First, no parents want to have a generation gap with their children. Children don't worry about their livelihood since childhood, and they rarely experience human suffering. After a long time, they tend to be self-centered. Parents have been suffering and suffering, but they can't get the understanding of their children. Who can understand this painful mood? Although parents are willing to bridge the generation gap subjectively and objectively, students can ask themselves, how many of us have really given our parents a chance?
Secondly, we often say, "There is no scenery in familiar places." Children who have been educated by their parents for a long time are prone to resistance, and a generation gap is formed.
Third, parents will have a certain influence on a person's growth. But the so-called external cause cannot determine the internal cause, and the fundamental problem lies in the child. Influenced by various social thoughts, children are immature, it is difficult to grasp themselves correctly, and it is the main reason for the generation gap to disagree with their parents.
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Therefore, the main responsibility of the generation gap lies with children. It is precisely because the generation gap is uncertain with the growth of age that it is inappropriate for parents to adapt to and eliminate it.
Students, we often say that we should keep pace with the times. In fact, it is not only us who really do this, but also our parents! It's just that they always have to go through some careful screening before accepting new ideas, but this is not wrong!
The generation gap is that parents and children have different knowledge structures, which leads to their different thoughts, but parents and we are people of the same era, and the main force of this society is our parents. So we can say that our self-righteousness makes us feel that our parents know too little about new things. Is it fair to judge our parents from an unbearable angle?
The main responsibility of the family generation gap lies in the whole process of children's defense.
A debate (Li Fangyan) debate:
Chairman, judges and teachers, friends present, hello everyone!
First of all, I point out some mistakes in the other party's argument: (temporary organization)
Modern Chinese Dictionary holds that the generation gap is the difference between the two generations due to the differences in values, psychological state and living habits. Responsibility has two meanings: first, what should be done; The second is that you didn't do what you should do, and you should bear the fault. Mastering these concepts, from the generation gap, performance, development and essence, we can make it clear that the main responsibility of the family generation gap lies with children.
The generation gap is mainly manifested in the differences, misunderstandings, suspicions, complaints and even oppositions between parents and children. Generally, as children mature, the generation gap will gradually ease.
How did the generation gap come into being?
The first is the drastic change of teenagers' physical and mental state. The drastic change urges us to discover ourselves, pursue independence, subvert the concept of childhood, and begin to choose and pursue the values of career, friendship, love and life. However, in today's one-child families, parents' lack of knowledge and experience makes them unprepared for their children's changes, so they can only cope in the previous way. Only by letting parents know about this mutation can teenagers bring about corresponding changes in their concepts and consciousness and eliminate misunderstandings and estrangements.
The second is the brand of the times. Parents born in 1950s and 1960s need a process of gradually knowing, understanding and accepting the concept of great integration in today's world. In the family, of course, children's ideological and cultural updates are the fastest. Therefore, it is the unshirkable responsibility of children to guide their parents to approach, know, understand and accept the tasks of the times.
Third, the rapid development of the times has brought parents nervous, tired and anxious emotional attitudes. Tension, fatigue and anxiety are the important reasons why children don't like their parents and form a generation gap. Don't let parents make decisions when they are in a bad mood. It is the child's duty to help parents eliminate bad emotions.
Fourth, children are impetuous, irritable and self-righteous. Well-informed parents certainly don't buy it.
The solution to the generation gap lies in both sides. Parents should study cultural knowledge hard, know the characteristics of their children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics and concepts of the times; Continuous learning and progress; At the same time, adjust your physical and mental state and try to treat your children with an optimistic, cheerful and trusting attitude; Children should be considerate and care about their parents, and adopt appropriate methods to guide parents to understand themselves and the concept of the times; At the same time, we should have a clear and profound understanding of our young and superficial needs. However, the primary responsibility of parents is to support their families; And children's social task is to learn. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility of the family generation gap mainly lies with children. 797 words
A Summary of Attacks and Debates (Two Debates on Ding Wei's Attacks and Debates)
Question 1. What are the main tasks given to students by society and family?
Question 2. Who will pay for the child's accident?
Question 3: Is it a form of communication for parents to talk to you while eating?
(Three Debates on Lu Xulong's Attacks and Debates)
Question 1. Is it easy to get excited when people are tired?
Question 2: Is it an apology to ask you to go shopping after your parents misjudged you?
Question 3. When you get home, you close the door Is this a signal of hope for communication?
Children's learning failure and children's troubles will bring pressure and loss to parents; Many times, parents frequently send communication signals, and children often take avoidance; Family reunion is often after work, and fatigue and irritability easily make parents' emotions and attitudes abnormal; In addition, we should understand that many times parents are angry not because of our fault, but because of fatigue and anxiety. Children should not only recognize the word "sorry". Parents may apologize in a caring, helpful, entertaining or even direct way after their children's mood and state improve. Don't close the door, don't be silent, children's happiness is the source of family vitality. Children can also choose to communicate by writing letters. These mean that children should try to understand and care for their parents. The responsibility for the family generation gap lies with the children. (243 words)
Free debate sentence design:
This is an extreme example.
We can't see the forest without leaves.
This does not represent the overall situation of parents, nor is it our theme today.
Please don't take it one-sidedly.
Can parents go to university for the aged?
Who will pay for parents' college education for the aged? Who supports the family?
How many senior universities are there in Sinopec? Where is it?
Has the opponent's argument been exhausted?
We have pointed out that both parents and children are responsible. But mainly children.
To solve the generation gap, parents should study hard and adjust their physical and mental state in time; Children need to be considerate and concerned about their parents and find suitable ways to guide them to learn and understand.
Parents are rude to children, and children should consider their parents' psychology.
Both parents and children are responsible for the generation gap; Children have not done enough in caring for their parents, respecting and caring for their parents, and taking on family responsibilities. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap lies mainly with children.
1. Students all want to be the top scholar and soldiers all want to be marshals. But just thinking about not doing it will never work.
2. think about it and do it! Reach out our warm hands, show our innocent hearts and actively resolve the generation gap! Most parents don't understand the characteristics of children and teenagers, so we have to tell them! Don't they understand?
Let Zhuge Liang compare English and computer with you, will you? The backwardness of parents' concept is the law of history.
Communicating with parents requires care and love for parents. Only put forward their own requirements, regardless of family reality; Who is in the mood to associate with people who are not responsible for themselves, others and others?
If the other party repeatedly emphasizes that the lack of parents' knowledge and culture is the key, you can:
Q: "The children of poor families are the masters early". How do other debaters understand this proverb?
The poor have limited knowledge and education, but some of their children are very ambitious. They study hard, take on family obligations and responsibilities, and will be respected and recognized by their parents.
Do other debaters think that children should be the masters of the family?
It should be, but what are the obligations of the owners?
No, then who is?
Is the teaching management of contemporary teachers equal and democratic?
Yes So democratic teaching management is not mandatory at all?
Even if it is democracy, there is autocracy! Democracy belongs to the people, autocracy belongs to the enemy! Family members are of course right about democracy and wrong about autocracy.
No, even teachers who keep up with the times think that democracy has not been realized; How can parents with no education and average education be democratic? Wouldn't it be impossible to solve the generation gap?