What is perfection? Nothing in the world is perfect. You shouldn't always expect perfection and be too hard on yourself.

For young women, one thing is very important-that is, you should be satisfied with yourself, although movies and magazines will always exert all kinds of invisible pressure and wrong guidance on you.

In fact, female models or actresses appearing on the covers of various magazines have experienced a long period of heavy makeup. Their hair was carefully taken care of by professional hair stylists for more than two hours. They should always hold their breath and keep their heads at a certain height and angle, so that the fat and wrinkles on their chin are not easy to show.

Then, those poor young girls went to buy these magazines and thought, "Oh, I want to be like her." But what they don't know is that their idol is not like that.

A TV program called "I want to have a deadly enemy" shocked me quite. This program tells the story of a girl who wants to be like me. At first, I was aroused and sat in front of the TV. A few minutes later, I began to cry. Part of the girl's stomach was removed. I can't imagine what a painful process she went through.

This girl doesn't know who I really am. She hopes to have a pair of plump girls like me. However, when you breast-feed, as time goes by, your chest will continue to droop and relax under the action of the gravity of the earth. This is a natural law that happens to women.

This girl has collected all the magazines whose cover is me. She has seen all the movies I have acted in, just hoping to look like me. I feel sorry for her because she was deeply misled by the perfect image of me presented by these magazines and movies.

If the girl who wants to look like me walks into my apartment, I will tell her how I feel. I would say, "Stand there and don't move."

Then I took off my clothes and told her, "This is the real me. I don't have a round ass like that. I don't have a pair of plump and towering *. I don't have a flat abdomen. On the contrary, I have a lot of fat on my hips and thighs. " I really want to say loudly: "this is the real me!" " "

Really, I am not such a hot and beautiful actress. I don't have that perfect figure at all.

I am lucky because I think I am mature enough to create an inner peace. I have also experienced that kind of adolescence with mental and emotional disorders.

I know that the real misfortune of the times is that women seem to think that if they want to get love and establish close relationship with a man, they must look wonderful. This is really sad.

Maybe I can tell young women: you don't have to be hard on yourself to lose weight, and you don't have to make yourself skinny in order to achieve your goal.

I never dreamed of becoming a movie star. I only know that I want to perform in this world and do what I love most. Now I'm doing this. I succeeded, and I don't intend to starve myself for this goal. This is very important to me.

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When we catch a glimpse of a handsome guy or a beautiful woman, our eyes always stop unconsciously. Who doesn't like beautiful things? Who doesn't want to have a perfect figure and appearance?

However, the more eager you are, the more you can find your own imperfections. As a result, the gym was crowded and the "plastic surgery department" blossomed everywhere. The progress of science and technology allows us to change many body parts that we are not satisfied with, but what kind of figure and appearance will we be satisfied with? Maybe we should find out, are we not satisfied with our bodies, or are we not satisfied with ourselves and take it out on our bodies?

We often underestimate ourselves. We try to let others see what we want to be, but if we don't see ourselves this way in our own hearts, then in the eyes of others, we are still as ordinary as we think. Maggie Cheung believes that lack of self-confidence is the enemy of women. She said: "Women are most beautiful when they are confident. Some people will find confidence later, and I found it very late. When you find it, you will feel, what is there to be afraid of? If you are afraid, you have to face it. When you are afraid, you will look very nervous and not beautiful at all. Relaxation is beautiful. "

We should look at the good things we have and not always pay attention to our shortcomings. We are born with different shapes and faces, some people are troubled by it, and some people develop their own unique personalities. Think about the people we admire, the most talked about stars, which one has no unique personality? Like Cherie Chung and Kayla? Knightley, Chow Yun Fat and Rain are not the most beautiful, but they will not be hindered by their imperfections.

It may be bumpy to accept your imperfections, but once you can accept yourself from the heart, you will feel that life is more complete and better.

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I've been so lovable since I was a child. My fair skin and big black eyes are really cute. I will always be the best among children, but am I really that perfect?

I have money that no one else has, beautiful face, beautiful dancing and exquisite painting. However, all this was created by my parents for me. I have always dreamed of writing, but they asked me to be a perfect self. Every holiday, I have to endure the pain that other children can't bear. I practiced dancing until my feet were bleeding, and I practiced painting until tears came to my eyes. Although I don't like it, I have to let my parents agree. I don't want to disappoint them, because they let me learn all this for me.

School, I will always be beyond the reach of others. Just because I am so much better than them, I really want to play with them and chat with them. I can't do any of these. My only goal is to be a good girl that my parents expect. I can only study hard with my book in my arms. The girls in my class even think that I am too lofty to climb. Even if I feel uncomfortable again, I will bear it silently. All along, even if I can't do what I like, no matter how wronged, I just want them to accompany me for a birthday. But no, I don't understand. Even when I grow up, I have perfect dancing and ingenious painting skills. I will always be a soulless machine, I am empty. What's the use of doing so much?

I'm not perfect. My flaw is this perfect self, not me. I think the most perfect self must be the one who works hard for her dreams.

Article 4

I happened to pass by a trendy clothing store and saw a beautiful young girl with enchanting curves, but a little inconspicuous fat on her stomach. "Oh, how there are so many proud flesh! How to know people! So ugly! " If this is heard by others who witnessed this scene, they will be very puzzled. What an enviable number this is! She still feels dissatisfied? That's weird.

The pursuit of beauty is human nature, and everyone wants to look noble, graceful and have a delicate and flawless face. Don't forget: no one is perfect. In appearance, don't pursue the so-called perfection excessively, and don't clamor for losing weight all day because slim girls are in good shape and have more meat than them. Don't wear clothes that are not suitable for this kind of clothes just because of the recent rise of one-word collar clothes. Then sooner or later, you will be swallowed up by other people's thoughts and trends in this popular era. Moreover, everyone has his own imperfect and unappreciated side. You have to accept it, don't feel ashamed and don't feel inferior.

Maybe you don't have thick eyebrows, but you can try different eyebrow shapes through makeup, which is incomparable with you. Maybe you think your nose is not stiff enough. Although it is not solid enough, it is a little softer and looks better. Maybe you think your lips are too thick and your mouth is too big, but lipstick looks much better than cherry mouth.

Whatever you do has advantages and disadvantages. No matter how perfect it looks, there are also imperfections. Please treat your imperfect self correctly, truly accept it, stand up with confidence, and overcome the burden and inferiority caused by imperfection.

Be proud of your imperfections. Maybe these imperfections make you perfect in the eyes of others.