In the process of raising children, I have many ideas. I think there are three aspects worth pondering.

The first is responsibility. Children are ours and society. From a seedling to a pillar, every progress of a child needs our efforts and sweat. Maybe many parents say that I have done my best for my children. But my observation is not the case. While we are eager for children to become useful people, many people can easily put their children in the "full-time care" of the elderly for their own sake. We can leave our children alone at home, and enjoy ourselves for some pure entertainment besides taking part in some necessary social activities. Some parents send their children to aristocratic schools because they have money, and so on. My view of this choice is that you have lost at least half of your children by sending them to an aristocratic school, because you have also pushed the responsibility to the school. Many parents say that in today's fierce social competition, we are busy with work on the one hand and social activities on the other, so we have no time to take care of our children. Besides, what I am doing now is for the children. I also admit this reality, but I have been thinking about a problem recently: for most people, it is great to be a party secretary and pursue rights on the basis of the present; The pursuit of money, for now, has earned100000 in my life, which can be regarded as creating development capital for children, but from another angle, even if I become the party secretary, where can I take my children? Even if he gets to that position, what if he can't do it? Even if there is100000, it may not be enough for him to spend a day. Maybe he can't spend it at all. What's the use of such children? So let's try to find some time to spend with our children. In the process of taking care of the children, my wife and I will accompany them as long as we can spare time. After listening to a lecture in Jinan, an education expert said something that touched me deeply. He said: If a gay man can give up drinking twice a week and a lesbian can spend time with her child to make up and remove makeup every day, then your child is half a genius. Some time ago, the founder Zhou took the seventh place in the exam. Teacher Li made a "founder phenomenon" for students and parents to discuss. I don't want to say anything about this matter itself, but I am very moved to read the feelings written by children and parents. I feel the children's self-esteem and parents' earnest hope for their children to become talents and their daughters to become popular, but I also find two problems: one is that almost every child's handwriting has individual typos, and no parents correct them; The other is that most of them were signed by mom. I want to know what our father is busy with, whether he has more important things to do or whether it is not important at all.

The second is the concept. After experiencing poverty and ignorance, we parents understand the importance of knowledge. On the one hand, the reality is cruel. I often hear some parents tell their children that it is not enough to enter a university, but also to enter a key university. But at the same time, some of our ideas about educating children are still very backward. Most of us here were born about 70 years ago, which means that we have all passed the edge of poverty. Today, while enjoying the benefits of reform and opening up, we are also full of memories of the past. I often hear some parents say that we didn't have early education and didn't have so much homework before. We didn't go to college or even graduate school. I don't deny that this is true, but society is developing too fast. You should still remember the first college entrance examination after the resumption of the college entrance examination in 1977. I said, let any ordinary high school children go back to that year, it must be Peking University Tsinghua. Therefore, in such an era of knowledge explosion, we must reflect on how to educate children. Some parents say that it is right for children's development to "let nature take its course". "Let nature take its course" is to conform to the law of children's development and guide children to develop in the right direction, but it is by no means "let it develop". Speaking of which, I want to talk about children playing computer. Today, with the development of society, the computer has become a tool. After all, just like bicycles and cars, many parents have different views on playing or not playing. It should be said that the "blue speed" incident in Beijing in 2002 taught us a profound lesson. Children can only play computer games without shielding. I advocate letting children play, but there is a problem of how to guide children to play. First of all, we should induce children to have a correct understanding of computers. Computers can be used not only for entertainment, but also for study. Besides inquiring about information, can you try to let your child finish some homework on the computer? Second, you can play. You must finish your homework first. Third, I agreed with him how long to play before each scene, and let him speak for himself. At that time, you have to get off.

Write a composition about what my family gave me. My family.

There are five members: father, mother, grandfather, grandmother and, of course, me. Everyone has his own personality characteristics and forms a happy family.

My mother attaches great importance to my growth. I go to work every morning and come back at night. I am already very tired and need to train my learning ability. She gave up her job in the field for me so that she could go home every night to supervise my study. In order to make the work place closer to home, my mother is not afraid of hard work and runs back and forth in various construction sites. Besides, she works hard every day in order to save more money. She is a good mother and a great mother.

In my impression, my father is a very gentle person, my mother is responsible for my study, and my father is responsible for my extracurricular sports. In order to let me do more exercise during the holidays, he gave up several important meetings and took me to exercise. He said: "You can't just sit on your back during holidays, you should go out and exercise more. Doing more exercise can make you healthier. For example, it's time for you to take an exam. If you are not healthy, you can't do it well. " Besides these, my father also taught me a lot of extracurricular knowledge. To me, he is like an encyclopedia. All kinds of knowledge are available.

Grandpa, he is in charge of the internal affairs of my family. Get up early every morning to make breakfast and do housework for us. I'm not idle at noon, helping grandma water the flowers and mop the floor ... In short, grandpa is very busy every day. Take care of my life every day for ten years. I think my grandfather is great.

Grandma is responsible for all kinds of housework, sewing clothes and cleaning the house ... every day, she is busy and the house will be tidy and clean. Besides doing housework, grandma also taught me a lot of philosophy of life: it may not be very profound, but it is very useful in life.

I love my family! There are my relatives at home, and there are also my concerns. Is my most important wealth!

Hope to adopt. Thank you.

Write an article about the happiness my family gives me. In life, where there is happiness, there is happiness. A happy life is beautiful, but a happy life brings the family closer.

How wonderful happiness is! No noisy home, no angry home, full of love. Even a very ordinary thing can let you see the figure of love. For example, a caring word, a cup of herbal tea in summer and a bowl of hot soup in winter. ...

I have a mother who loves me and my father. She is very diligent. Every morning, at about 5: 50, just before dawn, my mother began to make breakfast for us. After we left, my mother began to be busy cleaning and washing clothes. Her hands are full of calluses! At noon and in the evening, when I come back from work, my mother can't rest, so she has to cook for us quickly. It is mother who takes good care of us.

What I still remember is that one night when I was in the third grade, I went home with my father before I left the school. Suddenly, in the sky, dark clouds are gathering and the feet of the clouds are furry. First of all, it's raining in Mao Mao. Slowly, it rained harder and harder. Back home, we have become two veritable "drowned rats"! We didn't do anything, and the water kept dripping. Soon, there was a pool of water on the ground, and even the shoes and insoles were wet. My mother saw it and said with distress, "Why did you get caught in the rain?" After that, I ran to the bathroom, took a big bath towel from the towel rack, wiped the water for us and said, "Didn't you bring a poncho?" Why not let me send it without it? "I giggled and said," We thought it wouldn't rain today! If I let you send it, it will delay your work! " Mother said happily, "silly child, it is good that you know that mother is working." Even if you miss your job a little, it's better than getting sick in the rain! " "After wiping, my mother said sadly," It will be cold in the rain! " ! I'll give you some water to wash your face, or you'll catch a cold "Say that finish, then ran to the bathroom and played two pots of hot water to wash your face. Then I gently pulled the insole out of the shoe and twisted it. The water on the insole kept dripping. Then I took the insole to the hair dryer and blew it. First, I probably blew it, and then I blew it carefully one by one. She was patient and not impatient until she was dry. Even blowing shoes is the same, blowing patiently, no one wants to talk.

My family is full of happiness. This is Fu's happy family.

Write a 200-word composition on the topic "Family brings me happiness". Everyone has their own family, right? I have a family, too. My family is full of joy. There are four people in my family, my mother, my father, my sister and me. I am very grateful to my parents, because they have given me infinite happiness!

I have a hardworking mother.

Although my mother is the head of the family, she loves to work. As long as she doesn't like it, she will clean it up like crazy and won't complain. One day, I just got home and saw my mother dragging a piece of land with a mop. I looked down and found an identical me on the ground. Damn it! Scared me. Oh, I see: it turned out that my mother dragged it too clean. I looked at my sweaty mother and saw her smiling …

There is a "Wukong" father

My father has the manner of a doctor. My father likes playing chess and shows me the problems. Once, my father told me a question. I wrote it correctly, but my father wrote it wrong. After a while, my father said to me, "steamed stuffed bun, look online again." I think I made a mistake. " It was not until the end that I confirmed that my father told me wrong. At this time, I am like a Tang priest, let my "Wukong" father tell me to admit my mistake.

Have a stingy sister

Yesterday morning, my sister carefully found chocolate for her good friend who came from afar. My sister said, "Mom, this is chocolate for a month." My mother said, "One for you and one for your brother." I'm glad to hear that. I didn't expect my sister to cry My mother scolded my sister. My sister doesn't want me to eat it. I didn't expect my sister to be so stingy. My sister sometimes gives me all the food, but sometimes she is very stingy. This is my family, and this is a happy family for me.

Please write a short essay of more than 600 words on the topic "My family gave it to me". My family gave it to me.

When I am helpless, my family is a warm support ... (at first)

I remember the last time I quarreled with my good friend Zhang Moumou ... (I'll tell you a story).

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Conclusion: With the warmth and encouragement of my family, I got up the courage to make up with Zhang Moumou the next day.

I'm sorry, I did experience this situation. I won't finish it, but I don't want to write my case online.

Write a composition with my future family (2) Read a poem by Bing Xin and write a composition as required.

Successful flower composition

People only marvel at her present glory!

However, at the beginning, her bud, composition

Soaked with tears of struggle,

The blood rain of sacrifice is scattered everywhere.

Requirements: Please select a topic from the poem, draw up a topic yourself, and write an article of more than 600 words around the topic. In addition to poetry, the style is optional, and no real person, school name or place name can appear in the article.

Write a composition of about 100 words with my family's troubles. I stutter and worry.

Who says teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow? I tasted trouble at a young age. This taste is not very good, because I have a bad habit of stuttering. I stutter, sometimes even a short sentence is incomplete, which makes me make a fool of myself and be wronged. I'm really worried!

Once in class, the teacher asked me, "It's far from Hanshan, and there are people in Bai Yunsheng." What's the next sentence? "I know, but when I'm nervous, my tongue is tied." Stop ... stop ... stop ... "I said" stop "several times in a row, and I couldn't go on, making the whole class burst into laughter. Even the teacher couldn't help saying," Stop, stop! " "What a pity! .

My little brother often learns from my stuttering. No wonder my aunt always blames me for this problem when she brings her little brother to my house. Said I would have a bad influence on him. Well, I also became an instigator! The most hateful thing is that once, my mother lost 50 yuan in her purse. Asked if dad had it, dad shook his head. She took another look at her little brother, who quickly said she didn't take it. Finally, my mother's eyes turned to me. I looked at my mother's suspicious eyes and wanted to tell her the truth that my little brother secretly took away the toys. But I was afraid that my mother had wronged me. When I was in a hurry, I said, "Money … money … it's me … I …" Before I could say my brother's name, my mother slapped me … miserable! Look how much injustice I have suffered!

No way, I have to make up my mind to get rid of this stuttering problem and get rid of this unprovoked trouble completely.

Write an 800-word argumentative essay entitled "Family Education in My Eyes".

I once read a story about a boy taking his beloved dog for a walk with his father. The dog trampled a girl's small canal while running. The little girl unreasonably asked her father, a wealthy businessman, to buy the dog and kill it. The boy's father didn't choose whether to sell the dog instead of his son, but told the rich man that the owner of the dog was his son and it should be his son's decision.

I quite agree with this father's approach. He didn't impose his will on his son, but let him think independently, make his own choices and take charge of his own affairs.

It seems simple, but I don't think it is. The first is respect for children. Only when parents respect their children can they gain their respect and trust, thus laying a solid foundation for the communication between the two generations. But now many of my parents have arranged everything for their children, from food to clothes, even their thoughts and behaviors. Parents only ask their children to read good books, but seldom care about their hearts. In this way, the gap between parents and children is growing.

In fact, letting children choose for themselves can also help children understand their attitudes and ways of dealing with people, just like telling this story at the beginning. Finally, after the rich merchant offered ten times the original price, the boy remained unmoved and resolutely refused to sell his dog, which showed his virtue and integrity. If the boy wavers in the face of money and exposes his weakness, his father can educate him.

In addition, it can cultivate children's ability to think independently. A person always has to face life by himself, and parents can't be guides for their children all their lives. If children are dominated by their parents' thoughts for a long time and have no ability to think and live independently, they cannot survive in this highly competitive society, let alone make a difference.

Finally, it also cultivates children's sense of responsibility. Imagine, a person without a sense of responsibility, how to face reality and life?

Therefore, in my opinion, parents should attach great importance to their children, respect their wishes and seek their opinions.

Dear parents, you all love your children very much, so please create such an atmosphere for your children to grow up healthily in such a family education atmosphere.

Grow up!

A family writer, a warm synonym. In this vast world, in this vast world, home is like a safe haven that stands forever in the wind and rain, and it is your only support. Yes, no matter how many storms you have experienced outside and how many grievances you have suffered, you can forget too many unhappiness and wipe away too many tears when you walk into this perhaps ordinary room, and still feel that life is beautiful. Perhaps at the critical moment, this is the only place where you can stop and rest when you are tired in the journey of life! In my warm family, my father's humor often makes me laugh; Mother's thoughtfulness often makes me feel warm! My lovely family always touches me so much! After entering junior high school, learning tasks are heavy and time is tight. I go home late every day. It's been several days. It's late, but I'm still on my way. I don't know why, the line formed by these two points is not long on weekdays, but it seemed so painful at that time, and there was an inexplicable sense of loss when I walked into the dim light. In the cold winter, it is even more creepy. Darkness prompted me to speed up my steps. Gradually, near, near, getting closer and closer to home. A dazzling light made me look forward involuntarily. Ah, it turns out that the light in my house is still on, and there is a kind of excitement in "another village" Then what caught my eye was a familiar figure, anxiously wandering at the door, looking around, looking intently, it was my mother! I'm surprised that I'm still waiting for me outside in such a cold day with a biting wind. At the moment, although my ears are red with cold, I don't feel anything and there is no warm current in my heart. Suddenly, I found my eyes very hot, and that wet thing gradually blurred my vision ... My lovely family always brought me too much happiness! It's another weekend, so I can relax in my intense study life. Of course, this kind of leisure time cannot be wasted. Hey, but speaking of my home, the weekend was really interesting. When I got up early in the morning, I thought about listening to children's songs on the Internet, but I saw my father stretching his legs, singing while listening, and swaying cheerfully. Oh, now is really not the time. I thought to myself: it's not bad to watch TV for a while. My mother interrupted me: "I'm going back to watch last night's TV series. Go to the living room and have a look. " Oh, I'm really uncomfortable. They are still laughing. But what I am looking forward to most is dinner time. Ha, first a family of three stared at a dish, and then grabbed it there. In the end, I often lose both sides, because I am the fastest, haha! After dinner, we walked side by side in the garden of the community, passing through the silhouette illuminated by the moon, enjoying the fresh air and sucking the mixed flowers, not to mention how interesting it was! My lovely family always teaches me too much about how to be a man! I remember that time, I made an appointment with my classmates to buy books. As a result, I still didn't get up in the morning and didn't go. As a result, my dad found out, and I'm going to apologize to my classmates. I didn't agree at first, but I remembered my father's earnest words, "Son, when you grow up and enter the society, the most important thing in dealing with people is honesty." If you can't even do this, then you are a loser. " From then on, I remembered that there is a kind of morality called honesty, and I tried to do it. My home is like this, always leaving me too many beautiful memories inadvertently! I will never forget the lamp that was lit only for me, my father's tinkling instruction, and my mother's busy figure for me in the morning! Home is my first school. It taught me to be strong, grateful, tolerant and honest ... which benefited me a lot! My home and the warmth that belongs to me will remain in my heart forever.

In the past 20 years, when my family education and life experience required me to write a composition in middle school, I listened to a story told by my teacher. At that time, I was full of romance and fantasy about life, and after listening to the story, I felt that it had just blown away. With the continuous enrichment of life experience, I have a deeper understanding of the story.

The story goes like this: In the afternoon at the seaside, a fisherman who came back from fishing asked a man who was sitting lazily on the beach basking in the sun: "What are you doing sitting here when you don't go to work or fish in such good sunshine?" ?

The lazy man said, "I just want to bask in the sun quietly now"!

The fisherman said, "Look how many fish I caught in the morning"!

Why do you catch so many fish?

"Fishing can sell more money, and then you can buy a villa and a car, and life will be more comfortable," the fisherman said longingly.

"What do you want to do most when you are at ease?"

"I just want to lie on the beach and bask in the sun quietly and enjoy the sunshine bath."

The lazy man said, "I am enjoying the sunshine now"!

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People's material desires are innate: ignorant babies wail to avoid hunger, children cry to their parents for toys to satisfy their game mentality, adults run around and settle down ... houses, tickets, cars, tired to the world stock market, downtown areas all over the world. They wasted their white hair and felt sad, but in the end they wanted to bathe in the sunshine by the sea.

How much material there is in this world, how many people will pursue it; How much fame and fortune, how many people will compete. Who will enjoy the sunshine quietly on a busy day?

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In the novel How much land does a man need in his life, Bertie said: There was a greedy landlord who used his life to plunder land. By the time he died, the land he occupied had to be measured by riding a horse. male

On his deathbed, the tenants dug a grave for him on the vilen. "Let me take one last look at my resting place!" The big landlord said, so people carried him into the grave. Facing the grave, the landlord suddenly

I suddenly understood a simple truth, that is, a person only needs six feet of land from head to toe in his life, that is, he can comfortably put himself in, and this little land is enough!

Materialism is the expansion of human self-nature instinct and selfish instinct. When you are tired of those gorgeous secular, simple and warm sunshine is the real color.

Sunshine is colorful, so should life. When we rush to chase our happiness on the street corner of the city, remind those who are in a hurry to stop their lonely and hurried steps, calm their nerves and enjoy the bright sunshine overhead. Be a person who can chase the sun, bathe in the sun and know how to live!