More than 100 years ago, Hugo of France lamented: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." In the ancient East, there is a simple proverb passed down from generation to generation: "A prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach." The collision between French romance and China reality makes people find that tolerance transcends the boundaries of country, language, nation and civilization. Tolerance is a virtue shared and praised by people on this beautiful planet.
Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and tolerance. As the English proverb says, "There is no garden without weeds." There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect, and tolerance for others is based on understanding and understanding of others. Lin Xiangru's tolerance for Lian Po has made the story of "harmony but difference"; Bao Shu Ya's tolerance for Guan Zhong has achieved the feat of "nine in one, conquering the world with one move"; Li Shimin's tolerance for Wei Zhi made the "rule of chastity" prosperous; The monarch's tolerance for scholars in the Song Dynasty ushered in the second climax of ideological emancipation and cultural prosperity in China's history after the Warring States Period. The meaning of tolerance is not only at the individual level, but also has a great dynamic role in the existence and development of the whole society.
Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a realm. There is a saying in the Buddhist scriptures: "One thought changes the situation." In the face of other people's mistakes, we are bitter, and revenge will bring spiritual burden. The true benevolent will choose a kind of tolerance and a kind of calmness. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, can finally get revenge for "ten years of reunion and ten years of lessons". He could bear the pain of eating and drinking, but after destroying Wu, he ordered the destruction of Wu Zongshi. He knows forbearance, but he doesn't know tolerance. Han Xin, the king of Qi, had a "shame on his legs" before he made his fortune, but after reunification, he was appointed as the captain of the city tour and let bygones be bygones. Only from this perspective, Han Xin's personality is much more sound than Gou Jian's.
Lu Xun's "not forgiving anyone" is a bit paranoid, but it is an extreme resistance to the dark reality after he lost his patience. He also said that "the wave-snatching brothers are here, and when they meet, they laugh and forget the enmity", which is his tolerant side. In his works, Ah Q will struggle with others when he hears others say "scar", "scab", "baldness" and "light". Later, even the word "light" was not allowed to be mentioned. "The heavens and the earth are wide, and the light ones are narrow-minded." A narrow-minded person is bound to be a person with many taboos and paranoid temperament. And a society that can't even tolerate "the breeze doesn't read, how can it turn over books" is doomed to be a morbid society.
Tolerance is a kind of beauty. The deep sky endured the temporary ravages of lightning storms, and only in this way can the sun shine brightly; The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. Only by sparing no effort can Mount Tai become taller. Rivers can only become bigger if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.
2 learn to be tolerant
To err is human. The reason why people are human is precisely because people are imperfect and always make mistakes; It's not people who make mistakes, it's God. Of course, we are not gods, so mistakes are inevitable. Since mistakes exist, we can't let them disappear. Why not learn to be tolerant?
Learn to tolerate. First of all, please don't get angry. Anger is just an act of punishing yourself with other people's mistakes. Anger not only can't solve the problem, but also can't make others realize their mistakes. It's just a kind of injury, hurting others and hurting yourself, because at least the people you hurt will think that you are not generous enough and have a prickly personality, and you will lose many friends and worsen your personal relationship.
We should tolerate others and learn to look at a person from a developmental perspective, so we should tolerate the mistakes made by others. For others, this is a new starting point and they will be motivated. If Lenin can't get forgiveness and tolerance for breaking a vase when he was a child, he will be insulted, confused and satirized. Perhaps he will be burdened with thoughts, which may affect the formation of his honesty as the most basic human nature.
Tolerance should not only tolerate the mistakes of others' behavior, but also tolerate the differences of others' thoughts. Even if I disagree with you, I will defend your right to speak to the death. In life, perhaps we often refute the shortcomings of the people we like. Maybe we really admire the people we like, but they also have shortcomings. Even if we refuse to admit their shortcomings, we can't interfere with others' remarks. Just as some people don't like parrots to parrot, they hate parrots to parrot, but we can't deprive parrots of the right to sing or learn to speak just because of their nature.
Tolerance needs common sense.
Maybe we have been obsessed with foreign things, so we can't let go too much. We can't treat the changes of things with a normal heart, so it is difficult to be tolerant. The love between Romeo and Juliet touched countless people. Perhaps the tragedy is beautiful, but how many people expect a happy ending. Although the protagonist's personality is the cause of the tragedy, it is more important that family hatred destroys love, which is actually caused by their lack of a normal heart. Keep a normal heart, not happy with things, not sad for ourselves, let us be in the temple, worry about others and stay away, and be more tolerant.
Because of tolerance, I am happy.
People say, take a step back and broaden the horizon. Indeed, if we are tolerant, we will not care too much about gain and loss, fame and fortune. There will be less sadness and trouble in our hearts, and then we can live happier.
For a bright future, please believe in tolerance and learn tolerance.