I also know that growth refers to a process of change. Some habits can't be formed in a day or two. It's always easy to say change, but it's definitely another matter to actually do it. To be clear, changing habits is actually a process of cutting off tumors with a knife.
"Everything will be a thing of the past!" This sentence was screened out from thousands of famous sayings and became my motto. Because I know that today, no matter how many joys and sorrows, how many honors, how many wrongs and wrongs, it can only be a landscape in the train journey of fate. Many people regret missing the wonderful scenery, but at the same time they often miss the splendid scenery they just want to see now.
In my opinion, the existence of life should be in the following three forms: first, living in tomorrow is a hope, a vision, a fairy tale divorced from reality; The second is to live yesterday, can you say? This is the reflection of memory, the ending of * * *, and the heart is getting old; In the final analysis, what I want most is a kind of life existence, that is, to live today! What is the most important, what you are doing now is the most important! Only by doing what you are doing well can you have a good mood to do the next thing well. And life is like a long chain, and every link is everything we do. Whether we accumulate a lot of money or get bad karma depends on our own choice.
The quality of life comes from erin brockovich's attitude towards life. This "erin brockovich", I think, should refer to the firm belief in doing everything well!
Everyone lives in his own environment and has his own ideological system to guide his speech and behavior. Or solemn, or humorous, or dignified, or unpretentious. ...
What I want to say here, or what I want to oppose, is about three aspects of life attitude.
First, be serious.
One day, I kept a straight face and was self-centered, but I dared not cross the line. I firmly believe that my own is authentic and others' is circuitous. On such a day, talking about life and thinking about life are very tired.
Second, be confident.
It's always good to be reasonable and direct, at least it means that it's not you who did the wrong thing. But strength is unnecessary, because this thing is always associated with aggressiveness and unreasonable troubles, and its consequences are always malodorous, which violates the basic norms of a harmonious society. More importantly, it is not always you who are confident. Do as you would be done by.
Third, self-righteousness.
Stubbornness is a terrible disease, always thinking that you are right and not listening to foreign opinions. There is no way to correct it, but to grow? When the fruit is ripe, it enters the human abdomen, otherwise it is the beginning of decay. When a person's mind is mature, it is the time when he completes the mission entrusted to him by life in this life. If this maturity is abnormal maturity, then his mission is like a poisonous fruit!
Cherish the present, seriously feel the joys and sorrows that life brings us, store our feelings and discard our hatred. I think this is my attitude towards life.
Different scenery affects different moods, and different attitudes will have different endings. Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards. Only by standing high can you see far.
People can only live once! Don't live too tired! If we can keep a normal mind, sit and watch the clouds fall and the flowers bloom and fall in Yun Qi, and go through the vicissitudes, we can get a good mood. Do ordinary things, be ordinary people, keep a healthy mind and a balanced mind. If we can treat every day with this most beautiful mood, every day will be full of sunshine and hope.
Every day and night, people are busy with their lives. No matter how big your contribution is, no matter how heavy your responsibility is, these are your missions. Don't be so dissatisfied. I feel that I am already very happy. There are many, many people who can't even maintain their own lives, but they are still so tenacious and cherish their precious lives. When considering problems, we should be more satisfied and less worried. As long as we are satisfied, we will be happy.
Tired, enough rest, will always recover. But the heart is tired, it is really difficult to recover, so difficult, so difficult! Life is full of ups and downs. In the face of these problems, there is only acceptance and patience. This is a test of our life. There are two attitudes that need us to accept the pressure brought by life: one is to accept it actively and happily, and the other is to accept it negatively and gloomily. Different attitudes you accept will of course lead to different results. Life is only a few decades, why can't we live happily and romantically?
In fact, everyone has a fragile side in his heart, and living tired is also our constant state of mind, but we still have to live. Life is only once for each of us, so cherish it!
A person's life, whether poor or rich; Romantic or coquettish; No matter how you live, it's a lifetime. Finally, it will become a wisp of smoke and a pile of loess! In this life, none of us can escape fear, shock, worry, thinking, sadness, bitterness, sadness, injury, joy, anger and joy; Inevitably, you will die of old age. Therefore, life is the greatest gift from God. Cherish life, cherish your health, cherish affection, friendship and love!
It will be a blessing if you can spend this day safely and happily. In a short day, everyone will face the pressure of work, study and life, family harmony and interpersonal relationships among relatives, friends and colleagues. All this needs your proper management and handling. It's really hard to cover everything, or just do it right. No matter what you can't handle well, it will bring you unhappiness and trouble.
The road of life can't be smooth sailing. Everyone may encounter some setbacks and failures, and may also encounter unsatisfactory things. The problem is to see how you face it. It is not difficult to be a happy person. First of all, we must maintain an optimistic attitude, and secondly, we must have a normal heart. Don't attach too much importance to fame, money and love, and don't pursue it deliberately. We should take it lightly and lose it calmly.
Actually, whether a person is happy or not depends entirely on himself. If you are looking for happiness, it may be around you, otherwise troubles will visit you. Besides, there is no perfect life in the world, in fact, everything is conservative. Learn to forget, the more happy space, the less troublesome space, as long as you live happily and freely, your life will be wonderful!
You are tired, please put your heart on the shore; If you are wrong, don't think about regret; Only when you are bitter can you know how to be satisfied; Only when you are injured can you know how to be strong; Smile before you realize beauty; Bored, go and talk to your lover. Hey hey!