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Life is a long journey. We can't expect our children to grow up one day, and it is difficult to eliminate all misunderstandings in life at once. From impulsiveness to calmness, from narrowness to tolerance, we have to wait for a while to cool down the dispute between right and wrong for unknown reasons and let all misunderstandings and prejudices become reminders of our hearts. Objectivity is so simple, what life needs more is to wait for wisdom and calm.
Time flies and the road is in a hurry. People don't live a hard life. They hurried by, worked hard and experienced, ignoring the beautiful scenery and were in a good mood. Why not wait for something? I carefully arranged this place for you, hoping to help you.
The thinking of life has the opportunity to precipitate, and it also dampens the impetuousness of being eager to do things. In the face of unsatisfactory life, I don't forget the original intention of the year, and the pace of life has slowed down a little. I learn to appreciate, learn to be ordinary, watch the cool breeze and bright moon for a while, and stay in Gua Tian Doutian for a while.
This vast sea of people, vast world, everyone is learning to understand that this world is everyone's existence, do not tell their grievances, ignore the helplessness of others, and do not pull away from life itself because of their own extravagant hopes. This simple life, grasping the inner weight and temperature, is the greatest value of life, and life has never been a simple expression and form of existence. Everyone who walks through the sea of people needs to hold a kind and friendly attitude, chew their own hardships and understand the difficulties of others. Your own suffering needs to be borne fearlessly, but your inner world should be clear, and the misfortunes and pains of others should not be exaggerated. Just like this kind of life, everyone wants to live a high-profile and publicize their rich personality, but the life with him is also bright and warm.
A laundry list of big things and small feelings is always a cliche in life, which needs to be faced with an attitude. There is a phenomenon in psychology called brewing effect, which gives the chicken time to fly and the dog time to jump to the ground, making the choice more rational and learning to let go of everything and be cold and clear. Don't compete with others, and don't waste time with narrow-minded people. The art of living is to wait patiently for the dust to fall, stop and decide to go from left to right, don't be impatient and stubborn, and let the reasons for choosing have a chance to wake up. Since you can't accompany the world forever, choose an open-minded and sincere one.
Life is on the road, although it is rushing forward, it is in a hurry to slow down and make any decision. We are often troubled by setbacks and slow down to complain about many unfavorable circumstances. We believe that everything is the best choice, and there are always twists and turns in life. The warmth of those lives is always hidden in those casual moments in life. What kind of life is called happiness and what kind of life is called enrichment lies in doing and cherishing.
wait for
Waiting seems to be a long distance: standing on the coast, expecting the return of the sky; Sitting on the roof, expecting the cool raindrops in the sky; Look at yourself in the mirror and look forward to good luck tomorrow. Here, waiting is a pursuit, the pursuit of fighting for dreams and victory.
In the warm spring, with the care of spring breeze, with the moisture of rain, with the touch of sunshine, with people's careful enjoyment. All the flowers bloom together, showing their exquisiteness and magnificence, stretching their nobility and femininity. But it is plum blossom, but it is quietly waiting in this bustling world, waiting for its own good time. Spring has come, winter has come, and the flowers can't stand the cold wind and curl up. After waiting for more than half a year, plum blossoms immediately bloomed in the cold, enjoying the fragrance of one side and attracting people's appreciation. The waiting of plum blossom is its pursuit, the pursuit of its own stage. Give up dazzling, choose to wait and win your own victory in silence.
Waiting is not an easy thing, waiting requires us to have great endurance. Sima Qian waited in prison for a long time, endured physical and mental torture after castration, and finally wrote a book after he was released from prison, waving the Historical Records, which was read through the ages. After Gou Jian became a prisoner, he silently waited for the opportunity to come. Eventually? Good things are more grinding? , defeated the prince and won the victory. In that waiting event, how can the hatred and shame in his heart prevent Gou Jian from suffering from inner pain in his daily waiting? Waiting will inevitably produce negative emotions, which requires us to show fearless courage and firm perseverance to overcome, so waiting is also an effort, an effort to win in pursuit.
Cats also know that waiting will bring success. As Mr. Lao She described in Cats, cats will wait unusually calmly when catching mice. Once a cat finds that a mouse has entered a mouse hole, it will stay quietly at the mouth of the hole, breathing very slowly, and sometimes even holding its breath to hide its breath and gain a greater chance of victory. As long as it waits, it will wait for hours until the mouse thinks that the danger has left and comes out to investigate, and it will pounce on it like an arrow.
Waiting needs us to be calm; Waiting requires us to think. Not everything can wait, if you like? Wait for him? The same, inevitable encounter? Picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelon? . Therefore, waiting also requires us to make objective judgments.
In the process of realizing something, waiting is indispensable, and waiting has been lurking in our hearts. In the future life ladder, we should learn to wait, let's work together in waiting, or wait in our efforts and run and fly towards our dreams!
Waiting is another kind of persistence
Tea leaves should be slowly soaked in boiling hot water to show its pure fragrance, and the time of boiling and soaking is waiting, and only tea drinkers understand that waiting is another kind of persistence.
Epiphyllum's waiting is only for that short moment, cicada's waiting praises the whole summer, and our waiting laughs at youth; It is a hope that left-behind children wait for their parents to go home, a hope that has never been broken. Waiting teaches us not to give up and make unremitting efforts. For example, fishing, everyone wants to catch big fish, but not everyone can catch big fish. Fishing is a kind of self-cultivation entertainment because the process of fishing is quietly waiting for the fish to bite. How much patience and persistence does it take?
There is a famous saying:? Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared? Take us for example, the second year of high school is coming to an end and we are about to enter the third year of high school. Is it meaningful if we just wait for graduation and do nothing in the process? The basis of persistence is to have a goal, and the necessary condition for waiting is to make unremitting progress towards the goal. In the process of waiting, we may not achieve the expected results, but this does not mean that hope is dashed, as the ancients said: where there is a will, there is a way. ? So we can't give up easily, we must have it? Don't die until you reach the Great Wall? Perseverance is the only way to achieve it? Once you climb to the top of the mountain, you will see a small landscape of the mountains? I don't think disappointment is terrible. The terrible thing is that I can't accept disappointment. The spider in the storm is our best mentor. Although the web is constantly broken by wind and rain, spiders always make unremitting efforts to weave the web. When the rain stopped revealing the most beautiful sunshine, spiders also succeeded in weaving webs. There is a lyric in "True Hero" that goes like this? How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? No one can succeed casually. Every successful person depends on persistence and waiting for success, but I'm sure they once had the idea of giving up, but they kept coming.
So many examples tell us a truth. No matter you are rich or poor, a national leader or a beggar, we must keep going. The goal in my mind is to wait. Frustration is only a test of our will. Disappointment is a hurdle. As long as you cross it, it's no big deal, because there is no hurdle in the world, just to see if you have the courage.