As we all know, the hippocampus determines a person's ability to remember, learn and cope with stress, and the size of a person's hippocampus is often closely related to his education in childhood.
The more children are taken care of by their parents and relatives, the bigger the hippocampus is. When they grow up, these children perform much better in study, work and social interaction than those who are not taken care of accordingly.
Since parents' care is so important to children's growth, what aspects should we educate children about love?
Hugging is a kind of body language and an expression of love, especially for children, which often plays the role of silence over sound.
If parents often hug their children, they will build up a sense of security and happiness. They know that their parents love them, no matter how wronged they are outside. As long as they have the warm arms of their parents, they have enough confidence to overcome all kinds of difficulties encountered in their growth.
In addition, gentle hugs and caresses can calm restless children, relieve stress and stimulate brain development.
I think children nowadays lack almost everything except the company of their parents.
With the accelerated pace of life today, many parents are busy with their livelihood and entertainment. How many times I went home late at night, the child was already asleep. How many times, go out in the morning, the child is still sleeping. How many times have I promised my children to go to the park with them, but I have repeatedly broken my word.
Nowadays, staying behind is no longer the patent of rural children, and urban children are no exception, because there are more and more hidden or semi-excuses caused by busy parents.
For children, no matter how comfortable the school is, no matter how many toys and no matter how good the nanny is, it can't replace the care and companionship of parents.
Children's desire for affection far exceeds their material needs, and many things that are insignificant to adults are very precious in their eyes. Therefore, even if parents are busy and tired at work, they should spare at least half an hour every day to accompany their children, walk and chat with them, and play games, so that children can truly feel their parents' concern for their children.
In life, in addition to chatting with children about his favorite things, parents can also try to cultivate the same hobbies with their children, so as to close their relationship with him, for example, playing badminton and table tennis together; Learn to swim with children; Finish your homework, or play his favorite video games with your child on weekend afternoons; Raise his favorite little goldfish with his children.
Of course, finding more similarities between you and your children can also bring us closer: mom liked ice cream when she was a child, because it was too sweet. Dad especially liked playing basketball when he was a child, because he thought basketball could reflect the strength of men! When my father was a child, he was afraid to sit on the big slide for the first time because he thought it was so high, but after trying it, he felt less afraid.
Parents want to be closer to their children. In life, they might as well talk more about what they like. This will not only make your children happier, but also make your relationship more intimate.