But today we say "lies", and there is another attribute-goodwill. After adding this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth of people comforting each other, and the tenderness revealed in people's hearts ... No one will investigate its credibility. People who hear a white lie will try to believe it even if they know it is a lie, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes they will be grateful from the heart. Hello everyone! I regret to tell my opponent that you haven't given an essential explanation to the white lie. What you said is only a superficial understanding! We know that people live in this society and bear many obligations, and sometimes there are contradictions between them. When one obligation overrides another, it is necessary to alleviate the other. Therefore, the essence of white lies is a more urgent and important obligation to be implemented at the expense of reducing the obligation of good faith. Just now, when another debater was demonstrating, he also gave some examples to illustrate some functions and benefits of white lies. We also affirmed these effects and benefits, and also affirmed the examples of white lies you just listed. However, you must not ignore that the utility and benefits gained through white lies will eventually come at the expense of honesty. I believe everyone has heard of opportunity cost! In other words, when you do one thing, you lose the opportunity to do other things at the same time. If you want to achieve the effect of white lies, you must sacrifice honesty, which is the opportunity cost of white lies! In addition, modern psychological research points out that white lies can be divided into two categories: one is the white lies of the object, and the other is the white lies of the subject. The so-called white lie of the object is a white lie whose starting point is completely for the benefit of the other party. It states the object of white lies more, such as praising a mentally retarded child and saying that he is smart and giving him confidence. This kind of object lies in goodwill and undermines honesty, which is a chronic poisoning. The so-called white lie of the subject is a white lie whose starting point contains the elements of safeguarding or seeking self-interest. It states more about the subject who lies in good faith. For example, a child does not listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him if he had listened carefully. He didn't want his mother to blame him or feel sad, so he lied and said that he had listened carefully. This subject's well-intentioned lie obviously undermines honesty and is an acute poisoning. Another debater's misunderstanding that white lies do not hinder honesty is nothing more than the hidden influence of white lies on the integrity of the object. You don't see the essence through the phenomenon, and you don't realize that this is a chronic poisoning. Why is the object of white lies chronic poisoning? Psychological research explains that because the white lies of the object destroy the integrity, they will not be directly perceived by people, but will gradually corrode people's integrity system over time. The concept of dishonesty is hidden in their subconscious, and there is "for others!" This sentence will become his inner excuse for undermining integrity in the future. For the above reasons, we believe that white lies hinder honesty! There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.
Mark? 6? Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponent and make your friends feel relieved. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
Yes, please note that even a white lie, as a lie itself, is also a violation of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty. So, I want to speak out here, let's reject white lies and build an honest society together.
Although a lie is well-intentioned, as a lie itself, it is a violation of good faith. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, making a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
Looking back suddenly with the national spirit, it turns out that honesty is in the dim light. Thousands of years later, it can still be clearly heard that honesty is the virtue of the Chinese nation, just as the Great Wall is a symbol of the Chinese nation. If a person loses integrity, he will leave hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses integrity, it will face bankruptcy; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will degenerate and perish!
Keeping faith is the pure land of keeping faith, keeping faith is the success of keeping faith, and keeping faith is that the Chinese nation can last forever.
Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?
So-called white lies can also lead to unpredictable consequences. Give an example: someone is terminally ill. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, his relatives and friends have kept him in the dark. There is no malice or selfishness in this, but it is often unsatisfactory and deception cannot last long. On the contrary, patients lose the rationality of cooperating with treatment and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. Sisera, a female philosopher? 6? 1 Polk warned that such a lie would make people on the verge of a great decline in personality. In the book "Lying, Moral Choice in Public Affairs and Private Life", she wrote: "Psychological barriers are gone, the ability to distinguish between true and false is more vague, and the concept that lies will not be detected may tend to be paranoid." Some psychologists who study lying suggest that anyone who wants to tell a "white lie" to his friends, relatives and colleagues had better think of a question involving psychological reaction.