Westerners often say: God will bless you. Orientals believe that bodhisattvas will manifest themselves. People believe that fate can dominate everything and no one can get rid of it. But I think: man can conquer nature, and he who is a friend of fate is himself.

This kind of person cares about fate, but does not force it; Accept your fate, but don't be timid. When he is lucky, he will ridicule his luck; When he is unlucky, he will make fun of his misfortune. He did not underestimate the power of fate, nor did he overestimate its value.

The ancients often said, "a good teacher and a good friend." Good friends can not only share your happiness and pain, but also correct your mistakes in time so that you won't continue to make mistakes. Fate also has this power. When you make a mistake, he will make you suffer a little and punish you a little. But if you stick to your guns and don't listen to this "friend", he will leave you.

Being a friend of fate, you will get a lot of enlightenment and insight. Lu Youqing, who died of cancer last year, once said: Don't be sad for me. Fate just played a little joke on me. Don't shy away from my illness. I hope my friends will bother me often. He is a friend of fate. The revelation of fate is that life and death are natural phenomena, flowers must bloom and fall, and sunrise must have sunset. Life is in a hurry, cherish the people and things around you and live every day well.

In the history of China, there is a poet whom I admire very much. He is also a friend of fate-Su Shi. When he was demoted to Huangzhou, he wrote to Li Chang: "Although we are old and poor, we know the truth and loyalty deeply, and we should laugh when we die." So sincere and brave, so free and easy feelings, Su Dongpo's works, which have been true for most of his life during the day, are completely credible.

Fate's friends made him realize that his biggest problem in the past was talent exposure. Su Dongpo's introspection is the arrangement of fate and an extremely sincere self-analysis. He gradually recovered his purity and emptiness. Fate gave him a hard material life, and he had to cultivate the land by himself and taste the original meaning of nature and life.

There are many arrogant people who claim to be masters of fate, and humble people are willing to be slaves of fate. How can they be friends of fate?

Fate is invisible and intangible. Don't look up. It is beside you, in your body, in your heart. Treat him optimistically and let your heart be baptized again and again. You are a friend of fate.