A great man once said: Parents' job is to educate their children. It is the common wish of parents to "look forward to their children's success", and every parent hopes to train their children to be the leaders of the future society. How to educate the "little emperor" at home-children? It has always been a topic of discussion among parents; It is also a headache for every parent; It is also a major concern of society and schools. Because parents are children's first school, family education has become an extremely important stage in the process of children's growth, which directly affects their future. Therefore, parents should adopt corresponding educational methods according to their children's personality, interests, hobbies and habits, so as to get twice the result with half the effort. First, ideological and moral education is the fundamental task of family education and the core issue of ideological quality education. Educating children should put ideological and moral education in the first place, improve their ideological and moral level, cultivate children to abide by social morality and enhance their sense of social responsibility. Let children know more about historical figures at home and abroad through different channels, and let children know more about the good aspects of them, so as to take the essence and discard the dross. Parents should never take advantage of their academic performance and simply pursue their children's learning, ignoring their ideological and moral education and other aspects of their own growth. They should correctly guide their children to be upright. Second, gradually cultivate children's confidence in knowledge, first of all, cultivate children's good study habits. Parents should make good use of every opportunity to let their children know the importance of study habits. Parents should pay more attention to their children's study, don't ignore it, don't blame their children for their poor study habits, and guide them to correct them and re-establish their confidence in good study habits. Parents should educate their children to form the habit of "asking questions without shame", think independently and be good at analyzing difficult problems. Teach children to learn knowledge, use it flexibly, draw inferences from others, and don't memorize it by rote. The learning method of "reading to death" is not desirable. The study habits developed since childhood have a great influence on people's life and career, and children can only thrive in the atmosphere of good study habits. Secondly, we should stimulate children's curiosity. Love is the best teacher. Curiosity is a child's nature and a reflection of his knowledge. Parents should not only respect and correctly guide their children's curiosity, but also actively explore their curiosity. Parents should patiently, accurately and simply answer their children's questions and guide them to find the perfect answer through reading and thinking. With the accumulation of knowledge, children are eager to learn new things and gradually inspire children to explore new knowledge. Over time, children's curiosity has evolved into a strong thirst for knowledge. Furthermore, it is necessary to cultivate children's extensive interests and perseverance in learning. A child has a wide range of interests, so his knowledge has expanded and his knowledge and experience have increased. Parents should not only guide their children to learn knowledge in the classroom, but also strive to cultivate their children's broad interests and hobbies. Help children arrange homework and extracurricular reading time reasonably, choose books to guide reading, and gradually improve reading interest. Parents should create conditions for their children to see more and get in touch with nature and society, expand their life scope and increase their knowledge. Learning requires hard work. Parents should be strict, cultivate learning perseverance, and constantly stimulate children's learning motivation. You must have perseverance in your study. What matters is not how long you can learn in a day or two, but every day, so persevere. And how to treat children's academic performance correctly. Generally, we should praise and encourage more and criticize less. We should also give affirmation and praise to the child's slight progress, so that he can be deeply encouraged and enhance his interest and confidence, but we should grasp the scale and not praise it too much. Parents should not only affirm their children's achievements, but also point out their shortcomings, guide them to find out the reasons for the shortcomings, and further put forward new requirements, "modest benefits, full losses." When children do not do well in the exam, we should work with them to find out the reasons, help them sum up lessons, enhance their confidence and urge them to further improve their academic performance. Thirdly, training children's self-reliance is a neglected corner in family education. A person's growth is bumpy. Children will encounter problems of one kind or another when they grow up, and parents can't accompany their children for life. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independent ability, guide them to do more housework within their power, and tell them that "diligence is a virtue and laziness is the root of all evil". Don't learn from the ancient Chen Fan's saying, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" It is also necessary to cultivate children's belief in facing setbacks and learn the ability to improvise. Only the petrel, fearless of wind and rain, can spread its wings and soar freely in the vast ocean. Fourth, we should strengthen communication and make good friends with children. A child is a book, and parents only care about turning it back, but it is not easy to really understand it. As parents, we should always communicate with our children and pay attention to and help them like good friends. Parents should look at their children from their perspective and put themselves in their shoes. With the growth of children, children understand the world, and parents also understand this book-children, then parents naturally enter the spiritual world of children. Parents should communicate with their children more, understand their true feelings, understand more and scold less, and have heart-to-heart talks with their children in order to become their bosom friends. In this way, parents can instill correct thoughts and experiences into their children and effectively prevent their children from rebelling. The education and cultivation of children is a very complicated knowledge, and there are various ways to educate children. As parents of children, they must shoulder the responsibility of educating their children, work hard to cooperate with school education, create a good and relaxed environment for their healthy growth, and cultivate pillars for our society.