It is inevitable for middle school students to worship idols, and it is unrealistic to ask teenagers to refuse to worship idols. Most middle school students' "idolization" is limited to collecting some photos of their favorite "stars" and sticking them on the bedside, listening to the tapes and CDs of "stars", or occasionally paying for concerts of "stars" to collect some living materials of "stars". If that's all, parents shouldn't interfere. Children should listen to pop songs after intense study to enrich their lives and help them grow up healthily.

2. Go idolize with your children.

It is a child's nature to like entertainment. In fact, children's "idolization" is an ideal innocence and a kind of blindness in passion. When parents find their children idolized, they might as well go idolized with their children. Parents can only talk about "stars" with their children if they know the "stars" they are chasing. Parents' objective evaluation of "stars" will exert a subtle influence on the formation of children's outlook on life and values.

3. Prevent unhealthy "idolization"

Middle school students are in adolescence, with little experience, immature psychology and emotional impulse, and are easy to do irrational things. For example, some boys look at the beautiful and sexy female stars in their minds and are prone to sexual impulses and sexual desires; Some girls are too obsessed with male stars. If there is news that male stars are getting married, they immediately feel cheated, unhappy and depressed. If the child's idolization catches up with such infatuation and ecstasy, it will definitely affect his academic and physical and mental health development and need correct guidance. In fact, "stars" are no different from normal people. The "external beauty" of many "stars" is packaged, and the touting of the media is also an advertising effect. Parents can explain these truths to their children, explaining that listening to music and watching movies and TV is only a small part of life, and more time should be spent on study and work to realize their great ambitions.

4. Turn worship into motivation.

"Idolization" is actually a pattern recognition and learning. Teenagers often regard stars as their role models, reference systems and spiritual sustenance. Parents can appropriately intervene their children's spontaneous idolatry psychology and behavior, and turn their children's idolatry into self-motivation for struggle and success.

5. Let children worship all kinds of "stars"

The power of example is infinite, and a society without heroism will be a silent society. A person may never have a chance to be a hero in his life, but if he lacks the belief and dream of becoming a hero, then life is meaningless. Parents should spend more time and energy to bring their children close to history and heroes, and let them worship some "stars" of science, culture, heroes and labor.