On the importance of eloquence
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Gorky, a great Russian writer, once told a riddle. This is a Russian riddle: it is not honey, but it can stick to anything. The answer is: language. Here I want to talk to you about language and how to speak.
Some people may say that as long as they are not dead dumb, no one can speak, but speaking and being good at speaking are two different things. Everyone can talk, but not everyone is good at talking. In today's society, there are many people who can't speak: in Kan Kan, they can speak clearly in front of a few close friends, but in front of everyone, they become red-faced and at a loss, unable to express their feelings; Between friends, misunderstandings, contradictions and even violent conflicts caused by improper words often occur. The society is more and more civilized and progressive, interpersonal communication is more and more frequent, and eloquence is more and more important. It can be said that eloquence is needed everywhere in your society now, and eloquence is a lifelong ability.
A talented person may not be eloquent, but an eloquent person must be talented. Carnegie, an American success master, also said: Speech training is the broad road to cultivate self-confidence. A person's success depends on his professional knowledge and skills, and 85% depends on his eloquence and communication skills. ? Our writing in China is very interesting, and modern society pays attention to it? Win? That? Win? What are words made of? By who? Death? ,? Mouth? ,? Month? ,? Bay? ,? Where is it? These five words are synthesized. ? Death? Represents a sense of crisis. Mouth? Delegates should be eloquent. Month? Representatives should have persistent time. Bay? Represents wealth and health. Where is it? Represents having a normal heart. And then what? Mouth? The middle plays the role of a mainstay. So if you want to be one? Winner? Eloquence is very important The mouth has two functions, the first is to eat, and the second is to speak. But to eat a good meal, you have to put in a good word first.
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You want to get a well-paid job with strict exams. If you are eloquent, you will pass easily. You should ask others for help. If you have sweet words, others will be happy to help you. You must have a successful party. If you have a glib tongue, the audience will surely applaud you. You need a variety of eloquence to convince others, comfort others, praise others and criticize others. When others hurt your self-esteem with words, you should use eloquence as a weapon to protect your personality; Sometimes, you need to explain your plan to the boss with a long speech and explain a complicated problem; Sometimes, you need to expose a conspiracy that has been lurking for a long time in a few words, in order to safeguard justice; Sometimes, you need to be eloquent in order to save an innocent life; Sometimes, you need righteous words and severely stop false rumors in order to gain inner peace. . . . . . . . .
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During World War II, westerners believed that the three strategic weapons on which people depended for survival and competition were atoms, dollar bills and eloquence. Now they think that the three strategic weapons that people rely on for survival and competition are eloquence, money and computers. In the United States, since the 1960s, hundreds of schools across the country have set up eloquence training courses, from which we can see the importance of eloquence in reality. The ability of oral expression and speech in modern society has become a test of one's ability and talent. If you want to become a modern high-quality talent, you must have excellent eloquence.
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For example, it is said that a graduate of Shenzhen University passed a rigorous examination with excellent eloquence and became an assistant to the director of China Institute of Social Investigation. Later, the director was transferred. With his profound knowledge and first-class eloquence, he defeated many competitors and finally won the director's throne. He was only in his twenties that year.
Visible, modern society? Talent view? Changes are taking place, and talents must first be measured by eloquence.
With the development of society, people's cultural vision and communication vision are getting wider and wider, and people need to express their views and show their talents in many public places. If you are all thumbs, you will miss the opportunity; If you use words wisely, you will win the initiative and get both sides.
So eloquence can represent a person's strength and show a person's value. If we put this strength and value into reality, we will create great wealth, benefit the society, benefit the people and benefit ourselves. For us wage earners, if we want to get a good job, we will only hit a wall everywhere without a good eloquence. Even if you finally get what you want, you have to go through a lot of efforts.
So, my friends, study eloquence hard, it can increase your success password, and make you stand firm in the fierce talent competition and be invincible.
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In life and social life, eloquence has always been an important factor in determining the success or failure of one's life and career. By what a person says every day, we can judge his daily work and life: a person's daily joys and sorrows are often determined by his words. There are many people who depend on eloquence to decide the success or failure of life, and what we say in communication with others is easily taken seriously. Good eloquence and fluency will be rewarded, but people with talent and eloquence have greater hopes of success. Because your talent can be fully displayed through words, so that the other party can know you better and let the other party dare to entrust an important task. In particular, a learned person without eloquence is a bit difficult to deal with when making friends, and at the same time he loses a lot of gains invisibly. Often some people, in the busy personnel contact, feel that what others say seems to be threatened. Perhaps someone else's words are so fluid and changeable that they have a sense of attachment to Muna. A talkative speaker has an incredible power, which can affect the relaxation and tension of the surrounding atmosphere.
A man specially invited four friends to dinner at home to celebrate his 40th birthday.
Three people arrived on time except one who was late for some reason.
The host was a little anxious and could not help but blurt out: I am anxious. Why not come when it's time to come?
A guest present was very unhappy and said to his host, Why didn't you come when you should have come? It means that we shouldn't come, so I have to leave. Goodbye! ? Then he left angrily. One person didn't come, and the other left angrily. The host added in a hurry:? Really, I shouldn't have left, but I did?
One of the remaining two people said angrily, according to you, it's our turn to go! ? Okay, I'll go. Then I turned and left.
Another guest was angry, and the host was as anxious as an ant in a hot pot, at a loss.
Finally, the friend left behind has a deep friendship, so he advised the host to say: Your friend is angry with you, so you should pay attention to what you say.
? The man said helplessly, they all misunderstood me. I don't mean them at all. ?
Finally, this friend couldn't hold it any longer, and his face changed greatly. What? You don't mean them, you mean me. I don't know why. What's the big deal? ?
Say that finish metal gray face away.
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A talker can always express his intention fluently and explain the truth clearly and beautifully, and others will be willing to accept it. Sometimes you can immediately judge the intention of the other party from the question and answer, get instructions from the other party's conversation, increase your understanding of the other party, and establish a good friendship with the other party. People who can't speak can't fully express their intentions, and often make the other person too lazy to listen, but they can't convince him to accept it.
19 16, first proposed by American chemist Louis in a paper? * * * Price key? Electronic theory. This theory is of great significance to the development of organic chemistry. However, after the publication of this theory, it did not cause due response in the American chemical community. One of the important reasons is that Louis is not good at talking. He didn't make a public speech to promote his views.
Three years later, another famous American chemist, Langmuir, discovered the value of Lewis's point of view. So, on the one hand, Langmuir gave a speech in influential journals such as the Journal of the American Chemical Society and vigorously promoted it? * * * Price key? . Because Langmuir is fickle, right? * * * Price key? In order to make this theory recognized and accepted by the American chemical community, a lot of publicity and explanation have been done. At that time, the American chemical community talked about Langmuir? * * * Price key? The name of Louis, the founder of this theory, has almost been forgotten, and some even call it Langmuir theory.
When there is something to meet with others, or something to cooperate with others, fluent people can always negotiate many things happily, so that people can clearly understand their intentions.