Let go of your desire and go into battle lightly.

There is a story in Zen Buddhism: Two monks were on the road when they met a beautiful woman who was blocked by the river and begged them to cross the river. Little monks are fearful and unwilling to become monks. Ask the old monk, who carried it across the river and went ashore. Monks and women parted ways. On the way, the young monk complained that the old monk didn't obey the rules, but he didn't agree, saying that helping others is also a good thing. The young man chattered and the old monk laughed. "I have put it down, why don't you put it down?"

As the saying goes, "decent people, decent people, and villains are always in the same boat." A gentleman is aboveboard, informal, and brave enough to be responsible for the current situation, and then completely "let go" afterwards. On the contrary, "little people" are often obsessed with self-interest, suffering from loss, or sticking to the rules and shrinking, and can neither "take" nor "let go".

This world is very complicated, worldly affairs, fame and fortune, selfish desires, debauchery, everything that should be put down is actually very complicated. Many successful people have donated money to help the world, or are willing to be indifferent. They entered the world and achieved it. They were brave and willing to "let go". While "letting go", they actually get unexpected happiness, which may be invisible, but it is meaningful and higher. It promotes personality and perfects life.

Only by "letting go" in life can we get real happiness! .

Not long ago in the countryside, I saw two farmers' uncles with a plate of roasted meat, a plate of peanuts and a bottle of Jiangjin Laobaigan on the table. You are drinking wine one by one, and the simple vicissitudes are full of smiles, which makes people envy. They don't have too many selfish desires, and there are absolutely no words such as stocks, house prices, stars and official products in their minds. They only know that they work at sunrise and return at sunset. Every market day, I secretly buy the eggs laid by my old hen and go to a restaurant with my old friends to have a full drink.

There are too many troubles and pains in a person's life, and fame, status and beauty all tempt you. Seeing that others have houses, cars and lovers, some people will do whatever it takes to achieve their goals: those who sell themselves for glory, become famous, are corrupt and polluted, seek rent for power, kill people and steal goods, and finally get spurned by the world! Only by "letting go" can we live freely and comfortably.

Ceng Zi said: "Zhi Zhi has the determination to be quiet, then quiet, then secure, then worry, and then get it." In fact, "letting go" is another positive life.

There are advances and retreats in life, and there are gains from giving up. Retreat and give up are not necessarily bad things. Have you ever seen farmers transplant rice seedlings? When there is no retreat, that is, when you succeed, there is a poem that can prove it: "If you put the seedlings in the field, you will see the water in the sky with your head down. It is better to be quiet, but take a step back and move forward. "

Look at people who are confused by fame, moved by profit, or annoyed by emotion at all times and in all countries. Regard fame, wealth and affection as the highest pursuit of life, but don't know that the greatest happiness in life lies in "letting go", retreating and giving up. Living alone is a kind of courage, and letting go is a kind of courage. For the flowers and applause on the road of life, most people with life experience take it for granted, and those who have experienced many storms are more self-aware. However, it is not easy to treat the stumbling mud with a normal heart. It is a kind of wisdom to be unmoved by great setbacks and disasters and bear them calmly. Very high level. It's safe when you come, and it's a kind of detachment, but how many people can do this detachment? It is precious to be able to bear it, and letting go is the true meaning of doing things in life.