Life is simple, wisdom is not complicated. In our life, we will meet two kinds of people: ourselves and others. And how can we become a happy person and bring happiness to others? I think four sentences are enough, that is: treat yourself as others, treat others as yourself, treat others as others, and treat yourself as yourself. In these four seemingly contradictory sentences, if we can deeply understand and dig out their connotations, we can gain wisdom from them.

Treat yourself like others. When you are depressed, if you can think of yourself as someone else, the pain will naturally be alleviated; When you are ecstatic and get carried away, treat yourself as someone else, and those ecstasies will be more calm. Therefore, when I think of myself as someone else, what I experience is the dullness and calmness of doing things in life.

Think of others as yourself. When a person is in trouble, if he can put himself in his place, be anxious and need what he needs, he can cultivate a love. In the face of other people's mistakes, if we can consider why such problems occur from his perspective, we can truly be tolerant and considerate. Therefore, when I treat others as myself, what I experience is the love and tolerance of people in life.

Treat others as others. The whole society is made up of every individual, and everyone has their own core territory of independence and self. It is necessary to fully respect everyone's independence and ensure that the core territory of others is not violated. Therefore, when I treat others as others, what I experience is independence and respect in life.

Think of yourself as your life only once, and life should be meaningful. Don't envy others. In the life of live high, no matter where you fall, you should stand up and believe that you will always be the best. Therefore, if you think of yourself, you will realize the sublimation and self-improvement of your self-worth in life.

These four sentences seem simple, but we will never understand them. In fact, wisdom is such a contradiction: it is like fire, which can burn our bodies and illuminate our lives; It is also like water, which can devour everything in the world and breed life in the world; It is like the wind, just around us, but it changes rapidly and is difficult to capture; It is also like soil, the narrowest farmland at the foot, and the vastest land in the world. Every ordinary experience and feeling in life is really great wisdom.

Being able to understand others is a kind of cleverness; Being recognized by others is a kind of happiness; It is a kind of wisdom to know yourself. The hardest thing for a person is to know himself correctly. If he can do this soberly, he will be close to a truly successful person.