What people fear most is not knowing themselves. As a person, a social person, the most important thing is to find your own role; Therefore, we must learn to ask ourselves "Who am I" from time to time? On the big stage of life, we have the role of Qian Qian. What we do or don't do and what plans we have are all to meet the needs of this role. So what we need to pay attention to is what each role should do for us and what it should not do for us. We must master this "degree".
In daily life, some people have long felt that their psychology is not simple, but their personality is multifaceted and complicated. Sometimes, you may be a quiet person, but at other times, you may be a crazy person and a passionate person. It seems that there is not a soul alive in this body. In the case of indecision, we can even feel as if there are two people arguing, one says we want to do this and the other opposes it. Personality image decomposition, as a psychological counseling technology, is based on image dialogue technology and individualizes all aspects of personality. We can clearly see that there are actually many sub-personalities with different personalities in people's hearts. The reason why our personalities are so complicated is that there are different people in our hearts, and their personalities are different.
Explain your current personality from various theoretical perspectives.
Freud said to me: go back and talk to your parents about your childhood experience, maybe you will gain something; Don't blame yourself for doing something wrong. It's your superego that blames me, not yourself.
Ade told me not to be too arrogant. You are so arrogant because you feel inferior.
Jung told me that when I was doing research behind closed doors, some people said I was mentally ill.
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When; If you think you are introverted, just point your energy inward.
Carter said to me: you can imagine that your personality is composed of many characteristics, just as water is composed of hydrogen and oxygen; You break yourself down and find out the most fundamental factors.
Skinner told me: Don't listen to Jung's collective unconsciousness. What you are doing now has nothing to do with your predecessor, just because you have done the same or similar things before and got a reward. Do you still want to be motivated to do one thing? Then design a reward for yourself first.
Bandura patted Skinner on the head and said, You don't have to do it in time. You are not a mouse. Just watch and learn. Of course, you will learn very well. You will make faster progress in this way.
Maslow said: to be honest, their pursuit is too low. If you haven't experienced the mystery and realized yourself, you've lived in vain. Listen to me, be honest with yourself and say whatever you have; People like you not because of what you do, but because you are you. Be yourself.
Don't be too emotional, Kelly said. Face yourself rationally and know the world around you objectively. In that case, you have a bright future.
Look down at your DNA, Eisenck said. He told you most of the things you did. What do you want to do next?