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Choice is an inevitable frequent visitor in life, and I don't like to choose everywhere. Some people may think that the right to choose is that I have prestige and am not humble, but I should respect humility. Maybe some people think that there will be a feeling of evil spirit after choosing, and the whole person seems to be floating on a fake cloud; Perhaps some people think that choice means that their rights are still there, and they are still a capable and prestigious person. In my opinion, the choice is to give up the others and keep the lonely one. So, how cruel the choice is.
Choice is selfish. He must let you choose, abandon the innocent and poor people you don't like, and leave a lonely "winner" who seems to be above. The choice is always a combination of "giving up" and "being abandoned". He makes you sad, desperate and uneasy. You don't know who you will choose among all the people. Greedy choice abandoned one after another, abandoned one after another, seemingly abandoned one after another, but so fragile, fragile and soft. He let you, let your dreams die. In his view, it is as simple as blowing bubbles. In your opinion, it's just a "heart-wrenching book".
In psychology, there is a game of choice. He is cruel, greedy, cruel, cruel and greedy to suck and strangle your tiny and fragile mind, and greedily suck your confidence and future. This cruel game, like a game but not a game, is played like this: take out a pen and paper, write down the five most precious things in your life, then cross out one thing, cross out another thing, cross out another thing, and finally leave one thing, which is the most precious thing in your life.
When I was playing this "game", I wrote down my five most precious things: family, computer, inspiration, skills and study. According to the rules of the game, I have to cross it out first. Cross out the family? Impossible, without family, I have no dependence, and I can't live without dependence; Cross out the computer? It's impossible. Without a computer, I have no place to write. Without writing, I would be like an old friend who left. Cross out inspiration? Impossible, how can I start a business without inspiration? If I can't start a business, I can't stand in the society. Cross out skills? It's impossible. How can you work without skills? My skill is sketching. I want to be a luxury fashion designer in the future. I can't do anything without this skill. Go boating to study? Impossible, in order to pave the way for career, learning is very important, you must have it! I am inseparable from everything. I think this is a kind of self. I must feel sad about everything. There must be times when you are sad, so why be sad early! So, the result of playing this game is that I gave up the game and I violated the rules of the game.
Choice means giving up, giving up means parting, and parting means sadness. I'm tired of choices. I hate choices. Perhaps, the winner, the chosen person, smiles happily in the position of victory, while the loser, the loser, is secretly sad and crying in the position of failure. Choice means betrayal and unhappiness. Life is one, so why not let unhappy people stand at the high end and smile cunningly!
The choice of life
Reading is the seed and harvest of the soul. Books are the ladder of human progress, and books are the pets of spiritual pursuers. Because reading is not only leisure and elegance, but also a kind of spiritual environment and understanding, and a kind of high enjoyment from the senses to the soul. It's like an outing in March in spring, harvesting with a sickle in September in Mid-Autumn Festival, or talking with a long-lost friend around the stove in the middle of winter. A person who loves reading has feelings about books, such as "Peach Blossom Pond is deep in thousands of feet, and he has feelings for himself".
Reading makes the mind quiet and indifferent, and makes life detached from things. The desire to read a good book will often creep up on you inadvertently, just like the delicious smell when you are hungry, and like a vigorous love, which makes you reluctant to give up and want to stop. When reading, don't worry about it, don't be depressed, don't be greedy, don't be quick, you can't read all the books at once, and expect to learn a lot overnight. "I am eager to learn and have a long-term interest in self-restraint. I don't know if I know. You need to think about it urgently. " It is the truth that people chew.
Reading is actually reading friends. Get together with friends who are familiar or unfamiliar and have a spiritual meal. When we are immersed in books, friends come from books, such as grieving Qu Yuan, wild Li Bai, melancholy Cao Xueqin and humorous Mark? Twain, who came from the book, guided us through the noisy and impetuous world and connected us with the spiritual waves leading to the light of wisdom and philosophy. For example, when Zhong Ziqi played "Mountain Flowing Water", he cried and suddenly turned around. Yu Boya sat beside him silently, so he started a dialogue of thoughts and a dance of the soul. The ancients had book friends. In the face of a good book, * * * narrates his feelings and makes no secret of his opinions. Even if his reading experience is not profound enough, it can attract more profound and meticulous thinking.
Reading, not only choose books to read, but also choose people to read. In the final analysis, you still have to read to others. People who can read learn the essence from books to improve themselves; Illiterate people choose some evil fragments from books to corrode their souls. When reading, you should carefully understand the author's emotions and mentality. At the same time, readers should adjust their mentality, the height is not high enough, and they can only appreciate the superficial beauty of the works. If the tone is too high, it will be caught by the creator's thoughts and lose its own aesthetic standards. The best way to learn is to keep a peaceful and gentle attitude.
A good book is a bright light in the world, illuminating people's hearts and the road of human history. Every careful reading is a spiritual journey. Reading is noble and sacred, because it will bring spiritual enrichment and spiritual excitement, so that you can live a great realm of life.
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Wandering between life and death, between light and darkness, some people choose life, some choose death, some choose light, some choose darkness, which really comes from a spiritual vein in the depths of human hearts, but chooses eternity.
Choose eternity. The eternity of a meteor comes from the brilliance of life, the eternity of a moth comes from the light and heat pursued by life, and the eternity of life comes from repeated choices.
Standing on the coast of history, I wandered back to the ditch of history: Dr. Chu meditated on Zehe and died without regret; Wei Wudi whip east refers to courage; Tao Yuanming carefree Nanshan, drinking and picking chrysanthemums, they chose eternity. Even if flattery and slander deceive the audience, it is a persistent choice not to let it flow. Even if Marco is buried in Kansai, it is a hero's choice to raise his voice and try his best to sweep away the smoke. Even if it is difficult to eat all day, I want to enjoy myself and plow Long Mu. This is an elegant choice. In a series of choices, emperors will become their great achievements, and sages will become their eternal articles.
What about today? How many people are weak and numb in the gentle and rich countryside? How many people are willing to choose poverty, simplicity and vitality? Material desires drained their blood and sweat, singing and dancing flattened their aspirations, flattery catered to mediocrity, and fame and fortune harmed the people. Thousands of years of national spirit is magnificent. Who else sings? Five thousand years of traditional virtues have a long history. Who else will pass it on? Choosing eternity is not to get rid of the Millennium civilization and break the moral porcelain jar. Choosing eternity will not make us indifferent to life.
Choosing eternity requires the spirit of "mighty and unyielding" and the heroic ambition of "walking with iron horses"; Choosing eternity requires the exploration of "I will go up and down to seek" and the nobleness of "keeping innocence in the world".
Choose with your heart, give people shade, choose with your will, and hold up a clear sky. The worship of life and the pursuit of self-confidence require us to choose eternity. In the torrent, the warrior chose his own departure, but gave others life; In the vast desert, soldiers chose their own hardships but gave others happiness. Facing gangsters and difficulties, the choice of life gives people vitality, pursuit and success, and the choice of soul produces eternity.
Choose eternity. "Tian Xingjian, the gentleman strives for self-improvement", "The terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with morality."
Choose eternity. Pursuing the totem of life, inspiring people trapped in the quagmire and making people in distress safe. Even if you get nothing, even if you die in pieces, you should pass on the torch of civilization and morality, and choose eternity with a choice without regrets in this life, even if you die nine times!
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When a person is afraid of choice, he is trapped. It's hard to say how helpless I am. I just follow other people's schedules to the end when I'm busy. And once I am free, I look around and really don't know what I should do.
More specifically, faced with a handful of books on the shelf, I don't know which one to read. Finally, I left this question to my friend. After a phone call, I picked up the one introduced without hesitation. I have never considered the content of the book and my own needs. As for those books, where did they come from? I'm afraid it's just a phone call! Facing the email that I didn't click to send, I just sat and looked at it and realized that there was such a thing waiting for me. Finally, a man was brought in to click a mouse weighing 1000 pounds instead of himself. It seems that this will make you feel at ease, even if the consequences have nothing to do with yourself. Facing the problem of going home by car or walking is also an equally troublesome choice. This is like choosing to walk and encounter robbers, and choosing to take a car will encounter a car accident. So we should keep calm and wait for our good friends to pick us up. Facing the clothes you wear, the food you eat and the scenery you see. I can actually answer with a simple "whatever, it doesn't matter".
For such people, we may not hesitate to say something crazy. But after that, we can think about the process of their departure. Maybe at first, they just want to have less trouble choosing. But over time, after getting used to relying on others, I got tired of choosing. Until the end, I lost my ability to choose for many years. This rapid evolution may just be to avoid the punishment that will be faced after making the wrong choice. However, I don't know, my escape has made me more punished, and I no longer know how to choose. In fact, any one of us may become such a person.
If life is a car that keeps rolling forward, then the question to choose is the station to stay. We always have to get off by ourselves, so we always have our own choices. Even if the passengers kindly ring the bell for us to remind us to get off, they are not us after all. After getting off the bus, we still have to walk that distance by ourselves. Ignorantly asking for help from others will only make us lose our way after getting off the bus.
Therefore, we should learn to choose, learn to see our own way clearly, ring the bell bravely and go our own way bravely!
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As soon as I got to school, Teacher Yu jokingly said to me, "What do you want in my life?" I uniformly wrote:
Happiness, happiness and care
The teacher looked and said nothing. "How about we play a little game?" The teacher said mysteriously, "What game? You are so naive! " I proudly said, "I heard that there is a special supermarket in the south, where everything is available, and all kinds of strange things are available. How about going?" By the way, things there can be free. "The teacher said with a big smile. I was very surprised: "Really? Really? Why not go to such a good thing? "I said and jumped three feet.
My teacher and I went to the legendary "game supermarket". As soon as I pushed the door, I slipped in. Look, my God! I can't believe my eyes. There are exquisite gems and lively and lovely dolls. I can't stick to one pattern. My eyes are spent. At this moment, the teacher shouted in his ear, "You have five minutes to get what you want most." I am like an arrow, I want it when I see it, such as jewelry, fans, clothes, elixir, spacecraft, wealth, knowledge, snacks and so on. Now I'm super rich! "I shouted excitedly.
After a while, the teacher led many people to come. At first glance, it turned out to be a tour guide. The tour guide smiled and said, "We will go to America by spaceship. I thought, great, it's really a pie in the sky! " A large group of us were packed with heavy travel bags? On the spaceship.
We boarded the spaceship. Soon, I didn't expect the sky to change like the Monkey King. There was a thunderstorm in the sky, and the hateful thunder Lord thundered. "Alarm, alarm, because the ship is completely overweight, there are too many people, and it will explode soon. You must throw away all your things and go on. " The ship's alarm said in panic. The tour guide panicked and said to us tightly, "You must leave only two items on you." What shall we do? What shall we do? Which one shall we throw? Forget it, I still want my relatives and elixir to throw things down quickly, or the ship will explode, so I threw them down quickly. I only left two pieces, one is the elixir of life, and the other is for relatives.
I didn't expect a wave of unrest to rise again, the wind roared, the sea beat the coast, and a tornado came! Coming! We have to throw one more thing, now! ! Come on! Speed! I thought to myself: What should I do? I'd better throw away the elixir. There are only "relatives" left around.
At this time, Teacher Yu smiled mysteriously and said, "Looking back, what do you want most?" It turns out that the most precious thing in a person's life is his relatives! I was surprised to find that we chose so many things at the beginning, and only our relatives were left in the end!