After being frustrated, he not only went his own way, but also blindly resisted, resisted and rejected the right aspects according to his own understanding and emotions.

The so-called rebellious psychology is not an abnormal phenomenon, but a normal psychological process caused by the inconsistency between parents and children's values. Generally speaking, children will have two rebellious periods in their development. The first negative stage is when I am three or four years old. At this time, due to the development of children's self-awareness and their ability to speak, exercise and understand things, they will feel that they can do something by themselves, so they will conflict with their parents' educational views. The second period of resistance is around adolescence. From the perspective of psychological development, this is the normal psychological development of children, but for parents, they will feel that their children are against themselves.

Professor Du, director of the Children's Behavior Research Office of Shanghai Psychological Counseling Center, believes that parents should first understand their children's psychology, truly consider problems from their children's perspective, and help them solve problems, instead of blindly reprimanding and beating, otherwise there will be two adverse consequences: either they are only Nuo Nuo and timid; Or stubborn and reckless, parents should not impose their views on their children. Only in this way can we alleviate the contradiction between the two generations and improve the rebellious psychology.