Tolerance is kindness, tolerance and kindness to others. Small words can make people live in harmony, while big words can safeguard national interests. The human heart is conquered not by force but by kindness.

Lin Xiangru of Zhao returned to Zhao intact, made great contributions, and was named Shangqing, ranking above General Lian Po. Lian Po, who was self-reliant and successful, was not convinced and threatened to humiliate him. When Lin Xiangru heard Lian Po's words, he often refused to go to court because of illness, nor did he argue with Lian Po. Sometimes when Lin Xiangru goes out by car, he runs away when he meets Lian Po. People think he is timid and afraid of Lian Po. Lin Xiangru said, "I'm not afraid that the king of Qin is so powerful. Am I still afraid of Lian Po? I don't think the powerful state of Qin invaded Zhao because of the two of us. Now that two tigers are fighting, there is bound to be a wound, which will inevitably weaken the power to resist foreign enemies. The reason why I avoid General Lian is to consider the interests of the country! " When this word reached Lian Po, Lian Po felt ashamed and made up again. Because of Lin Xiangru's tolerance to others, two important officials in Zhao Can lived in harmony and worked together to make the country stable.