Sincerely influence people's hearts
Respect and recognition.
First of all, sincerity and respect. I think it is the premise to influence students with sincerity. Every student is a living individual with flesh and blood. If you can take out a heart, be emotional, rational and persistent, I believe the students will definitely buy your account and exchange hearts for hearts. It must be noted that it is necessary to face all students and "buy" the hearts of the public.
I remember there was a student named Wang Biao in our class. He is a standard double-poor student (poor foundation and bad behavior habits). Once I made an "open" mistake, which really angered me, made me furious and swore. At this time, the classroom was surprisingly quiet, and no student dared to show dissatisfaction and resistance.
When I woke up, I immediately realized that I had scolded too much. I regret it very much I sincerely apologized in front of the whole class and said, "Wang Biao, the teacher is wrong. I shouldn't curse others, let alone your family. Sorry ... "
Wang Biao was in tears. He looked up at me, ie bowed his head when he was scolded. There was a commotion in the classroom. I read the respect and recognition from the children's surprised and complicated eyes. From this incident, I gained more closeness and praise from my children.
There is another student, Liang. Because she is a child of a single-parent family, I usually pay close attention to her. One night after studying by herself, she suddenly fainted and was unconscious. I didn't have my cell phone with me when she called me. The next day, I found 14 missed calls on my mobile phone. I called immediately. After knowing this, I was so anxious that I put down half my work and rushed to school at once. When I walked into the dormitory and saw her extremely weak, I immediately hugged her and said, "I'm sorry the teacher is late."
I shed tears while holding the beam. I'm not pretending at this time, I really can't help it! All the girls in the room cried and hugged me and leaned against me, and our hearts melted together at one time. After that, my mobile phone was turned on 24 hours a day. Among these children, I won another supreme laurel, a beloved and supreme reputation of "Ma Liang".
Since I am a "mother", I will be a "mother" in my future life and study, and I can't live up to this sacred title. They were ill, so I took an injection to buy medicine. They were short of money, so I took out my bag to help them. I will try my best to help them no matter what difficulties they meet. Of course, students are really filial to my mother. Some bought me health cups, some gave me white silk scarves, some gave them red dates and moon cakes, and even a boy bought me a hair band with red beads for a little girl to tie her hair. I was surprised, happy and funny, these children! If there is a festival, students will send "Mother Liang" a blessing gift. If it is their birthday, they will buy me a lollipop or put it in the shape of a "heart" on my desk, or solemnly put it on the lecture table with a note: "Mom Liang, today is my birthday, share happiness with me!" How can such a student not be moved! Children, Ma Liang wishes you happiness forever!
Therefore, as long as I impress them and "buy" them, the students will be obedient to me. Of course, if you want to convince everyone, you must be everywhere all the time, taking care of everyone and everything.
Play multiple roles skillfully
Win the admiration of students
If sincerity can win students' closeness and respect, then shaping their good image will make students more convinced and "bow down".
Although there is a big age gap between me and my students, we are a group of urchins in our usual study and life. Hehe, I am an old urchin, and there is almost no generation gap between us, because I have been integrated into their lives, know their joys and sorrows, and then "love what they like", stimulate their interest in learning, cultivate their sense of ownership, and then form the cohesion of the class. In the eyes of students, I don't think of myself as an elder, let alone an old man behind the times. I always set an example for them with vigor, vitality and ability.
A student named Ren once described me like this: My teacher, dressed in black, is as powerful as a female agent, with a pointer in her left hand and chalk in her right hand. The pointer in her left hand is a decoration, and the chalk in her right hand is the real thing. She wrote a blackboard and sweated all over the floor. She is our teacher Liang.
Seeing this, I am both sad and happy. I'm glad I didn't physically punish the students, but I was "dignified" in front of them. My efforts have been recognized by students, but my students' writing level is really not flattering.
And Wang Jianfeng, who praised me like this: "During the whole evening self-study, the classmates upstairs were' restless' and stunned us all. I really want to go up and see what they are doing, but I dare not, teacher. Why don't you go up and have a look? You are so angry that you will be scared to death at that stop. "
Some even said that they had heard my "gossip" and "rumor" and praised me as a "pregnant girl" ...
Haha, although their expressive ability is really poor, I can feel my admiration and admiration for them from the children's words and their naive words.
Qin, who transferred from the second day of junior high school, didn't study very hard, but I worked hard. I changed my hairstyle a little last semester, and he immediately sighed, teacher, I also want to change my hairstyle, dye it and get a diagonal bangs. I immediately replied: "How dare you! Just me, not you! Hey! " With arrogant stick figures.
I don't know if I'm in the trend. Anyway, students think I am a "tide mom" and idolized. I can't believe that an old woman in her teens is an idol of teenagers! Haha, I am proud! I am proud! Therefore, I think as long as the mentality is not old, I will always be young!
I often mingle with students, joking, having fun and having fun. It's fun to interact with them! See them lazy in class, immediately come to a competition or randomly choose a typical student Doby to smile. When they were in ecstasy and couldn't stop, they issued a routine of "Don't laugh, don't show more than four teeth, or they will be punished", and the students immediately converged. Some even hold their upper and lower lips with their hands, which is funny and lovely.
Of course, my "punishment" has many rules, but none of them are commonly used. For example, a one-legged platform is both effective and interesting. Sometimes after class, I see the child dead and motionless. I immediately ordered everyone to go from the third floor to the first floor and then return. When I catch the last one, the children will explode instantly and fight like chicken blood. Sometimes I may get a reward for catching the last one. Anyway, they are unpredictable to me. I can also play with them at will.
It should be pointed out that students are children after all. Don't forget to throw a bomb at the right time to "suppress" them when they are complacent. If they really blend in with the children, class work will not be boring, and sometimes it will be interesting.
A student named Hou Jiannan asked to add me to WeChat during self-study one night. I'll call the physics teacher in class right away to see if he is playing with his mobile phone in the classroom. When I asked him the next day, he said he asked for me to be added at dinner time. I didn't pursue it, and I didn't have the heart to pursue it, even though I knew he had violated the discipline, because I had a conversation with him at that time, and I was moved no matter whether he was right or wrong. Students should miss me like this and always miss me! I know they didn't adulterate it to please the teacher at all.
A discerning person can distinguish between true and false.
Hot and cold must be combined with kindness and kindness.
There is a lot of sincerity and concern, and one more thing I want to say is the majesty and shelf of the class teacher. We should have dignity instead of putting on airs, be willing to mingle with students and be good at communicating with them, but if we care and care blindly, students will get used to it and be ungrateful, and we will push our luck.
I have a strict class rule: "No big mistakes, no small mistakes." A little overbearing. Big mistakes and small mistakes include all mistakes. It is impossible for students not to make mistakes, but generally they don't make mistakes, let alone make big mistakes. This is the regulation of our class railway. I also use weekly test, basically once a week to conduct democratic evaluation, reward for good performance and criticize for poor performance, which effectively restricts students' daily bad behavior.
It should also be noted that the class teacher must have a pair of discerning eyes, be able to identify students' true mentality and gain insight into their inner world, such as taking time off, and not treat them equally. Wen Xuejiao is sick and asks for leave. When I see something wrong, I will take her to the doctor myself, because I can't pretend to be in that state. Another student is also ill. I can see his hypocrisy at a glance, although he is hunched over and clutching his stomach, and he is very sad. He is "standing up!" " "Under the harsh scolding, he was safe and sound.
It seems that as a class teacher, it is really necessary to combine both hard and soft skills, so as not to blame the students wrongly or let the cheaters succeed. When a student makes a mistake, we can't generalize. It varies from person to person. Some students need calm preaching and "enthusiastic" response. Some students need spicy, give him some color to see see, must be "spicy"; And some students need "cold treatment", ignore it and let him reflect on himself, and the effect will be better.
In short, with our full enthusiasm, a pair of discerning eyes and full stomach, I believe that class work will be handy and enjoyable.
Students evaluate me as strict, kind, domineering, fashionable, mysterious and generous. Their evaluation of me is that sometimes it is cruel and full of love. Sometimes the mouth of a knife and the heart of an axe are majestic. They said, "I am afraid of such a teacher, but I prefer such a teacher!" " "
Zhang Yue said: "I feel that it is so reliable and perfect for the class teacher to treat you like this." I immediately drew a smiling face and replied, "Hehe, I'm blushing a little!" "
Said: "Our mother Liang, the king's domineering, chic personality and fashionable dress lead the trend of our class." I immediately smiled and said hello: "Haha, I am so happy!"
Liu Jiajia wrote: "I deeply like her, especially her boldness. Great, super personality, is my idol ... "My answer is:" I love you deeply, too! " Haha, what a beautiful feeling!
Shi Yaru praised me like this: "You stand on the podium with dignity, and there is a burst of hair on the elite's head, just like a plate of' fish-flavored shredded pork'. You really have a personality. " "Ha ha, so cute. I am a little embarrassed to boast, but you are also a good monitor and efficient! " She also followed another post: "Loose oil!"
Huan Wang wrote: "Ma Liang recently changed her hairstyle. My mother cut her hair short on a whim and regretted it as much as I did ..." I immediately sneered: "Hum, short hair is not for anyone!"
Lei Jingjing left me a message: "I can only say that you are the most individual teacher I have ever seen. The point is: I like it! "
Speaking of which, you must have noticed that this is my diary exchange with the children. As the head teacher of a Chinese teacher, I made full use of the diary platform. When the students were practicing writing, I talked with them, made friends with them and achieved many goals. Why not? Of course, I got excellent Chinese results in my subjects. In the final exam, there are 54 students in my class, 42 of whom are excellent in the whole school, and 12 of them are close to excellent. However, I can't be lazy in marking my diary. Liu Jiajia said, "Why do I often have tears in my eyes? Because Ma Liang gave me a' reading' of my last diary! " Alas, I can't help it! I will stick to it without regrets!
Intellectual students are on duty.
Listening to politics and promoting management
Another important link I want to talk about is the use of class cadres.
Everyone says that I am the shopkeeper of cutting, and my class and students don't need me to do it myself. I use a group of students as monitor of the week in turn.
The burden can't be given to one person, and whoever bothers you will be annoyed. Change words regularly, cheer in time, praise in time, and make a final evaluation (usually ten people in a round, one person in a week). The monitor is the plenipotentiary representative of the class teacher, with power and prestige. If the monitor wants to have this authority, he must be "Smith", and the teacher should do a good job of backing up and delegating power. See the right time when he is irresponsible and incompetent, and dismiss him decisively, but the later work must be in place, encourage, encourage and encourage him at the right time, and strive to let him take office again in the next round.
So others will try their best to strive for the best. A cycle of more than two months of work, every day someone worried about me, the class teacher is not easy to blame!
Although I can be said to be a teacher in Class 11, I am not bitter or tired. I refine, upgrade and surpass! I enjoy it, I enjoy it, I love my children, I love my head teacher's work, and I love my teaching profession! Hehe, I feel a little arrogant and narcissistic! But I sincerely hope that my colleagues can give me more guidance and make me more capable, fashionable, trendy and boastful!