1. Write an article of not less than 800 words on the topic "Asking others is not as good as asking yourself". In real life, everyone will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties.

When many people encounter difficulties, they often think of asking others for help, but forget themselves. They think others must be better than themselves.

More capable and experienced than yourself, you can help yourself solve problems and overcome difficulties. Don't ask for yourself, but ask for others, hoping to get their care, support and gift.

Because when you want something from others and you can't get it, you will be discouraged. This is inner poverty, and you don't know your wealth. In fact, this idea is wrong. We often just don't know that there are endless treasures in our hearts. We should find our own way out and work hard.

We have great development potential ourselves. Why don't we control our own destiny, but we have to beg others' pity and help? There used to be such a story; Someone was hiding from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by with an umbrella. The humanitarian said, "Guanyin Bodhisattva, how about spending some time with all beings and taking me for a while?" Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves." I don't need to spend it. "

The man immediately jumped off the eaves and stood in the rain: "now I'm in the rain, too." Is it time to treat me? " Guanyin said, "You are in the rain and I am in the rain. I didn't get wet because of an umbrella.": You were caught in the rain because there was no umbrella. So it's not me, it's me.

If you want to spend money, don't look for me, please find your own umbrella! "Say that finish and went away. The next day, the man was in trouble and went to the temple to ask for Guanyin.

When I walked into the temple, I found a man worshipping in front of Guanyin statue. That man looks exactly like Guanyin, not bad at all. The man asked, "Are you Guanyin?" The man replied, "I am Guanyin."

The man asked again, "Then why do you still worship yourself?" Guanyin said with a smile, "I have encountered difficulties, but I know that it is better to ask for help than to ask for help." It is better to rely on yourself than to seek help from others. "

It means that it is better to read Guanyin and ask for Guanyin than to make Guanyin yourself. In fact, learning Buddhism is to learn from yourself and to improve yourself.

Zen people have absolute self-esteem, and most Zen people have the spirit of "looking at the world and giving up who I am". The Zen master called "since the enlightenment's self-cultivation and self-improvement".

Looking around the world, everything is ours. We should not fantasize that life is always so perfect, nor that life will be like spring all the year round. Everyone's life will encounter bumps, taste bitterness and helplessness, and experience setbacks and bumps.

Instead of always relying on others for charity and help, it is better to work hard to be strong, because only you can really rely on yourself. My friends, when you set foot on the journey of life, the road has been extended under your feet. As long as you continue to sail on the endless sea, the wind will blow from all directions ... We must learn to be strong, self-respecting and stand on our own feet to face the storms in life.

Stand up bravely in the face of failure, and you will be half successful. Better to rely on yourself than to go to others for help. Don't forget, asking for help will lose face and dignity, and even asking for help may not necessarily solve our problems.

First of all, in this real society, everyone has everyone's world and everyone has everyone's mind. If the person you want happens to be a dog at the expense of others, he may take the opportunity to "hack" you, so he is not as good as Dont Ask For Help. Even if the other person is a gentleman, it will not always give up your own interests for you. Once or twice, it's ok. If it's too many times, he'll get bored. In the end, he won't even have friends.

The ancients said, "God helps those who stand on their own feet." This is a tried-and-true golden advice, which has long been confirmed by countless people's experiences in the long process of human history.

In terms of effect, external help will only make the recipients weak, while internal help will certainly make the self-rescuer proud and achieve unimaginable results. Everyone's fate is in their own hands. We should not seek help, but rely on our own energy to overcome all difficulties and create a miracle of life.

As the saying goes, "Since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" Yes, people come to this world with their own mission. Only by exerting one's own advantages as much as possible can one show the wonderful use of life. Yes, besides, it is better to ask for help than to ask for help.

Study like this, work like this, and live like this! We should admit ourselves, develop ourselves, and believe that "it is better to ask for others than to ask for ourselves". Thoreau once said, "If you want to have an unbreakable shield, you must stand among yourself."

If a leader wants to make a breakthrough in his career, he must rely on his own efforts, run his career with a conscientious and diligent attitude, and strive to tap his greatest potential and strive for self-improvement. "Where there is a will, there is a way, cross the rubicon, 120 Qin Guan will eventually return to Chu; Hard-working people, heaven rewards hard work, and never stops. More than three thousand armour can swallow Wu. " This is the power of self-struggle.

On the contrary, if you deny yourself and don't develop your own strength to forge ahead, you will never take the initiative in the competition, and you can only be controlled by others. This is tantamount to denying the future of the enterprise and "dying without fighting", which is naturally the most unforgivable mistake. Therefore, it is in this sense that "it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself", turning passivity into initiative and pinning hope on yourself is the most reliable and beneficial rule of success.

2. Ask for the composition "Asking for others is not as good as asking for yourself", about 600 words, faster. Thank you, "self" is a deified concept.

"Man" is the essence of a hero's fearless distortion and condensation.

I deeply admire this hero who insists on "asking for others is not as good as asking for yourself". I still don't believe that "asking for help is not as good as asking for help" because I am not a hero, and I dare not ignore the power of human resources like a hero, saying that asking for help is not as good as asking for help. In this view, hero is a broad title that comes from civilians and belongs to civilians from beginning to end. As long as you succeed, you can call him a hero

Whenever a hero has to swallow up the mountains and rivers he admires, it is like a storm coming and thunder rumbling. Then force people to worship God and dominate the world. In this way, we worked hard to pave the way for public opinion during the People's Republic of China (PRC) period. As soon as the east wind burned, all the civilians were bewitched by the so-called beliefs left over from feudal ills, and then shouted affectionately in front of the mirror: "It is better to ask for help than to ask for help." Unfortunately, civilians are blinded by the dazzling aura of self-confidence. Caught in the seemingly self-seeking, but actually asking for people and seeking special hypocrisy. Why not look in the mirror with a clear conscience and shout, "Why don't you ask for help?"

The success or failure of any hero's honor or disgrace will be borne by countless "people" as a stepping stone to misfortune. For the most famous hero-the hero in battle, he relies on his servants who do their best and his disciples who are unprecedented. Two fists are no match for four hands. Even if you are a hero, you should go forward bravely. The result is not a one-on-one fight with a group of enemies and then a tragic death like fate. Throwing away Jin Yong's ultimate fantasy, such a hero has little chance of survival, let alone being called a hero by later generations. Fighting depends on manpower and needs a group of brothers and disciples who swear allegiance to the death. In this way, it is not only huge, but also has the reputation of "taking the lead and speaking out". There is a good chance of survival! Just ask someone to win, or be polite, corporal Lixian. Let's make peace-the draw will last forever. It is understandable to ask for help.

Qi Jiguang, Yuan Chonghuan and Yang Jiajiang, who is alone, fighting bravely? They are heroes, but they never deny the power of human resources. Just like Qijia Group, not yourself, but others, soldiers who worked hard and sacrificed for them. It's no use asking for help when they are fighting bloody battles. Just ask the soldiers to fight bravely and take the lead, at least give the fresh fish a chance to rally and turn over. Miraculously, at most, less wins more. This is the reason why the fighting hero should cherish the hero and cherish the feelings. Once talented people enter this country, they will try their best to protect them. Because they know very well that they are heroes. The mystery here is naturally obvious. It is better to ask for yourself than to ask for others! Because you can't be a hero alone.

Other heroes, either famous in history, want others to admit and establish a good reputation, that is, want others to give themselves a chance to shine. Dont Ask For Help, it's like dying. Why do sages say they want something from others, not from themselves? I don't know at all. I seek fame and self, just help.

Whenever a hero always sets a perfect example for future generations to worship. At night, I try to make people admit that they no longer need to control their words and deeds after hard work. It is understandable to drown your sorrows in wine and get mad in the name of a hero. After all, heroes have their own difficulties. A hero is a hero, if he asks. He never wanted everyone in the world to be a hero. Of course I won't instruct you to ask for help. On the other hand, all modest and sincere heroes should consider the loyalty of heroes all over the world.

What's more, heroes should proudly flaunt themselves when they say heroic words. Therefore, it is better to ask for help than to ask for help. It seems that this sentence is absolutely unbelievable.

3. An essay on asking for help is better than asking for help, 800 words, which is urgently needed. In real life, everyone will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties. When many people encounter difficulties, they often think of asking others for help, but forget themselves. They think others must be better than themselves. More capable and experienced than yourself, you can help yourself solve problems and overcome difficulties. Don't ask for yourself, but ask for others, hoping to get their care, support and gift. Because when you want something from others and you can't get it, you will be discouraged. This is inner poverty, and you don't know your wealth. In fact, this idea is wrong. We often just don't know that there are endless treasures in our hearts. We should find our own way out and work hard. We have great development potential ourselves. Why don't we control our own destiny, but we have to beg others' pity and help?

There used to be such a story;

Someone was hiding from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by with an umbrella. The humanitarian said, "Guanyin Bodhisattva, how about spending some time with all beings and taking me for a while?" Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves." I don't need to spend it. " The man immediately jumped off the eaves and stood in the rain: "now I'm in the rain, too." Is it time to treat me? " Guanyin said, "You are in the rain and I am in the rain. I didn't get wet because of an umbrella.": You were caught in the rain because there was no umbrella. So it's not me, it's me. If you want to think about it, don't look for me, please find your own umbrella! " Say that finish and left. The next day, the man was in trouble and went to the temple to ask for Guanyin. When I walked into the temple, I found a man worshipping in front of Guanyin statue. That man looks exactly like Guanyin, not bad at all. The man asked, "Are you Guanyin? The man replied, "I am Guanyin." . "The man asked," then why do you still worship yourself? "Guanyin smiled and said," I have encountered difficulties, but I know that it is better to ask for help than to ask for help. "

It is better to rely on yourself than to seek help from others. "Meaning, read Guanyin, read Guanyin, it is better to do Guanyin. In fact, learning Buddhism is to learn from yourself and to improve yourself. Zen people have absolute self-esteem, and most Zen people have the spirit of "looking at the world and giving up who I am". The Zen master called "since the enlightenment's self-cultivation and self-improvement".

Looking around the world, everything is ours. We should not fantasize that life is always so perfect, nor that life will be like spring all the year round. Everyone's life will encounter bumps, taste bitterness and helplessness, and experience setbacks and bumps. Instead of always relying on others for charity and help, it is better to work hard to be strong, because only you can really rely on yourself. My friends, when you set foot on the journey of life, the road has been extended under your feet. As long as you continue to sail on the endless sea, the wind will blow from all directions ... We must learn to be strong, self-respecting and stand on our own feet to face the storms in life. Stand up bravely in the face of failure, and you will be half successful. Better to rely on yourself than to go to others for help. Don't forget, asking for help will lose face and dignity, and even asking for help may not necessarily solve our problems. First of all, in this real society, everyone has everyone's world and everyone has everyone's mind. If the person you want happens to be a dog at the expense of others, he may take the opportunity to "hack" you, so he is not as good as Dont Ask For Help. Even if the other person is a gentleman, it will not always give up your own interests for you. Once or twice, it's ok. If it's too many times, he'll get bored. In the end, he won't even have friends. The ancients said, "God helps those who stand on their own feet." This is a tried-and-true golden advice, which has long been confirmed by countless people's experiences in the long process of human history. In terms of effect, external help will only make the recipients weak, while internal help will certainly make the self-rescuer proud and achieve unimaginable results. Everyone's fate is in their own hands. We should not seek help, but rely on our own energy to overcome all difficulties and create a miracle of life.

As the saying goes, "Since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" Yes, people come to this world with their own mission. Only by exerting one's own advantages as much as possible can one show the wonderful use of life.

Yes, besides, it is better to ask for help than to ask for help. Study like this, work like this, and live like this! We should admit ourselves, develop ourselves, and believe that "it is better to ask for others than to ask for ourselves". Thoreau once said, "If you want to have an unbreakable shield, you must stand among yourself." If a leader wants to make a breakthrough in his career, he must rely on his own efforts, run his career with a conscientious and diligent attitude, and strive to tap his greatest potential and strive for self-improvement. "Where there is a will, there is a way, cross the rubicon, 120 Qin Guan will eventually return to Chu; Hard-working people, heaven rewards hard work, and never stops. More than three thousand armour can swallow Wu. " This is the power of self-struggle. On the contrary, if you deny yourself and don't develop your own strength to forge ahead, you will never take the initiative in the competition, and you can only be controlled by others. This is tantamount to denying the future of the enterprise and "dying without fighting", which is naturally the most unforgivable mistake. Therefore, it is in this sense,

"It is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself", turning passivity into initiative, and pinning hopes on yourself is the most reliable and beneficial rule of success.

4. it is better to ask for help than to ask for help. Help-seeking and Help-seeking Everyone needs external help to develop more or less. This is an opportunity for life creation given by external factors.

The change and creation of the inner itself often plays a definite role, which is a philosophical problem in which the internal factors determine the external factors in the development of objective things, and it is also an obvious problem. Perhaps it is because the reason is too simple, so it is so difficult to do it.

At least most people didn't do it or did it better! The so-called external cause is asking for help, and the internal cause I elaborated is asking for myself. It is better to ask others than yourself, which is the eternal magic weapon for human success.

Standing independently can be called the basic point of one's own independent existence. The process of life couldn't be better.

Relying on others to be kind to yourself can only be a kind of existence. Without your own concept of survival, you can't even talk about walking dead. "There is no north and south in life", a frustrated gentleman, although he may be poor.

However, his experience has won people's respect. A gentleman should strive for self-improvement and never admit defeat! There are many similar examples in life, but there are also many self-pitying.

Being a reader is the most obvious here. "Desperate literati" is often interpreted by such people: "I have wisdom, but I was born at the wrong time and my fate is not good. I am experiencing the blow of suffering and love. "

I sigh and want to change the reality. Therefore, for such a person, without self, success will often be farther and farther away from him! For an individual's life, everyone is the shaper of his own life destiny, and the result of relying on others will eventually be his own collapse.

The vines under the towering old trees will come to an end without the support of the big trees. The comfort of any life is temporary.

Learn to overcome your own troubles, which is the only way to win in life. The horrors of the past; Desperate, I suddenly found that when you condemn and extricate yourself with your heart, you will become invisible one day.

Maybe it will be an endless source of motivation in your life. For some people and things in the past, I once felt all my nothingness, among which all this was just a passing sight.

When I used to spend money like water, the mall chanted and got carried away. You are still knocked down by fate. What about the blow in the torture of spirit and flesh? Never before, never after.

Pull a long face and sigh. Friends have quietly left your side, and all the soil in life is drying up.

The initial nagging pain, the best ending is just a sympathetic look from a friend. As a result, you will find that similar pouring has not got rid of your own pain.

So, after a long time, even you are tired. By that time, you should have grown up, and your pain and sorrow should have been a relic of another world.

Put it down, put it down. If you don't put it down, you will never be able to stand or walk again. So, you chose a kind of transcendence of human nature.

The eternal transcendence of asking for help is better than asking for help! The best helper "Why is this?" I stared at the doctor in front of me in shock. He just looked at me silently, with sympathy and pity in his eyes.

I will lose the most precious thing in my life-hearing. Maybe for others, it's nothing, but there is no sound at most.

But I can't. Music is everything to me. It must let me fly over my ears.

"Help me, doctor, you know, I absolutely can't hear you. Help me, cure my ear ... "I begged the doctor again and again.

However, he gently pushed my hand away: "I'm sorry, I can't help you." No, I don't believe anyone in this world can help me.

I'm sure I can find someone who can cure my ears. However, before that man appeared, I lost all my hearing.

I think I'm going crazy. I grabbed everyone's hands and said, "Please, help me, help me!" "However, there is only sympathy in their eyes, only pity. These are not what I need.

But when I knew I would lose my hearing, they stayed with me all the time. What should I do? What should I do? I shut myself tightly in my room, and my world was silent.

I stared at the bird in the tree in the yard through the window and could feel it singing. If only I could still hear its melodious singing.

Suddenly, my ears really seem to have birds singing, so loud. Then, I thought of Pastoral, and all the notes appeared in my mind. I recalled the beginning of the music, which was quiet and meticulous.

Finally, fate. When I wrote it, I didn't expect it to be inspiring. But now, when its gorgeous music rings in my ears, my almost desperate heart quietly wakes up.

When the * * * part comes, I hold my fist tightly. I see, the only thing that can save me now is myself.

Yes, I lost the joy of "listening" to music, but I still have a chance to "feel" music. I clearly remember the sound of every key being pressed, and I deeply appreciate the magic of every note, so the music has never left me.

I don't need to ask others for help. I bite a metal bar with my teeth and press it on the piano, so that when I create music, I can "hear" the sound through the vibration of the metal bar; In this way, I can embrace music without scruple; In this way, I have the whole world again.

When no one helped me, I saved myself by my own efforts. I am still standing in the concert hall in Vienna without fear, guiding people into a pure and beautiful world with my baton as usual.

People will always remember my name-Beethoven, because my music is immortal. Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves, so you don't need me."

"The man immediately jumped off the eaves and stood in the rain." Now I am in the rain, too. Is it my turn? "Help yourself rather than ask for help. Someone sheltered from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by with an umbrella. The humanitarian said, "Guanyin Bodhisattva, how about spending some time with all beings and taking me for a while? Guanyin said, "I am in the rain and you are under the eaves, but there is nothing under the eaves."

5. Write a composition that asking for help is not as good as asking for help. A man sheltered from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by with an umbrella. The man said, "Guanyin Bodhisattva, why don't you give me a ride?" Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves." I don't need to spend it. " The man immediately jumped off the eaves and stood in the rain. "Now I am also in the rain. Is it my turn? " Guanyin said, "You are in the rain and I am in the rain. I didn't get wet because of an umbrella.": You were caught in the rain because you didn't bring an umbrella. So I didn't take care of myself, but the umbrella took care of me. If you want to take care of it, don't look for me, please find an umbrella! " After that, he left The next day, when he was in trouble, he went to the temple to invite the Bodhisattva. When he entered the temple, he found another person worshipping in front of Guanyin statue. He looked exactly like Guanyin. The man asked, "Are you Guanyin? The man replied, "I am Guanyin." . "The man asked," then why do you still worship yourself? "Guanyin laughed." I have encountered difficulties, but I know that it is better to beg for myself than others. The moral of this story is: to be your savior, you must admit yourself and develop yourself. If you want to realize your career and ideal, you must rely on your own strength and wisdom, constantly strive for self-improvement, be down-to-earth and be diligent. Hard-working people will never take the initiative in the competition and can only be controlled by others. Therefore, it is in this sense that if you deny yourself and don't develop your wisdom and strength to forge ahead, you will never take the initiative in the competition, and you can only be controlled by others. Turning passivity into initiative and pinning your hopes on yourself is the most reliable and beneficial rule of success. In fact, there is a long-standing discussion about "asking for yourself is not as good as asking for others": There is a saying in The Analects: "A gentleman asks for himself, but a villain asks for others." There is also a saying in Wen Zi Virtue: "It is better to complain about yourself than to ask others." Yes, I said, "Not enough." "Is Zixian reliable enough?" Yes, I said, "Not enough." "Brother, are you good enough to rely on?" Yes, I said, "Not enough." "Is my brother virtuous enough to rely on?" Yes, I said, "Not enough." "Can I trust my virtuous minister?" Yes: "insufficient." Hou Wen was furious and said, "I asked my children these five things, and they all thought they were not enough." Why? " Yes, he said, "My father was not Yao, but was released; Zixian is not smooth, but stubborn; Xian Xiong is not only smooth, but also proud; Xiandi is not the Duke of Zhou, Guan Shu is the whole; I am a saint, but I am stubborn and aggressive. I don't expect people, but I rely on people for a long time. If you want to rule, you should start with your body. How can you rely on others? " There is a story in the Song Dynasty poet Zhang's "Gui Er Ji": Filial piety is lucky for Tianzhu, living in seclusion, with the company of Hui monks. When he saw Feilaifeng, he asked Hui, "Since he can fly, why doesn't he?" Yes, "it's better to move than to be still." Another Guanyin statue asked with a rosary, "What's the use?" He said, "Think of Guanyin Bodhisattva." He asked, "How great do you think you are?" There is a similar record in Su Shi's Q&A Record: Su Dongpo and Zen master Fo Yin visited Hangzhou Temple. Dongpo saw Guanyin Bodhisattva holding a rosary in Ursa Major Hall, and asked Fo Yin what was the matter with the rosary. Fo Yin casually replied, "Miss Guanyin Bodhisattva." Dongpo thought it was just pity for Fo Yin, so he asked, "He is Guanyin, and he recited himself. Fo Yin answered unhurriedly: "It is better to ask for help than to ask for help".

It takes about 800 words to write a composition than to ask for help. I believe that we will often encounter a situation-that is, when we encounter an extremely difficult dilemma, we always think: Who will help me? I just need to wait patiently.

In fact, this idea can kill us.

Don't think I am alarmist. Cruel and cold data show that in World War II, no matter which country, more than 50% snipers were killed by gunfire after being discovered, thinking that someone would come to support them and stay in foxholes.

We humans always think we are the most powerful, but at some point, we are not even as good as a donkey.

This is a fable, but its revelation is definitely much better than a moral.

One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well. At first, both the donkey and the farmer were in a hurry. But later, the farmer decided to take everyone to fill the dry well-after all, the donkey was old. At first, the donkey in the well just shouted in horror. But after a while, the well was quiet. Just as everyone looked curiously at the bottom of the well, they were surprised to find that every time the donkey shoveled, it smashed the soil on its back, shook it off quickly and stamped its feet hard. Soon, the donkey built a platform, jumped out of the wellhead and ran away, leaving only a group of stunned people.

This may be just a fable, but after reading it, we should all think about it. When we encounter similar difficulties again, do we behave like donkeys?

The answer is mostly: no.

Why?

It is because we believe so much that others will come to help us.

However, in most cases, others will not come to help us-our own difficulties have not been solved and we have no time to help you.

At this time, you should help yourself. Although everyone doesn't believe that they can solve such a dilemma. But as long as you have the determination to overcome difficulties alone, you will find that your strength is enough to overcome any difficulties you know. Only by getting rid of dependence on others and using it on your face can you really mature. Otherwise, you will find that you will back down on many things-no one will help you!

Only by being independent and looking for yourself can we truly prove our existence. All the advantages of success without exception prove how important self-reliance is. "I saved myself with my own efforts, and no one helped me at that time. I am still standing in the concert hall in Vienna without fear, guiding people into a pure and beautiful world with my baton as usual. " Beethoven's words are a portrayal of all people who are constantly striving for self-improvement-persevering in seemingly extreme difficulties and striving to create their own path.

Although the process will be full of hardships, you should remember that any great road is hard and slow at the beginning. Both the Hump Route and the Qinghai-Tibet Railway were created with countless hours and sweat.

If you depend too much on others, you will fail. Blindly pinning their hopes on others, not actively creating conditions to change their own destiny, like a zombie without wisdom, will eventually go to destruction.

Only by looking for it yourself can we survive. This is the law of our existence. Although ruthless, it must be correct!