Reality often conflicts with ideals. With contradictions, there will be pressure. Maybe you have a guiding light in your heart, but it seems unattainable, tormenting your enterprising heart; Maybe you want to do good, but you make a mess of things; Maybe you hate treachery, but you are addicted to all the trivial things in the world; Maybe you have sown seeds, but you are not good at farming, and you can't bear fruit with all your efforts; Maybe you really want to surpass yourself, but the reality denies it one by one. . . . . . The pressure is coming on us gradually. If we want to live a full, comfortable and happy life, we must learn to endure the torture of stress.

There is an idiom called "bear the burden of humiliation". Endurance does not mean giving in, but accumulating strength to prepare for the next victory; Endure is to be far-sighted and try your best to climb the peak. The sudden storm expressed their dissatisfaction in the form of lightning and thunder. Don't pay attention to them, because without the dissatisfaction of the storm, there will be no rainbow after the rain clears. The weather suddenly turned cold. When you open the door, a cold wind makes you shiver in a thin coat, but you don't need to use this body to fight winter resistance. Never mind. Because winter comes, can spring be far behind?

There are many things in life that we didn't expect, but if you can resist the pressure and get up after falling, you will still have the lofty ambition of "I will ride the waves in and set my cloudy sail straight and bridge the deep, deep sea one day".

Let's bear the storms, difficulties and setbacks, and all the pressures in life with firm faith, magnificent temperament and solemn mind! ! !

Learn to give up

I once read such a story: "A climber fell off a cliff while going downhill at night. He was lucky enough to catch the climbing rope. He was suspended in mid-air and staggered. He shouted,' Oh, my God! "What should I do," only a dull voice told him, "untie your rope!" Untie? When you finally get stuck, you have to give up. He looked down and saw nothing in the dark, so giving up would be doomed; And if you persist, can you stay up until dawn? He decided to grab at straws. The next day, a search and rescue team found a frozen body on the cliff, hanging on a rope. Everyone is a mystery because his position is only 2 meters above the ground ... "

I don't know how to give up and kill the climber himself

Yes, in life, we can't give up easily, but there are some things we should consider for others. Our abandonment may bring hope and laughter to others. Facing ourselves, we need to make a choice between study and entertainment, between class and surfing the Internet, between emotion and reason, and learn to give up.

One summer, I went shopping with a friend and wanted to buy myself a pet. In front of a pet shop, I took a fancy to a very cute puppy. "Boss, I want this puppy." A girl and I pointed to the puppy at the same time and said. The little girl looked at me and said, "Give it to me! I like it very much. " "But, I also like it! Why should I give it to you? " I'm not showing weakness. "I ... I like it very much, and so does grandma. I have been here several times, but I don't have enough money. I scraped together enough money today, so I want to buy it back. I'm going to another city with my parents tomorrow, and I want to give it to my grandmother. " The girl's voice choked a little. The friend listened and said, "Grandma? Can your grandmother take care of it? " The girl said, "Yes, grandma likes it very much." I asked strangely, "Why doesn't your grandmother go to other cities with you?" "Grandma said she would stay here, and I might not come back later, so I wanted to give it to her. Can you give it to me? " The girl looked at me with big watery eyes and said. "But ..." My friend just wanted to say something, and I said, "OK, you can buy it! Let me see something else. " The girl thanked me, paid the money and left happily with the puppy. My friend looked at me doubtfully and said, "You are not …" I said, "This puppy can make her and her grandmother very happy." "But she didn't bring a puppy!" "But this puppy can at least bring her instant happiness! If I don't give it to her, she will be very sad. And this puppy can accompany grandma in her later years! Is this not good? There are many puppies here. We can choose something else. In this way, we have nothing to lose. I just gave up a puppy, but my giving up brought happiness to her and her grandmother. " I smiled.

Yes, in life, we can't give up easily, but there are some things we should consider for others. Our abandonment may bring hope and laughter to others. Facing ourselves, we need to make a choice between study and entertainment, between class and surfing the Internet, between emotion and reason, and learn to give up.