I think this discussion is necessary. Respecting the old and caring for the young, saving the wounded and saving the dying, has always been a fine tradition of our country. No one will grow old without old people.
With the media exposure of Peng Yu case and many other cases that helped the fallen elderly to do good deeds, they were falsely accused by the elderly as the perpetrators, and even awarded huge compensation by the court on the grounds of "common sense judgment" and other logical reasoning. More and more people are afraid of helping the fallen elderly.
A little effort may bring endless trouble. Social morality and traditional morality are gradually lost in our hesitant eyes.
When the whole society, the public and the media are hotly discussing whether the fallen elderly should be helped, it has actually proved that the public morality of this society has gone bankrupt to some extent. Obviously, as a social person, it seems that no one can answer this question.
The frantic Nanjing and Tianjin judges, as well as punishing the elderly who falsely accused Peng Yu, should be condemned, but will the onlookers in Farewell also be condemned by morality, justice and conscience?
After Li Laohan, an 88-year-old man from Wuhan, fell down at the entrance of the food market less than 100 meters away from home, many onlookers were afraid to lend a helping hand. In the end, the event that the old man died of nasal bleeding blocking the respiratory tract shocked the whole society. The public's indifference and insensitivity to the fall of the elderly should be reviewed by the whole society and even everyone. I used to think that it was not a problem whether the elderly should be helped or not, but now it has really become a big problem. Cases like Nanjing judge and Wuhan old man are not common phenomena, but the social reality they reflect is very severe.
When we discuss whether the fallen elderly should be helped, we are not deliberately exaggerating the seriousness of the problem, but questioning the current phenomenon of the decline of morality and values in the whole society, because similar indifferent phenomena not only happen to the fallen elderly, but also happen in other situations, such as the story of a hero who is brave enough to shed blood and tears, such as the cry of "jumping" when watching someone jump off a building to commit suicide, such as the normal state that passengers on the bus turn a blind eye to thieves, and so on.
Since the nanjing old lady xu incident, China began to enter the period of national moral decay and began to disintegrate the morality of China people. People like Mrs. Xu began to be unscrupulous, with legal support, and they could get huge returns without any cost. Peng Yu paid too high a price, so he began to be indifferent to the sympathy of Chinese people and played down the feelings between people. Later, a series of events, such as fishing law enforcement, completely numbed people's sympathy, leading to a state of mind that had nothing to do with themselves and hung high, which caused the octogenarian to fall to the ground for more than 1 hour, and no one dared to lend a helping hand. I'm sure that most of the onlookers were kind people before, but no one can afford the huge price. Can you say that people are indifferent?
Where are many flies? Are they rubbish or flies?
2. Huainan college students write an argumentative essay on helping the elderly. On June 13, 70-year-old Dazhou resident Jiang fell to the ground, claiming that he was knocked down by three children. At the age of 9, she grabbed Xiao Jiang's hand and demanded compensation for medical expenses.
After investigation by the police, the behavior of Lao and his son Gong Moumou was a crime of extortion, and it was decided to give Jiang administrative detention for 7 days (because he has reached the age of 70, he will not be executed according to law), and Gong Moumou was placed in administrative detention 10. "Helping the elderly" continues. 2065 438+05. 8. 30 There was heavy rain in Kaifeng, Henan Province, and water accumulated on the road.
An old man suddenly fell to the ground while riding an electric car and wading in the water, struggling constantly. Some passers-by stepped forward and then returned.
Three minutes later, the old man was pulled up by several passers-by, but he was already dead. "Helping the elderly" is worth thinking about. Who killed this old man in Henan? Media comment: Not stagnant water. In busy streets, stagnant water has no chance to drown old people; This is not indifference. Three minutes later, someone stepped forward and helped the old man up. It is hesitation! It is in the face of the evil example of "helping is responsible".
What the old man needs is to rush to help him without hesitation, but we don't have the courage. In order to cultivate this courage, we need to provide more relief and assistance channels.
For example, in the Provisions on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of Rescuers in Shenzhen Special Economic Zone, there are clauses such as "exemption" and "who advocates who gives evidence". In addition, non-profit organizations also award "grievance awards" to those who help the elderly and resist being wronged.
Only when the law stands up, "falling down and helping" will become a common choice. September 1, a school day.
However, Xiao Jiang's figure never appeared in Dazhou's previous schools. At the end of August this year, China Ren Hao awarded the "grievance award". Com, the case of helping the elderly in Dazhou, which was originally unknown, was brought back to public view.
However, just after accepting the "grievance award" in Haoren.com, China, the Xiaojiang family, one of the children involved, returned the prize to the winner. This is also the first time in Ren Hao, China. Since the establishment of the "grievance award" to help the elderly, com has received a bonus.
Recently, Chengdu Business Daily reporter Xiao Jianghe's father had an in-depth dialogue. The rare return of the "grievance award" is mixed with the complicated feelings of the Xiaojiang family, the tired heart involved in the "helping the elderly" incident for more than two years, and the changed life. Among them, I experienced my father slapping my child for the first time and then regretfully apologizing to the child for the first time ... Before that, Xiao Jiang's father, Mr. Jiang, also did something-moving his family. "Because of this (helping the elderly), my original life plan was disrupted."
"I made the most common mistake made by China's parents, that is, I think it is natural to punish children." Before the "helping the elderly" incident, Mr. Jiang's family had planned their future life. Mr. Jiang is from Nanchong and his wife is from Qu County, Dazhou.
Previously, both husband and wife were working in other places. After saving enough money, Mr. Jiang's family bought a house in Dazhou city.
Six months before the incident, Mr. Jiang returned to Dazhou from his workplace in Guangdong. According to the plan, after Mr. Jiang established himself in Dazhou, his wife will also come back from Guangdong.
At that time, the family will be reunited in Dazhou. A stranger called Mr. Jiang first.
The husband and wife have been working outside for a long time, and their son Xiaojiang mainly lives with his grandparents. Xiao Jiang, at a young age, was asked to remember her parents' mobile phone numbers in addition to her home phone number.
After the dispute happened that day, someone asked Xiao Jiang, "Where are your parents?" Xiao Jiang immediately told the other father's number. After arriving at his van, Mr. Jiang saw Jiang's mother-in-law sitting on the ground and desperately holding her son's hand.
Mr. Jiang slapped his son and rapped out. "At that time, I thought that my son had knocked down the old man and was in trouble!" Seeing Mr. Jiang beating the child, people around him began to dissuade him.
Mr. Jiang introduced that someone told him at that time: "You wronged your child. The old man was not knocked down by the doll.
Dolls do good deeds. "After Mr. Jiang came over, Jiang's mother-in-law finally put it down.
Xiao Jiang suddenly disappeared, and Mr. Jiang still couldn't take care of his son. He helped grandma Jiang to a nearby clinic first.
After all, it was nearly midnight when Mr. Jiang got home. But my son is not at home.
Later, Mr. Jiang organized relatives and friends to look around for his son. "In his classmate's house for almost an hour. My son was scared by what happened in the afternoon, and he was afraid that I would continue to hit him. "
This is the first time that Mr. Jiang slapped his son. Police investigation shows that Jiang Popo fell by herself.
To this end, Mr. Jiang deliberately found an opportunity to solemnly apologize to his son in front of his grandparents. This is also the first time in nine years that Mr. Jiang has apologized to his children.
"I made a mistake that parents in China are most likely to make, that is, I take it for granted that parents punish their children. Sometimes you don't even need to understand indiscriminate.
But right and wrong are important. "Mr. Jiang said.
However, Mr. Jiang didn't realize at that time that it was sometimes not so easy to know whether things were right or wrong. There are many twists and turns in the middle.
End? Just started! Help, alarm, appeal award ... "I thought it was over again and again, and finally I found out that it had just begun" finally returned to the original point of the matter! Sent it to the clinic. Is it over? Don't! After helping the old man to a nearby clinic, Mr. Jiang felt that the matter had passed. "Many people around can prove that the old man fell by himself and the child did a good thing."
Mr. Jiang recalled that more than a month after the incident, he received a phone call from her son. "The other party said that the old man was knocked down by a child. Ask for medical expenses. "
On the phone, Mr. Jiang told the other party that if he insisted that the child knocked down the old man, "you can go to court to sue. The responsibility that the court requires us to bear is unambiguous. "
I communicated by phone two or three times, and after a month or two, the other party didn't contact again. Mr. Jiang thought that things might really stop here.
However, in October13110, after the incident in May, Jiang's mother-in-law directly carried the old man to Mr. Jiang's house. Jiang's mother-in-law only stayed at Mr. Jiang's house for one night.
That night, Mr. Jiang didn't live in his house. "I feel uncomfortable in my heart. I don't want to stay at home, so I stay at my relatives' house. "
Mr. Jiang, who lives in a relative's house, didn't sleep a wink all night. "Children are still young, and grandparents are old people in their seventies. Now there is another old man.
In case it comes out.
3. The witness who wrote an essay "Female college students in Huainan say that helping the old lady was wrong" has come out to explain the situation to Huainan police, and made the scene public at the first time through personal Weibo, and published the photos of the scene.
Witnesses said that she and her roommate went to Huainan Normal University for dinner, opposite Xiao Yuan. Before the incident, she saw the old man walking unsteadily and twisting. Later, Xiao Yuan rode past the old lady, but for some reason, the old lady fell to the ground. By this time, Xiao Yuan's bicycle ride had passed, and the old lady called Xiao Yuan again. Xiao Yuan stopped the car and helped the old lady sit up. She hesitated whether it was the past or not, and later it passed, and helped Xiao Yuan to rub his leg.
Witnesses made it clear that when Xiao Yuan rode past the old lady, there was a distance between them, which was not enough to knock her down. She didn't see any scratches on the old man. The old man sat on the ground until he was taken to the 120 ambulance.
4. Witnesses who wrote an essay "Female college students in Huainan say that helping the old lady was wrong" have come out to explain the situation to Huainan police, and made the scene known to the public at the first time through personal Weibo, and published photos of the scene.
Witnesses said that she and her roommate went to Huainan Normal University for dinner, opposite Xiao Yuan. Before the incident, she saw the old man walking unsteadily and twisting.
Later, Xiao Yuan rode past the old lady, but for some reason, the old lady fell to the ground. By this time, Xiao Yuan's bicycle ride had passed, and the old lady called Xiao Yuan again. Xiao Yuan stopped the car and helped the old lady sit up.
She hesitated whether it was the past or not, and later it passed, and helped Xiao Yuan to rub his leg. Witnesses made it clear that when Xiao Yuan rode past the old lady, there was a distance between them, which was not enough to knock her down. She didn't see any scratches on the old man. The old man sat on the ground until he was taken to the 120 ambulance.
5. Write a composition on the topic of "rumors are easy to make mistakes". Rumors are easily wrong.
The Olympic Games, which we have been looking forward to for a hundred years, is over. We are also happy that China can break through 5 1 gold medal, and everyone is proud of our Olympic athletes. However, some people with ulterior motives sneaked out at this moment, and with the help of various media organizations, they made some demagogic remarks, saying, "China Olympic Games 5 1 Gold 22 Silver 28 Bronze, which added up to 65,448 in May. That was the time of the Wenchuan earthquake. " I was very angry after reading it. I think how can these people be so boring? They only talk about earthquakes. Besides, the number of silver medals in China in the 2008 Olympic Games is 2 1. They added this out of thin air, not an honor. On the contrary, it will make all China people feel ashamed and ruin the hard work of athletes. If everyone works hard for a long time, it will only become meaningless.
Maybe this year is the year of China, so God wants us to go through hardships, let us grow up in hardships, move on, and then meet the charming dawn. This only belongs to us, to our strong and unyielding motherland! ! !
As for those "people with a will", since they are so boring, they like to use some coincidences to expand the topic and spread rumors everywhere, which makes people panic. They all think it's true. They are really hateful, but I have always regarded them as mental derangement, believing that China is unyielding.
At the same time, I also advise netizens and mobile phone users not to take such information seriously, otherwise it would be really stupid.
6. College students help the fallen old man. Should we help the old man when he falls? I think this discussion is necessary.
Respecting the old and caring for the young, saving the wounded and saving the dying, has always been a fine tradition of our country. No one will grow old without old people. With the media exposure of Peng Yu case and many other cases that helped the fallen elderly to do good deeds, they were falsely accused by the elderly as the perpetrators, and even awarded huge compensation by the court on the grounds of "common sense judgment" and other logical reasoning. More and more people are afraid of helping the fallen elderly. A little effort may bring endless trouble.
Social morality and traditional morality are gradually lost in our hesitant eyes. When the whole society, the public and the media are hotly discussing whether the fallen elderly should be helped, it has actually proved that the public morality of this society has gone bankrupt to some extent.
Obviously, as a social person, it seems that no one can answer this question. The frantic Nanjing and Tianjin judges, as well as punishing the elderly who falsely accused Peng Yu, should be condemned, but will the onlookers in Farewell also be condemned by morality, justice and conscience? After Li Laohan, an 88-year-old man from Wuhan, fell down at the entrance of the food market less than 100 meters away from home, many onlookers were afraid to lend a helping hand. In the end, the event that the old man died of nasal bleeding blocking the respiratory tract shocked the whole society.
The public's indifference and insensitivity to the fall of the elderly should be reviewed by the whole society and even everyone. I used to think that it was not a problem whether the elderly should be helped or not, but now it has really become a big problem.
Cases like Nanjing judge and Wuhan old man are not common phenomena, but the social reality they reflect is very severe. When we discuss whether the fallen elderly should be helped, we are not deliberately exaggerating the seriousness of the problem, but questioning the current phenomenon of the decline of morality and values in the whole society, because similar indifferent phenomena not only happen to the fallen elderly, but also happen in other situations, such as the story of a hero who is brave enough to shed blood and tears, such as the cry of "jumping" when watching someone jump off a building to commit suicide, such as the normal state that passengers on the bus turn a blind eye to thieves, and so on.
7. When being blackmailed, honesty is a virtue and a quality in everyone's heart. In our humanistic society, we should pay attention to honesty in all aspects, and honesty is a blessing. A person with integrity will succeed in both career and life, so integrity is the most important aspect of a person.
As long as a person talks about honesty, others will appreciate him, respect him, get close to him and help him when he is in trouble. Otherwise, people will not trust him.
As the saying goes; A promise is a promise, but a promise is a promise. That is to say, a promise is a promise and a promise is a promise.
Integrity pays attention to all aspects, business, work, life and making friends. People need honesty to maintain relationships. Business needs honesty to make a living and cooperate with other companies. Honesty can make others feel good about themselves, and honesty can also improve their careers and lives. Honesty is small enough to improve your body and mind, but big enough to make you. More spiritual touch and communication.
Some people say that if you choose "sincerity", no matter how big the interests are, honesty is much better, and you should pay attention to honesty when making friends. When the building may collapse in the strong wind, don't do it as long as it violates integrity.
Honesty needs to stand the temptation. Because of Xie's honesty, as long as the building is reinforced as soon as possible, it will be difficult to catch up with four horse-drawn cars. If he is an unhealthy person, others will appreciate him and people will not trust him. These are much better than dishonesty. No matter where we live. Compared with dishonesty.
Professor Xie, who designed and built Citigroup Tower, a skyscraper in new york, proved this to the world. His career as an engineer can continue, and his credit needs to be persisted and improved. He resolutely submitted the investigation report to the municipal authorities, so honesty is the most important aspect of a person. In our humanistic society, interests are mobile, and such people can not only be trusted by others. I only know that choosing "honesty" can balance gains and losses and improve body and mind. A dishonest person just loses his moral character, keeps cooperation with other companies and helps him only when he is in trouble. A trustworthy person will often be met by others. Be honest and do my job well. Honesty is bliss, and an honest heart needs caution. Honesty is small enough to improve your body and mind, get close to him if you do; A word is spoken. Honesty needs persistence, which not only hurts yourself, but also makes you happy in your life, which has a great influence on your future. Honesty can make others feel good about themselves and also make others be careful. In any case, there is an idiom called doing a good deed every day. All the honors, hone your endurance. This gave birth to the strongest World Trade Center, which is a quality?
Honesty is honesty and trustworthiness?
Honesty has become an indispensable moral quality in this society. Know honesty. "Honesty" occupies a large proportion in the culture of the Chinese nation. Honesty requires courage and prudence. Everyone should pay attention to honesty and win the progress of life. Because honesty is good.
Honesty is a sophisticated and smooth life for adults who pay attention to all aspects. In honesty, you can improve your body, mind and money. You should be careful not to confess things that are bad for yourself and others. In business, it can only maintain its unchangeable moral character for itself, and honesty can also improve your career and life. Honesty is a virtue in everyone's heart. Business needs honesty to make a living, and everyone should have honesty. Otherwise, it can be said that the liar and others are good and can be completely honest, but he made sincere words on the radio.
As the saying goes, a person with integrity, no matter in his career.
The most basic point of honesty is not to deceive others. Only in this way can we win trust and work, that is to say, honesty is a blessing and win the promotion of our career. Qu Yuan was exiled to Xupu, and people needed honesty to maintain their relationship.
Honesty is not only about Wen Tianxiang, who died in favor, but also proved his sincerity to his motherland with their actions. "Faith" originates from "sincerity" and has no place in society. When there were loopholes in his design in eureka tower, Su Wu, who was grazing, became famous in one fell swoop. "Honesty" is more sincere and faithless because of "faith". Honesty can improve yourself, and only persistence can improve yourself. In other words, even if we say a word, we must take action. Why choose dishonesty? When we learn honesty, we should learn to be cautious. It is difficult for such people to make intimate friends and hurt others. Honesty can help you succeed in your career. We should be honest every day. So what did you give up? "Ordinary words touched ordinary people. Isn't this killing two birds with one stone? In fact, it doesn't matter what you give up: "I don't beg for forgiveness, applause seems to be far away from him, when others trust themselves." "
As long as a person stresses honesty, then we must keep our promise, respect him or succeed in life.
8. Give me a hand and be careful not to mistake you. People often say that nine times out of ten, life is unhappy. Indeed, we live in such a society, no.
Everything may go well, and you will often encounter setbacks and failures, but these are not terrible. What's really terrible is that you will be devastated after setbacks, and then you will be depressed, so you will waste your life and accomplish nothing. Therefore, if you want to reap the success of life, you must learn to help yourself and climb to the top. You not only need wisdom, patience and courage, but sometimes you can help yourself appreciate the beautiful scenery of life.
In such a society with rapid development of science and technology and economy, challenges and opportunities coexist. As young people in the new era, we should persevere and stride forward for our dreams, and have the spirit of scholars to denounce Fang Qiu's heroism; Guide the country and inspire the spirit of writing. As the younger generation in the new century, we have a bright future, but is this really the case? There is always a gap between ideal and reality. We can't always live in the so-called happiness harbor that we cast, expecting miracles and waiting for success. We always think that we are blessed by heaven, and success is a matter of course. What I want to say is that if everyone with talent can succeed, there will be no such idiom. Throughout the ages, there are not a few people without talent. In a word, we should keep a clear head. More importantly, we should learn to save ourselves and get up where we fell. Although sometimes people help us, we still need to help ourselves more often. The journey of life cannot be smooth sailing, and there will always be some bumps and setbacks, which requires us to have a good attitude to face life, accept the test of the times and embrace a better tomorrow. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? You should know that sunshine is always after the storm, and so is life. Without some biting cold, how can plum blossoms smell sweet? The real strong are all playing games on the cusp of the times, constantly challenging themselves and surpassing themselves in the face of the storm of the times, in order to grow up well in the turbulent tide of the times and finally reap the glory of life.
In the journey of life, learning to help yourself means going further. Blue sea and blue sky, we sail forward; In the vast universe, we spread our wings and soar; Life is bleak, we save ourselves. There is a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and I will go up and down. Through the Millennium life tunnel, we have seen faces full of fighting spirit and self-confidence. Looking back on that year, pointing out the mountains and rivers, inspiring words, and fouling Wan Huhou, how heroic it was. Gradually drifting away, we are still full, helping ourselves to make life more brilliant like a song.
One day, early in the morning, I ran to the refrigerator happily and saw that McDonald's, KFC and Pizza Hut I just bought yesterday were all gone. I was shocked as soon as I opened the refrigerator. They're all gone. I decided to be Sherlock Holmes and find out the real murderer.
Target 1: Jerry Mouse. I knocked on Jerry Mouse's door, and there was a loud noise. I was frightened and fell to the ground. Jerry and Tom cat came panting and hissed, "Shh, shh, shh, you are great!" (Tom Cat), "Jerry replied with a sneer," You too! Hey! " But they still refused, and they were going to fight again. I quickly stopped them. When I saw that they were silent, I cleared my throat and said, "Do you know my McDonald's, KFC and Pizza Hut?" They shook their heads innocently and said, "I don't know!" " "Do you have any evidence?" I said, he thought about it and said, "I have proof. I was hurt by it yesterday. " I thought about it before giving up. Goal 2: I thought for a while, then walked back helplessly, lying in bed, and pressed it before I knew it was myself.
Hey hey hey.