Who would have thought that the patriarchal clan system would become the focus of controversy today after several generations? Family gatherings held by the elders on holidays have become the distress of the younger generation. Its essence is the decline of traditional culture, and young people are losing their roots.

Indeed, family gatherings have existed since ancient times, and people who don't want to attend them have existed since ancient times. Now the controversy has undoubtedly caused waves, because this controversy has become a social problem. As a young man, I can fully understand Xiao Wang's feelings-faced with a series of direct questions from a group of elders I am not familiar with about my studies, career and marriage, I will inevitably feel at a loss; Moreover, in today's population migration is so easy, the clan foundation in various regions, especially in the Central Plains, has long been weakened and replaced by people of the same clan who are scattered all over the country and drifting away from each other. It's not easy to get together, what's more, the atmosphere is very cold when they get together. Xiao Wang's distress does have its basis.