First, the connotation of self-confidence
Self-confidence is one of the most basic internal qualities in human psychological life, and it is also an essential factor in personality structure. It represents an excellent psychological quality and a positive attitude towards life. A positive attitude towards life refers to an attitude of self-recognition, affirmation, acceptance and support, as well as one's own emotions, feelings, understanding and evaluation. In other words, self-confidence expresses a person's view of himself: whether he is capable or not, and whether he is "worthy". Do you respect yourself? Self-confidence is an affirmation of one's own ability and value. In psychology, the antonym of "self-confidence" is "inferiority", which shows a kind of self-degradation, a kind of distrust of oneself and a kind of negative attitude towards oneself. People with low self-esteem are like setting obstacles in their lives. They can't fight for anything and are ready to back down at any time. because
In daily life, there is another term related to "confidence". Self-confidence is similar to self-confidence on the surface, but it is essentially different from self-confidence. Confident people often have an objective understanding of themselves, which shows the actual inner self. However, conceited people just lack an objective understanding of themselves, and most of them exaggerate themselves or their imaginary roles. In fact, exaggerating and showing off oneself-one of the main manifestations of conceit-is essentially its unconfident or unconfident responsibility. Self-confidence is not narcissism, arrogance, complacency, unfounded self-righteousness and blind optimism, but a psychological quality that inspires oneself to keep making progress, and an optimism that meets the challenges of life with high fighting spirit and abundant energy. Self-confidence is a panacea to overcome oneself, bid farewell to inferiority and get rid of troubles. Self-confidence does not mean that you can succeed as easily as blowing dust, but that you despise difficulties strategically with an optimistic attitude, attach importance to difficulties tactically, focus on the overall situation, start from small things, be down-to-earth, persevere, do everything well, be down-to-earth, overcome every difficulty, and affirm yourself from the joy of victory and success again and again.
Second, the lack of self-confidence performance and reasons
Inferiority is a kind of personality defect and a manifestation of lack of self-confidence. People with low self-esteem have low evaluation of their abilities and qualities. The most common phenomenon is fear of speaking and doing things in front of others. When attending classes, meetings or parties, they often sit in a less conspicuous position in the back row; Be sure to hide when you do your homework in class, for fear that others will laugh at you when you see it; Hesitant when answering questions, easy to get stage fright; After you finish your exercises or exams, you must check your answers with your classmates repeatedly, so that you can rest assured. Students with low self-esteem often feel that nothing is like others and are easily disappointed. In serious cases, they may even feel uncertain about the future and pessimistic about life. Students with low self-esteem are prone to psychological endurance and can't stand strong stimulation. Cautious, sentimental and often suspicious; Behave cowering, looking back, etc. This kind of inferiority is a heavy mental shackle to suppress oneself, and it is a negative and unhealthy mentality. It wears away people's will, softens people's beliefs, dilutes people's pursuit, makes people lose motivation and cringe, starts with self-doubt and self-denial, ends with self-burial and self-suppression, and makes people fall into the abyss of pessimism and sadness.