A harmonious family atmosphere is a fertile ground for cultivating good feelings. Children's mental health problems are closely related to their parents' own education, cultural literacy and living habits. Parents should respect their children's independence when dealing with interpersonal relationships. According to research, children know themselves from the age of 9 and find their existence, reaching 1 1. Therefore, parents should understand this law and pay attention to cultivating their children's independent personality. Children have opinions, let them express their opinions, and don't always tell their parents, so that family life can have a harmonious and democratic atmosphere. For example, after parents' high expectations cause inferiority complex, parents should first conduct a comprehensive understanding and investigation of their children's learning, reduce their high expectations, and let their children choose their own hobbies. In the later period of time, I tried to change the way of education, which eased the psychological pressure of children and made the grades of all subjects rise steadily.

Parents are advised to create a good learning environment for their children.

Parents are advised to prepare enough stationery for their children and subscribe to newspapers and magazines suitable for children to read; Pay attention to make children's learning environment clean and quiet, with fresh air and sufficient light. I think as long as parents fully realize the importance of a good environment for their children's healthy development and mobilize all positive factors in the family, they will certainly create a good learning environment for their children.

3. Home-school cooperation to cultivate students' good study habits.

Good study habits include: cherish time, review, preview, homework, introspection, self-discipline and so on. Cultivating children's good study habits should start from the first day of school. Parents should cultivate and exercise their children's observation, memory, imagination, thinking ability and language ability, as well as their learning motivation, interests and habits according to the laws of their children's psychological development and their own actual situation. With good study habits, students will change passive learning into active learning.

4. Focus on the guidance of family education.

Every family has different specific problems. Many parents feel helpless in the face of their children's many learning problems. The important reason is that they lack a comprehensive understanding of their children and their personality development and have not mastered the correct family education methods. The solution to this problem is:

Improve the level of family education and parents' own literacy, especially the literacy of educational methods and theories. Therefore, schools and class teachers should attach great importance to family education guidance for students, introduce basic theoretical knowledge about children's psychology, education and success to parents, and tell parents of children with excellent academic performance their own good teaching methods. When parents master these basic theories and methods, they can make correct responses to their children's psychological problems on various occasions.

5. Fully understand the important role of family education.

Family is the place where students receive education and influence first, and parents are actually students' first teachers. Family is also an important place for students to live and study, and parents and children have irreplaceable unique feelings and connections. Therefore, family education plays an important role in the development of students' morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor, and parents should be aware of the responsibility of educating their children. Marx once said: "The occupation of judges is law, the occupation of missionaries is religion, and the occupation of parents is educating their children". There is an old saying in China that "it is the father's fault not to teach". It can be seen that parents have an unshirkable responsibility for their children's education. It is a very irresponsible attitude for the parents of the above-mentioned Downing students to shift all the responsibility for educating their children to the school, because these parents lack basic understanding of the important role of family education.

In a word, raising the educational level of every family and improving the quality of parents themselves, especially the quality of educational methods and theories, is a century-long plan to cultivate a new generation of Qian Qian with absolute ideals, morality, culture and discipline. In order to be responsible for the later generation of the motherland, we must attach great importance to family education.