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It coincided with the weekend and came to the training hall early after receiving the coach's notice. He came to greet the coach with great joy and stood in front of the coach stupefied without lifting his eyelids. This 50-year-old elder didn't make me feel kind as an elder teacher at all. The girl next to me greeted him with a smile, and the two chatted happily.

It is really difficult for me, who has never touched a car, to learn to drive. Every time I go to the training hall, I am very nervous, afraid of missing something or doing something wrong.

The coach asked us to get on the bus, and the girl next to him immediately said, "I forgot the coach." The coach went up to teach again and again without saying a word, but what I saw was patience. I really practiced for three days because of that. When it was my turn, a small gesture made a mistake, and the coach began to curse: "Pig brain, you can't learn after studying for a few days." It's a bit slow, but I really want to learn well. Suddenly tears welled up. Am I really that stupid?

Then I practiced slowly with that girl, and talked about her coming for the second time and forgetting what she learned the other day. I asked, are you familiar with it? The girl told me that she had only one aunt who recommended her to learn to drive, and they had each given a Chinese cigarette when they signed up.

I immediately knew the problem, and I did think about it, and I always felt embarrassed. I think I'd better be careful and understand something!

I didn't realize the seriousness of the problem until the next step. After we practiced for about two hours, the coach stopped the girl next to me. "Come on, little girl, I'll teach you to dump the library." I followed him, but he paid little attention to me.

"Oh my god, she only came for the second time, and she can learn new test sites and technologies. Yes, I have practiced clutch three or four times. Anyway, I am always active and attentive. As for me, I look forward to teaching and guiding me every day, but I don't. I just don't teach me new things, just marking time ... "This hot day.

I no longer feel how stupid I am, just a little less sophisticated. Yes, who will pay for you for no reason and teach you selflessly? The reciprocity between people is based on the reciprocity of interests.

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I don't blame the coach at all I just didn't put myself in the role of an adult and a social person. As soon as the new colleague was transferred to the unit, the whole family moved to this city. It is a big problem for two children to go to school, and the biggest fear is that there are no places. After running for two or three days, there was no result, and the contacted school did not respond. His wife is particularly anxious.

At the same time, Sun Xiao told them to lock in a goal, find a director-level person, and have the sincerity to invite others to dinner. Every parent knows the importance of children going to school, and everyone understands it. The key is how we do things.

Contact that director Wang. He is very kind and polite. Colleagues told them about their children, expressed their parents' wishes, and invited them to eat a meal to show their sincerity. Director Wang didn't accept the dinner and didn't ask for any benefits. Later, my colleague's children went to school.

There are many honest and reasonable people who don't care about that interest, as long as they can understand your heart. Later, colleagues thanked the director in the name of friends when the children started school.

Sometimes it may be that we have lost a little social etiquette, or we will not come into this world. So we wasted a lot of time and missed many opportunities.

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14 passed the initial entrance examination for postgraduate entrance examination, and I was lucky enough to enter my dream major and university after a second interview. I was happy and excited, and I stayed up for another month to prepare for the second interview. I thought it was foolproof, but I experienced the first social emotion in my life and finally ended in failure.

When I asked the teacher, "Why not ask for professional knowledge? You can decide who to admit before the written test results come out. " The answer given is: "Some tutors are not very clear about this year's college re-examination reform. At present, it is a tutor one-vote system. "

I regret that I didn't meet in advance and communicate with the target tutor in advance. Blindly think that, like all other schools, a fair and just combination of all the results of the initial examination, re-examination and written examination gives the answer. When I visit every tutor to see if there are any places, I have to refuse.

I felt hopeful when I learned from a senior that a professor still had an undetermined quota. I rushed to the college building like crazy to get a chance. I am glad that I have studied the research topic of this professor's thesis, and both the written test and the preliminary test are not bad. Even my undergraduate colleges are prestigious, and I cried with excitement at that moment. After some communication, he was satisfied with me and told me that it was no problem.

Later, I told my college classmates that you should be active. It's too dangerous for you not to see the teacher, eat or deliver anything.

In my opinion, schools are absolutely fair. I sent another message to the professor, expressing my determination. He replied to me: it's no problem to wait at ease. Two days later, I received another message: Welcome to apply for my postgraduate next year.

I slept at home for two days, two years of hard work! And I can only tell myself, I am stupid, and you forgot to do something when you were studying.

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At noon that day, I gave my coach a red envelope. I told him sincerely that I would study hard. I was embarrassed and at a loss when he refused to accept the red envelope. In the evening, the coach silently received a red envelope, and I was very happy. Well, I told myself that you just need to have a clear conscience and do what you think is right.

After that, the coach specially asked me to go to the training hall to teach me some details and new things. I think this is also the reason why others are willing to teach you attentively.

Without losing the principle, as long as you can make yourself grow and progress, why not give what you want to others? After all, all the noise in the world is for profit. If you give others what they want, or money, honor or respect, you will get more from yourself. Both need keen social awareness and vision.