Experience of teachers' home visits
During the family visit, I found that parents pay more attention to their children's early education, whether it is their own education level or the family's economic conditions. Children learn painting, musical instruments and calligraphy from an early age, and some even take various grades. Of course, not all students who visit at home are like this, but we can see that parents now attach importance to their children's education. As a teacher and a parent, I was deeply moved. Because I know that every achievement a child has made, even a small one, is closely related to the selfless efforts of his parents. While moving, I also feel that the responsibility on my shoulders is great. As an ordinary teacher, the work is hard and ordinary. Ordinary as daily necessities in life, ordinary as a drop of water in the Yangtze River, but I'm glad I can find my ordinary position. There are many things to seek in life. I think living happily every day is happiness. The understanding, recognition, affirmation and support of students and parents are the most precious, including love that can warm people's hearts, make people satisfied and make people happy. Home visits are very tiring, but I have learned a lot of valuable things, which makes me feel really happy.
The second part is the teacher's home visit experience.
I am a primary school teacher. I am also a child who came out of the mountains. I deeply understand the poverty caused by inconvenient transportation, so I am determined to go out of the mountains and change the face of myself and my hometown. During the home visit, we went deep into xxx children's families, first explained the purpose of our visit, then exchanged views and took photos. In the process of communication, we learned that this family is not easy. The father's own situation, the child's situation and other reasons make us feel obligated to support this little girl. As the saying goes, reach out and hold me and make the world a better place. Although xxx was born in this family, her lively and cheerful personality has not been affected at all. Her correct and neat font and polite attitude make it all the more necessary for us to help her. Although we don't have much financial ability yet, I believe that people around us will help these people bit by bit and let them feel warm and caring.
During the home visit, we also learned that xxx's father's daily income is only 20 yuan, which is far from enough to cover the living expenses and other expenses of a family. Suddenly, an idea flashed through my mind. Did he suffer too many setbacks and kill his positive fighting spirit? Here, I have to deeply sigh that children can live so well and so upward. As a father, why doesn't dad tan? We also went with director Ma Changzhai. After learning about this situation, the director said to Tan's father, "Migrant workers can learn some skills and train, so that their wages can be at least a little higher than now to support their families." Yes! There is such a good opportunity, why not enrich yourself.
The third part is the teacher's home visit experience.
We carried out the second stage of work-home visit. Our home visits are mainly aimed at parents. Through communication with parents, we can learn more about children, the growth and educational environment of rural children, and the western education in the eyes of parents. At the same time, for each child, give parents advice on family education, so that children can develop in a good direction and make their future clearer. In my impression, parents in rural areas pay special attention to children's learning. The hardships of past dynasties made them yearn for the world beyond the mountains, and every parent would want their children to live a happy life. However, it may be due to regional differences, and the situation I imagined did not appear during the home visit. Every time I go to a family, my parents warmly welcome me in a unique way in the countryside. After a brief greeting, we got down to business and began to discuss children's education. At this time, the atmosphere is obviously not as good as before. After my observation, there are roughly two kinds of parents. One is that the family conditions are good, they can afford the children's schooling expenses, and they will make extra investments for their children. There is also a poor family condition, thinking about the future of children, but there is no way to pay too much, which will make children do a lot of farm work. For the former, parents pay a lot, but not enough attention. Their minds are not completely focused on their children's education, on the contrary, they will be less than the latter.
They may think that it is enough to provide a good condition for their children, but it is not. Children are still young, and the focus should be on fostering education. Good family education is very important for children. For the latter, they deeply understand the hardships of life, so they hope their children can get rid of suffering and live a happy life. They are very concerned about their children's study, but they can only worry, because life is life after all.
We went to several classmates' homes with good academic performance. They are all excellent students in middle school. All the way, I listened to Zhang Xianyue introducing the plants next to her and enjoying the beautiful scenery around her. Soon we arrived at Zhang Xianyue, and our parents treated us warmly. Her family belongs to the latter. Zhang Xianyue's mother went to middle school and attached great importance to her children's study. Moreover, her family is not very difficult, and her father is working outside. Zhang Xianyue's grandfather is an old man with high vision. After listening to his words, we were really moved and pleased. We think it is admirable for an old man in his sixties to have such knowledge. In view of Zhang Xianyue's timid and shy personality, we put forward many suggestions, which can be regarded as some experiences of our reading for so many years. In my opinion, teachers always like students who love to ask questions and often go to the teacher's office to pick up girls. We introduced this "experience" to Liu Ling and asked Zhang Xianyue's mother to help guide us.
Chapter IV Teachers' Home Visit Experience
In order to effectively promote the work of students in our college and implement the spirit of "Thousands of Counselors Visiting Thousand" by the Provincial College Working Committee, our college launched the "Thousands of Counselors Visiting Thousand" activity during the winter vacation of 20xx. A child, he has many aspects of performance that I can't perceive through naked eyes or oral communication at school. Children's inner world is invisible and needs our heart to understand. A child, even if he has thousands of shortcomings, is not voluntary. His life and education may have decisive factors for him. I visited two classmates at home this time. Although not much, I have gained a lot, and I really feel the necessity of home visits.
During home visits, we often hear some parents asking teachers to strictly educate their children. Both parents said, "Children don't listen to their parents, but only to their teachers. It is no problem for the teacher to be strict. " They put all the responsibilities and hopes of education on teachers. It is our duty to cherish the family line and reassure our parents. We must do our work well with great enthusiasm and hard work. However, the growth of students is the result of social, family and school education. Parents should also give their children more advice in this regard to better assist students in their growth.
In addition, teachers should pay attention to the artistry of speaking during home visits. Teachers' home visits should be sincere, properly measured and measured, and parents' opinions should be patiently listened to under any circumstances. Even if some viewpoints are not necessarily correct, we should find our own aspects to consider. They must not let their emotions affect their parents or students, let alone say something that hurts the self-esteem of students and parents because they are temporarily unhappy. Therefore, teachers should first understand their parents' personalities during home visits, speak tactfully at first contact, and hold an attitude of respecting each other. Only by respecting parents will parents respect your teacher and cooperate with the teacher to educate their children. For example, such a student in my home visit has poor study habits. When visiting my home, I will avoid the word "poor" when talking to my parents, and replace it with "unsatisfactory" so as not to hurt the self-esteem of my parents and students.
Then through home visits, I got some information about the class, because some things students may not tell their teachers, but they may tell their parents, so that I can know what problems still exist in the class or what omissions exist in class management.
The last feeling is that we should pay attention to feedback during home visits. This means not only observing the face and color, but also paying attention to the reaction of parents and students, and also considering the content and wording of the conversation during home visits. After the home visit, we should pay more attention to the changes of students and test the effect of home visit. Fourth, strengthen the supervision of students after home visits and consolidate the effect of home visits. Every progress of students, especially the progress of underachievers, is often not achieved in one step, and there must be a repeated process. Most teachers turn a blind eye to students after home visits, thinking that coming back from home visits means completing a task, which is wrong. It can be said that the effect of such home visits on students will not be ideal. After the home visit, the teacher should supervise the students in time, which is a crucial link in the whole home visit process. Because home visits will definitely cause psychological impact to students in different degrees, students are fighting against "positive thoughts" and "negative factors" in their hearts, and they urgently need external motivation to purify and improve their thoughts.
Every home visit will have various feelings. Although the two-day home visit is over, there is still room for teachers to sum up and reflect. This time, Party A not only let me know more about several classmates, but more importantly, let me see the shortcomings in my work. In the future, I will treat every student more sincerely and accompany them to grow up.