Argument: Our view is that the responsibility for the parent-child generation gap lies with parents. My parents who have lived for more than ten years are very mature and know a lot. There is a saying that parents eat more salt than we do. Obviously, parents know the world better than we do. However, the times are constantly moving forward. Their accumulated life experience is not applicable in today's fast-developing society. We are young people in the new era. With the continuous progress of the times, our parents can't keep up with us. We can't stop moving forward and wait for our parents to keep up with us. Parents not only don't understand us, but sometimes they use their outdated views to resist our development. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the parent-child generation gap lies with parents.
The other side's point of view: Our point of view is that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with their children. Children always flaunt their own points to educate us. Actually, we should think from another angle. Every parent loves their children and doesn't want any harm to their children. So they will use their accumulated life experience for more than ten years to guide us forward, and we scoff at it and think their views are very cliche. If we don't adapt to the present living environment, we don't want to open our hearts to our parents and communicate with them. We just want our parents to understand us unilaterally, but we never want to understand their past. When our parents try their best to keep up with our thinking, we choose to leave them. The responsibility for the generation gap naturally lies with our children. This is our view.
Anti-1: Why was there no generation gap between children and parents when they were young? Is this also a problem for parents? Because the child is in a rebellious period.
Zhenger: Children have no independent thoughts when they are young. As parents, if children have an independent understanding, they should guide them correctly.
Anti-2: Children should not take the initiative to stay away from their parents and not communicate with them.
Contrary to one: both parents were young, and the direct problem of the generation gap still lies in the children. Parents want to communicate with their children and improve their relationship with them. For example, idolization, a young man now, parents try their best to cater to their children and look at them from the present perspective.
Zhengsan: Parents' thoughts can't keep up with the development of the times. They usually discourage children's hobbies.
Counterparty 2: Many times, children need their parents to educate them about new things, such as some bad influences on the Internet. If parents don't guide their children, they will go astray.
Zhenger: But sometimes parents' guidance is wrong.
Counterparty 2: The other debater also said that sometimes, but after all, parents have experienced more things and are more experienced than their children. Everyone makes mistakes, and mistakes are inevitable.
Zhengsan: But parents' thoughts always stay in their time, which is not fashionable enough, so it is difficult for children to communicate with them.
Against 1: Parents and children go idolizing together, surf the Internet together, read novels together, and don't watch enough movies? The main reason for the generation gap is that children are rebellious and feel that their parents' guidance is wrong.
Zhengyi: But basically every child will start to rebel when he reaches junior high school. Parents should know this problem and pay attention to it.
Counterparty 2: Parents try their best to communicate with their children, but the children refuse.
Contrary to one: parents are mature and they are experienced people, but children think their guidance is incorrect and don't believe it.
Masaichi: At this time, parents should take the initiative to communicate and find a more suitable way to communicate with their children.
Positive 2: Regarding the parent-child generation gap, parents are external factors, children are internal factors, internal factors are the key, and external factors are conditions. Children's thoughts change in the process of growing up, and parents' unilateral efforts are also futile.
Anti-two: the problem of growth is the problem of generation gap.
Zhenger: Parents should respect their children's choices. The world has changed, so has people's thinking.
One: Parents also know that the world has changed, but children often see a part of the world only because of the rise of the Internet, fashion hype or other social changes.
Masaichi: Parents should know the circle in which their children live.
Reverse one: It is enough for parents to put themselves in their children's shoes.
Masaichi: Communication is a two-sided problem. (Laughter)
Parents have rich experience in life and should understand their children more. Parents will be angry if their children don't study well enough.
Reverse one: that's because they hate iron not to produce. Children should regard this as a kind of motivation and study harder.
Zhengsan: Young people are bound to go through a rebellious period, and their parents have had it, so they should have experience to treat it.
Reverse one: However, the premise for parents to try to understand their children is that they can accept their own opinions.
Zhengyi: Children accept their parents' past, and parents should strive to improve themselves.
Counterparty 2: Do other debaters think that parents' education methods are wrong?
One: We should judge the present situation from a historical perspective. Parents try to understand that children are also advancing with the times, but not all fashionable parents can walk into their children's hearts. Parents' doors are open and children's doors are locked.
Zhenger: In fact, the times are developing, but parents' hearts are not open.
Reverse one: parents' doors are always open to children, and children should gently push them away. Parents are waiting in the aisle. Nowadays, many things called fashion are not necessarily bad and avant-garde.
Conclusion:
Four arguments: We believe that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with parents. Guiding children's parents with their outdated ideas will disgust their rebellious children. Parents pretend to be elders and think that they are right anyway. Therefore, they can't communicate well with their children, and there is a generation gap between them. Children want to have a pair of parents who understand themselves and tell them their troubles. But at this time, parents either feel that their children are affected by some bad habits, or feel that such troubles are completely unreasonable. Repeated responses like this will naturally prevent children from communicating with their parents and deepen the generation gap between them. Therefore, the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with parents.
Four arguments against it: the main responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with children. Nowadays, the society is complex, and the network, groupies, bad movies and novels are always endless. In order to protect children, parents will use their own ideas to guide their children's growth. Maybe these methods are a little inappropriate, but we should be more considerate of them, instead of accusing them and rejecting their suggestions. If we can't accept their views, we can raise this issue and discuss it with them. My parents have also experienced adolescence, and they really want to know us. However, their children chose indifference and distrust, which made everything they did in vain. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with their children.
Moderator: Today's debate was wonderful, and both debaters played quite well. Where is the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children? This is a question worthy of our consideration. Communication needs the efforts of both sides. In the face of problems with parents, we should think more from the perspective of parents. Of course, parents also need to know more about us and understand us. However, in addition to the reasons from parents and children, the influence from society can not be ignored. I hope everyone can communicate with their parents and get to know each other better. This concludes today's debate.
The main responsibility of the family generation gap lies in the whole process of children's defense.
A debate (Li Fangyan) debate:
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First of all, I point out some mistakes in the other party's argument: (temporary organization)
Modern Chinese Dictionary holds that the generation gap is due to the differences in values, psychological state and living habits between the two generations, and their responsibilities have two meanings: first, what they should do; Second, we should bear the fault of not doing our duty. Mastering these concepts, from the generation, performance, development and essence of the generation gap, we can make it clear that the main responsibility of the family generation gap lies with children.
The generation gap is mainly manifested in the differences, misunderstandings, suspicions, complaints and even oppositions between parents and children. Generally, as children mature, the generation gap will gradually ease.
How did the generation gap come into being?
First, the dramatic changes of teenagers' physical and mental state. The drastic change urges us to discover ourselves, pursue independence, subvert the concept of childhood, and begin to choose and pursue the values of career, friendship, love and life. However, in today's one-child families, the lack of parents' knowledge and experience makes them unprepared for their children's changes and can only be dealt with in the previous way. Only when teenagers let their parents know about this sudden change can they bring about corresponding changes in their concepts and consciousness and eliminate misunderstandings and estrangements.
The second is the brand of the times. Parents born in 1950s and 1960s need a process of gradually knowing, understanding and accepting the concept of world integration. In the family, children are of course the fastest in ideological and cultural renewal, so it is the unshirkable responsibility of children to guide their parents to approach, understand, understand and accept the times.
Third, the rapid development of the times has brought parents nervous, tired and anxious emotional attitudes. Tension, fatigue and anxiety are the important reasons why children don't like their parents and form a generation gap. It is their duty to prevent parents from making decisions under bad emotions and help them eliminate bad emotions.
Fourth, children are impetuous, irritable and self-righteous. Well-informed parents certainly don't buy it.
The solution to the generation gap lies in both sides. Parents should study cultural knowledge hard, understand the characteristics of children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics and concepts of the times. Continuous learning and progress; At the same time, adjust your physical and mental state and try to treat your children with an optimistic, cheerful and trusting attitude; Children should be considerate and care about their parents, and adopt appropriate methods to guide parents to understand themselves and the concept of the times; At the same time, we have a clear and profound understanding of our young and superficial needs. However, the primary responsibility of parents is to support their families; Children's social task is learning. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the family generation gap lies mainly with children.
A Summary of Attacks and Debates (Two Debates on Ding Wei's Attacks and Debates)
Question 1. What are the main tasks given to students by society and family?
Question 2. Who will pay for the child's accident?
Question 3: Is it a form of communication for parents to talk to you while eating?
(Three Debates on Lu Xulong's Attacks and Debates)
Question 1. Is it easy to get excited when people are tired?
Question 2: Is it an apology to ask you to go shopping after your parents misjudged you?
Question 3. When you get home, you close the door Is this a signal of hope for communication?
Children's learning failure and children's troubles will bring pressure and loss to parents; Many times, parents frequently send communication signals, and children often take avoidance; Family reunion is often after work, and fatigue and irritability easily make parents' emotions and attitudes abnormal; In addition, we should understand that many times parents are angry not because of our fault, but because of fatigue and anxiety. Children should not just admit that they are sorry. After their mood and state improve, parents may apologize by caring, helping, entertaining and even directly pleasing. Don't close the door, don't be silent, children's happiness is the source of family vitality. Children can also choose to communicate by writing letters. These mean that children should try to understand and care for their parents. The responsibility of the family generation gap lies with their children. (243 words)
Free debate sentence design:
This is an extreme example.
We can't see the forest without leaves.
This does not represent the overall situation of parents, nor is it our theme today.
Please don't take it one-sidedly.
Can parents go to university for the aged?
Who will pay for parents' college education for the aged? Who supports the family?
How many senior universities are there in Sinopec? Where is it?
Has the opponent's argument been exhausted?
We have pointed out that both parents and children have responsibilities, but the main responsibility lies with the children.
To solve the generation gap, parents should study hard and adjust their physical and mental state in time; Children need to be considerate and concerned about their parents and find suitable ways to guide them to learn and understand.
Parents are rude to children, and children should consider their parents' psychology.
Both parents and children are responsible for the generation gap; Children have not done enough in caring for their parents, respecting and caring for their parents, and taking on family responsibilities. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap lies mainly with children.