Personality? Life? experience

You can make your life as warm and warm as the afternoon sunshine, or you can make it as violent as a storm. Your personality guides your life and brings you a unique life experience.

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There is a true story: in a poor family, Xiao Qiang's mother unfortunately suffered from cancer. In order to treat his mother, his father borrowed money from all his relatives, leaving his family penniless. But at this time, the competitive Xiao Qiang was admitted to a key university in Shanghai. His father is both happy and worried. He is glad that his son is so competitive, but he really has no money to pay the tuition in Xiao Qiang. Unfortunately, his father fell ill one after another. Xiao Qiang wrote a letter to Fudan University, explaining the actual situation at home to the principal, hoping that the school could help him apply for a student loan. If he applies for a loan, he can realize his dream of going to college. If not, he will go out to work and earn tuition before going to college. It was later reported by the media. The reporter asked Xiao Qiang why he didn't accept social donations to complete his studies like other poor students. Xiao Qiang said firmly that he must use his own strength to solve the difficulties! This is his personality.

After reading this report, everyone is worried about Xiao Qiang, but Xiao Qiang said firmly: Maybe the road ahead will be very difficult, I will encounter many setbacks and sweat all the way, but I will never regret it. But if one day I succeed, I will say with a clear conscience: I have created my own success. This is my character. If I accept everyone's funding, then I won't have my own success in the future, I won't have the experience of working hard for my studies, and I won't have the strong will honed after experiencing difficulties.

People need to have their own personality in order to have a unique life experience and have their own personality in order to find their true self. It is difficult to find two identical leaves in the world, because everything in the world has its own characteristics.

Personality guides life and will bring you a unique life experience.

2:

banned drug

Drugs are things that can kill people. It's white powder. Inhalation will make people obsessed.

Drugs can make people lose their minds, distort their personalities, become greedy and degenerate, and bring many unstable factors to society; Let the harmonious society cast a gray shadow; Let thousands of families fall apart. Drug addicts are dependent on drugs, and it is harder to quit once more than to go to heaven.

Many people are no different from ordinary people before the onset of drug addiction, but when drug addiction comes up, they will buy drugs at all costs to stop it When you have no money, you even think of stealing money or even killing people. The reason is just to get a small bag of white powder drugs, waiting for them, and finally a pair of cold handcuffs. Many rich people and some prestigious officials are getting worse and worse just to try the attraction of drugs to the human body. Finally, he became an eternal sinner who was spurned.

Drugs involve the whole world, and 5000 people die every year. Among them, 85% are men and women aged 20-30. They lost their young and short lives because of drugs. Because medicine is very scarce, the price has turned over and over again, and many people are miserable because they can't afford it. 200 yuan only got less than half a pack of white powder and chronic death medicine!

Drugs should be abandoned and forgotten. It will make a person lose his family and all the beautiful things in the world, and it will make him feel that there is nothing worth remembering in the world, thus ending his precious life. Will create a harmonious family, full of smoke and war Drugs will demoralize people and promote the rise and fall of a nation. In order to prevent the spread of drugs, let's get ready.

Drug control is the responsibility of every legal citizen!

3:

Love war

When I think of war, I don't think of the picture of a river of blood, but think from the destructive nature of war.

Since ancient times, "the winner is king", from force to wisdom, all started from this point-war, everyone hates war, which is undeniable, but people's selfish desires are endless. From this perspective, war is also necessary.

War is not a simple adventure, and heroes are born in troubled times. Ancient times abound: Kong Ming and Liu Bei, only slightly better; Sun Tzu's art of war is amazing; Chairman Mao and Zhou Enlai are also elites who came out of the war. So many deeds of war and so many post-war civilizations have given generations of young people a heartfelt spiritual bath and washing, giving young people a clear vision and letting people understand the heroic pride of war. It is not that I am afraid of chaos in the world, but that I love "war", which is already a necessary part of society. In times of peace, everyone * * * promotes the construction and development of the motherland, holds high the banner of "being behind will be beaten" and * * * creates one glory after another. War is already a stimulus to civilization construction, not a tragic scene of being buried by horses. In the prosperous period of unprecedented development, the fear of war is the spark and strength of progress, and everyone has the ambition of defending the motherland, so that every country can go hand in hand. Obviously, there is no real "war".

However, this is not only the promotion of war. People also have indirect dependence on war. In my eyes, if there is no war in the world forever and there is only peace and tranquility in the world, it is estimated that the world will be in chaos and soldiers, security guards and policemen will be laid off. Banks, insurance and trust institutions all closed down; The onlookers did nothing, and a large number of guns, ammunition and weapons were all burned. . . . . In this real "troubled times", will human beings still compete? Will it survive? The answer is: no.

Conclusion: Only war will bring a little bit of population extinction to mankind. Without war, mankind will perish.

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Thanks a lot.

Han Xun said, "Han Ji Yuan Di Ji": "Qi Heng had the merit of correcting the Zhou Dynasty first, and then he had the sin of coming, and the gentleman made up for it."

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China people have lived in a rich cultural background since ancient times, and many proverbs have been deeply rooted in the minds of China people. "Making amends" is one of them, but now, on closer inspection, this is not the case.

Many people confuse correcting mistakes with "making amends". Correcting mistakes means that people who have done wrong correct their mistakes while taking responsibility for them. And "making up" is to make up for your mistakes with another thing. So as to achieve the purpose of "error correction". On second thought, the latter is definitely wrong. Although the concept of "better late than never" can encourage the wrongdoer to build up confidence and get out of the shadows on the positive side, it will also encourage many people to take chances when they make mistakes, thus making them out of control.

I think one representative who has to be mentioned here is the famous Tang Xuanzong, who appointed talented people to relieve the people's labor. Under his rule, the society was stable, the politics was clear, and the economy was unprecedentedly prosperous. The Tang Dynasty entered its heyday, which was the later Kaiyuan flourishing age. However, in the later period of Emperor Taizong's reign, he was greedy for pleasure and trusted treacherous officials, which gradually led to the decline of the prosperous Tang Dynasty, and finally the "An Shi Rebellion" broke out and pushed the Tang Dynasty to the abyss of extinction. However, the past has become history, and the Tang Dynasty will eventually perish. Even if the "merit" of Emperor Taizong is great, the page number of history has been turned over forever and cannot be "made up" in unchangeable regret.

In life, you have lost the goodwill of others, such as your frankness. Can you make up for your mistakes with all kinds of "merits"? But sometimes it's like nailing a nail in the wall. After nailing, if you pull it out, the nail will be gone, but there will still be a hole, and so will interpersonal communication. Your past is already your history, but can you try your best to rewrite it? Can't! All the same. Work is work, and redundancy is redundant and cannot be offset.

This is enough to prove that merit is irreplaceable.

5:

I really want to be free

The grass thinks of the earth, and the cloud thinks of the blue sky; Flowers are thinking about buds blooming, and streams are thinking about running to the sea; But I really want to be free.

Since childhood, parents and teachers ... always bound us, forbidding us to do anything, eat anything, or go anywhere ... If we don't do it, you will suffer, and we can only "give in easily". My mother always said that I still don't understand, and defending me is like a blank sheet of paper. In her mind, I will always be a child. Although I have a lot of troubles, I don't grow up. My parents always like to make their own decisions. When things don't go well, they always take it out on irrelevant people, including me. So I really want to be free. I want to drag your arm, fly freely like a bird, go wherever I want, and travel in space without your constraints, orders or even you. But this is only my fantasy, and it will never come true.

Others think that my idea is wrong, because after all, our parents have worked hard to raise us. Without parents, where are we from? Parental restraint is their concern for us and a way for parents to love us ... I know all this, but they should also think from our standpoint and leave us some space. If my parents love me like this every day, sooner or later I will be unbearable and suffocated, so it is inevitable to exclude them from "loving" me.

In reality, I can't be free, but in my dream, I can: escape to a distant place, become what I want to be, do what I want to do ... sometimes I fantasize that I am free and have a world of my own. In this world, there is no bondage, only tolerance, love and, most importantly, freedom! ~

So, who can give me the freedom I want most? Parents? Is it a teacher? ..... no, they can't. All they can give is bondage and orders. ...

I long for freedom, and I have been trying to find it, but I will never get it! ~

So, I want to be free! ~ I want freedom! ~

6:

On Zhuge Liang

In the eyes of some people, Zhuge Liang is a clever man. He did everything well and was praised and admired by thousands of people. But I don't think so about him. He doesn't do some things very well.

Before he went to Battle of Red Cliffs, he borrowed an arrow from a straw boat. Now it is an eternal story, but I don't think so. What if Cao Jun launches a rocket? He'll die. However, Guo Jia died early, otherwise, he would be dead.

After Battle of Red Cliffs, he knew that Cao Cao was kind to Guan Yu, so he let Guan Yu keep Huarong Road and let Cao Cao escape. Others said that he defeated Guan Yu's arrogance. Actually, it's not. He thought that if Guan Yu caught Cao Cao, Guan Yu's gratitude would be hypocritical and Guan Yu's reputation would be damaged. If not, he can not kill Guan Yu and take the opportunity to curry favor with Guan Yu. He had long expected that Liu Bei and Zhang Fei would intercede and asked Guan Yu to guard Huarong Road. If he sends 500 archers and 100 hatchets to catch Cao Cao, then the general trend of the world will be clear at a glance. It is not divided into three parts, but should be divided equally with Wu Dong.

Others said that he expected Wei Yan to rebel and let Ma Dai kill Wei Yan. Others thought Wei Yan had really rebelled, but he wasn't. In the Spring and Autumn Period of Kyushu, Zhuge Liang recorded a sentence that Zhuge Liang said: "If you don't return, the army will be spontaneous." Therefore, he had long expected that Wei Yan would not leave, nor did he find someone to take Wei Yan away in advance, which led to Ma Dai beheading Wei Yan. Poor Wei Yan is dead. He doesn't even have a name.

Knowing that Guan Yu was proud, he told Guan Yu to keep Jingzhou as an important place, let Lv Ziming cross the river in white and capture the beacon tower. Guan Yu lost Jingzhou and defeated Maicheng. He killed Guan Yu by the hand of Sun Quan.

He left Qishan six times, thinking that he could defeat Wei by himself. Such militarism accelerated the time of Shu's demise. He should take advantage of the fact that Shu is easy to defend but difficult to attack to develop the economy. But he didn't, and finally he was exhausted.

In some people's eyes, Zhuge Liang is a wise man and a god. However, there are too many courtship in his life. He is a generation of wise men and a generation of fools.

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Talk about jealousy

What is jealousy? Jealousy is resentment towards people who are better than themselves in talent, reputation, status or situation. There is no jealousy. What is envy? It is to see that others have certain strengths, benefits or advantages and wish they have them, without resentment. Therefore, envy is not equal to jealousy.

So, can jealousy make people progress? Let's start with a fact. Do you know the story of David and Faraday? David is a famous British chemist. He once trained Faraday, a printing apprentice, as a scientist and was praised by people. But Faraday was later nominated as a member of the Royal Society for his outstanding achievements in electromagnetism and chemistry. As the president, David personally opposed it for only one reason: he was afraid that Faraday would surpass himself. After David's heart was firmly occupied by jealousy, there was only resentment in his heart, and he stopped on the road of science and never made any achievements again.

This example seems a little far from us. Let me give an example that is close to our life.

Zhang Xin, a top student in her class, is admired by her classmates and wants to learn some learning methods from her. Therefore, people often mention her. Once, everyone mentioned Zhang Xin again, and Li Hua said angrily, "Is Zhang Xin's grades really that good?" Hum, cheating in the exam, and sometimes even copying the review materials on the table, the teacher can't see it. It's really smart to say something ... "Everyone disagreed, but why did Li Hua say these hurtful words? Obviously jealousy is at work. Jealousy blinded him, so that he could not see the advantages of others, let alone learn from others and make his studies by going up one flight of stairs.

Perhaps, someone will retort, "You misunderstood me. I mean, if one person studies well and another person is jealous, he will naturally think: He can get good grades in the exam, why can't I? " So I study hard, study hard. Naturally, my grades went up. "These words seem to have some truth at first glance, but when you think about it carefully, you find that all wet. Simply put, they confuse self-improvement with jealousy. Self-improvement means that you have the idea of striving for progress, and jealousy means resentment. Seeing others' good grades, you will "change if you are poor", which just shows that this person has self-improvement. This is not jealousy at all!

In a word, jealousy is a harmful psychology. If the degree is light, it will create some trouble for those who come up with achievements; When it is serious, it will suppress a person's life development, which will not only harm others but also benefit themselves. Therefore, jealousy is absolutely unnecessary. What we should have is self-improvement, self-confidence and self-motivation. Of course, we should also help those who are hurt by jealousy to realize their own fallacies, focus on their studies and work, really catch up with others and make continuous progress.

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Don't be casual

I once read in a book that Guo Moruo was very disgusted with casual habits.

On one occasion, he went back to his hometown to visit relatives, and a casual villager asked him for Mo Bao. When Guo Moruo asked him what he wanted, he casually said, "Whatever." The old man frowned and wrote four big words-"Don't be casual".

Indeed, the word "don't be casual" is simple and meaningful. It tells us that everything should be done seriously and responsibly, and we can't just do it casually.

"Don't be casual" should be the code of conduct for all of us. In learning, we should learn well and remember bit by bit. If we are careless, we will miss some knowledge, which may lead to lifelong regret. In the hospital, have you ever thought that if those "angels in white" are a little careless and prescribe the wrong prescription, it will bring unnecessary harm to patients' health, or even more serious consequences. In terms of railways, have you ever thought that if those railway workers casually check the broken track when they are overhauling the track, something will happen when the train runs on it, and who will be responsible for the consequences? On the street, if those "urban beauticians" casually row on the street for a long time, our city will be smoggy and our physical and mental health will be affected. There are countless examples of this.

Of course, what I feel most is my own personal experience. I remember in an exam, in the unit conversion, I lost 3 points for nothing because I wrote a zero. Although the score is not much, it is also a pity.

Thousands of miles of dykes were destroyed by ant nests. We should form a rigorous and serious habit from an early age and do everything around us in a down-to-earth manner.

The above eight items are for you to choose from.

If you are not satisfied, please reply to me, and I will find more argumentative papers!