In daily life, I have heard and witnessed too many people and things that have lost great opportunities because of concerns. Some people don't do it because they are afraid of being accused of not doing well; Some people dare not do it because they are afraid of not being able to face the result of failure; Some people give up doing it because they are afraid of the unpredictable difficulties and obstacles ahead ... Facing life in such a timid and idle way, even if there is a big opportunity before them, they will eventually miss the opportunity and accomplish nothing.
How many people failed at the critical moment because of too much concern, and stopped at the last step of glory. History is like smoke. How many lessons and regrets have been brought to people.
The "empty city plan" in the Three Kingdoms period can be described as a household name, known to all women and children. The situation at that time was that Sima Yi's army was already in Enemy at the Gates, and Zhuge Liang's city was already an empty city. It was only a matter of time before Zhuge Liang was forced to sing "Empty City Plan". However, Sima Yi, the commander-in-chief of Wei Jun, faced with the open city gate, several soldiers and Zhuge Liang, who played the piano calmly in Chengtou, hesitated. Although his son reminded him, Sima Yi was still worried and chose to retreat quickly.
Sima Yi worried too much and wasted a good chance to become famous at one fell swoop. Zhuge Liang was almost cornered, but because of Sima Yi's mistake, he turned the corner and created a mythical miracle-"empty city plan".
Every time modern people talk about "empty city plan", they may often regret that Sima Yi missed the opportunity, but they don't know that such incidents are common every day in modern society. Perhaps, similar absurd events are being staged around you now.
So I want to say that whenever we are faced with the choice of life, the first thing to do is to abandon all unnecessary troubles, go into battle lightly and make a decisive choice. Only in this way can we seize the fleeting opportunity, which is also a necessary condition for us to go forward bravely and finally succeed.
"cross the rubicon" is a historical allusion that we are very familiar with. It tells a historical fact: At the end of Qin Dynasty, Xiang Yu, the leader of the peasant uprising army, made a decisive decision immediately in the face of Qin Jun's powerful main force. After the uprising army crossed the river, it sank the ferry and smashed the cooking pot. As a result, Qin Jun's main force was defeated in one fell swoop, creating a classic example of how to win more with less.
Countless experiences tell us that on the way forward, troubles are like water on your shoulders, and the more difficult it is; The more pleasant it is to unload it.
Therefore, when we face all the difficulties and obstacles in life, what we need first is decisiveness and self-confidence. Only by putting aside all concerns and going into battle lightly can we go forward bravely and reach the other side of success.