"Gold is not enough, and no one is perfect". No one in the world is perfect, even immortals and great men have their own shortcomings. In the face of other people's shortcomings, some people always struggle, some people always exaggerate, and some even pick bones out of thin air. "If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if people observe it, there will be no disciples." In this way, both relatives and friends will leave you quietly. In the end, you are left alone and inseparable, a lonely you. In the face of their own shortcomings, some people always turn a blind eye, some people always go their own way, and some people are not even ashamed but proud. Find fault with others and forgive yourself; Be hard on others and indulge yourself; Reject others and admire yourself. Who will recognize you like this? Who is still close to you? Who can accommodate you? To get along with others, it is important to allow differences, differences and reservations about each other's views; It is important to discover the advantages of others, their strengths and their light; It is important to appreciate the loveliness of others, the inner essence of others and the spirit of others with appreciation; It is important to encourage others, influence others, shape others and achieve others with the power of love. It is inevitable that the song is high and few. Blindly thinking about the shortcomings of others, blindly thinking about the flaws of others, blindly thinking about other people's problems, is helpless to oneself, useless to others, and useless. "There are hundreds of rivers and rivers, and there is great tolerance." Open your heart and accept others, and you will continue to be perfect. When getting along with others, the most important thing is to find faults from yourself first. Find your own shortcomings, then analyze it, dissect it and solve it. Only in this way can you really arm yourself, make yourself strong, become good at dancing, become comfortable and invincible.