Abstract: Human sexual behavior has both natural and social attributes. For human society, sex not only has the significance of making society survive and continue, but also has the power to undermine social stability. Sexual morality, as a norm to regulate human sexual behavior, is something that human beings should abide by and practice. College students are the pillars of the country. From the analysis of the current situation of sexual morality and health education for college students in China, it is necessary and urgent to carry out sexual health education for college students. The healthy development of college students' individual body and mind, the construction of campus civilized environment, family harmony and social stability all need sexual health education. It is an inevitable trend for the development of higher education to attach importance to and strengthen sexual health education for college students.
Keywords:: the importance of college students' sexual health education responsibility
First, the understanding of sex culture and sex education
Although the excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation is rich and colorful, its sexual culture is in short supply. Our traditional sexual culture is conservative and secretive. It seems that when someone talks about sex, they will think that this person has no morality. However, each of us is inseparable from sex. So, why talk about transsexuality? On the other hand, with the development of economic globalization, western sexual culture and concepts have a great influence on China, especially some concepts of "sexual liberation" and "sexual freedom". Of course, the western sex culture is not all-inclusive, and there are many aspects worth learning from. For example, sexual physiology, sexual psychology, knowledge of sexually transmitted diseases and open education on their prevention and treatment.
At the beginning and development stage of sexual health education in China, we should make clear our correct educational orientation, that is, "personality-based marriage and family education". In other words, our sexual health education needs sexual knowledge education, but it also needs sexual morality education. School sex education must explicitly educate students not to have premarital sex, and our sex education must adhere to "the unity of sex and marriage" rather than "the unity of sex and love". Only in this way can we have sexual health education that is suitable for China's national conditions and has the characteristics of China. Make full use of the advantages of mass media, strengthen positive education for college students, carry out publicity and education on sex science and sexual civilization that students love, create an open, positive and healthy public opinion environment for college students' sex education, and guide college students to establish correct values and ethics.
Second, the necessity of sexual health education
In different periods of life development, people will face different sexual psychological problems. Under the action of sex hormones, with the rapid development of sexual physiology, college students have strong sexual desire and instinctive sexual impulse. At the same time, their sexual psychology has also developed, resulting in a strong sense of sex. They have active sexual feelings and thinking, which makes them extremely sensitive and curious about sexual issues.
At the same time, influenced by western sexual concepts, college students' sexual morality is weakened, and most of them are tolerant of premarital sex. They think that college students can have premarital sex, and some students even think that unmarried cohabitation is a way of modern social life.
At present, premarital sexual behavior of college students is not common, but this change in sexual morality is likely to lead to a sharp rise in premarital sexual behavior of college students in the future. Therefore, the most effective means of guidance is moral education. Strengthening the education of college students' views on love, love, family mate selection and life will promote the formation of their healthy personality, and at the same time help to establish good interpersonal relationships and prepare for future love, marriage and family. Therefore, ideological and political educators in colleges and universities should get rid of old ideas, change passivity into initiative, carry out necessary sexual health education, pay attention to strengthening the guidance and sexual awareness education of college students, make efforts to correct the prejudice of college students' sexual concepts, help them understand sexual problems comprehensively, scientifically and correctly, and cultivate their positive and healthy sexual concepts.
Thirdly, the importance and significance of sexual health education in college students' quality education.
1. Sexual health education for college students contributes to social stability and development.
The sociality of people determines that people should not only be responsible for themselves, but also bear certain responsibilities, including moral responsibilities, to the nation, country, family, relatives and friends, and others. College students are the main reserve force in the current national construction, and the cultivation of college students' sense of responsibility will affect the construction and development of the whole country. Sexual moral education can enhance college students' sense of social responsibility. It is believed that the core of college students' sexual moral education is responsibility, which combines sex with responsibility according to its social attributes. Let college students understand that sex is not only a personal problem, but also a social problem. Although college students' premarital sex or extramarital sex is relatively secret in the implementation process, some bad results are problems that society will face. Such as abortion, illegitimate children, AIDS and so on, are mostly caused by irresponsible sexual behavior, which is not only a problem between the parties, but also a problem that affects the whole human society. The lack of sexual responsibility will cause social chaos and some people's suffering. As a reserve talent for social construction, sexual health education for college students is conducive to the stable development of society.
2. Sexual health education for college students is helpful for schools to create a civilized campus cultural environment.
Campus cultural environment not only refers to the construction of campus material environment, but also includes the system culture, mode culture and spiritual culture of a school. The purpose of sexual health education for college students is to internalize social moral norms into individual sexual moral quality through education, so that college students can form a sexual moral view in line with social development. The sexual moral education of college students should make students understand scientific sexual knowledge and understand that sexual freedom is the most basic right of human beings. People can choose their own sexual behavior according to their own wishes, and are not allowed to be interfered by society and others. On the other hand, it requires the parties who have sex to have "privacy". This requires college students to have decent words and deeds, habit consciousness, style and temperament, emotional model, spiritual model and so on. In their daily life, it plays a positive role in forming a civilized and progressive style of study and school spirit, and promotes the shaping of the spiritual soul of the university campus.
3. Sexual health education for college students contributes to family harmony.
At present, the marriage of college students has been allowed by law, and the family relationships that college students face are: the family relationship between married college students and their parents (in-laws), the family relationship between married college students themselves, and the family relationship between unmarried college students. Family harmony is embodied in: harmonious and friendly relationship between husband and wife, harmonious and equal parent-child relationship and harmonious and friendly interpersonal relationship. Through sexual health education for college students, we can guide them to organically unify love, sex and marriage, and be responsible for themselves, their families and society.
4. College students' sexual health education is helpful to the healthy development of individual body and mind.
Sex is accompanied by a person's life, and he also has a process of growth, development, maturity and decline. With the change of sexual physiology, people's sexual psychology has different reactions in different periods. In a person's life, sex is an important factor affecting physical and mental health, and sex health education is an inherent requirement for the healthy development of people's body and mind. College students are in the late adolescence, and their sexual psychology and physiology tend to be mature. They are eager to understand sex and communicate with the opposite sex. Timely sexual moral education for college students in this period can help them correctly understand and face their own physiological and psychological changes; Can guide college students to deal with the communication with the opposite sex; It can guide college students to form a positive view of marriage and love, learn to respect the body and life, and is conducive to the healthy development of college students' individual body and mind.
Since people can't live without sex, why don't we face it seriously? Only by knowing it, understanding it and reading it can we better face it and deal with it. True love is the meeting of souls, and physical kissing is only the result. Therefore, our sexual health education should adhere to the "unity of sex and marriage", strengthen the education of college students' love view, love view, family mate selection view and outlook on life, and promote the formation of their healthy personality.