.

"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is biased in today's era. On the premise of "goodness", my experience is that different people have different desires, and what one person "doesn't want" may be exactly what another person "wants"; "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" or "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is more in line with the spirit of complementary resources and harmonious coexistence.

The whirlpool of "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you"

It is difficult for us not to deal with people. In interpersonal communication, we often unconsciously fall into the whirlpool of "don't do to others what you don't want us to do to you", such as giving gifts that we think we like to friends, reporting good suggestions to leaders, telling our families what we think is good, and educating our children in the right way. Ignoring the differences between ourselves and them often has little effect: friends may not really like them, and leaders may not. It is not that they are wrong, but that we are wrong. We love them in our own way! Love cannot be done!

Equality and inequality.

Just as our society advocates equality between men and women, after all, equality between men and women is not equality. Women do what suits them in their work and life, just as men do what suits men. Equality of personality does not mean equality. People with different talents do what suits them.

"Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you"

Life is like a plate of pickled fish. If you don't like it, don't give it to others, but if you can find it and give it to someone you like, it will be more moral!

The same is true at work, things you don't like to do, such as: some people don't like sales work, some people don't like filing work, and some people don't like socializing. Wouldn't it be better to find someone you like and let them do business?

Type nine personality gives us a map of human nature, a map of not doing to others what you don't want others to do, but it is not omnipotent. Its advantages are too easy to use, and its disadvantages are too easy to use!