Confidence is a flower. Flowers should bloom by themselves, not with hormones, and not with broken buds.
A publication invited me to tell young people how to become confident. As soon as he heard this, he quickly said that he didn't know how to teach people confidence.
Because there are many times when I am not confident. For example, computers, such as machinery, such as numbers, are dizzy when they meet. Each item has found a master as a teacher to help people in need. Teachers are all my friends. At first, they couldn't laugh at me except laughing. Now they are stupid.
Not surprisingly, give me a lofty evaluation at most: "Alas, liberal arts students!" "Autumn is really cool. I don't know how to be confident in these aspects. All I know is that if one day I take the wrong medicine and feel confident, I won't be a master, but I can't even find someone to help those in need.
How can a person be confident in what he is not good at? People don't know everything. For things that you don't know, can't, are not good at, and are born with mental retardation, it seems better to be unconfident than confident. At least you look self-aware. You may not be able to cover up other people's mistakes, but you will only lose face once at most, so as not to be full of flaws and make jokes bigger and bigger. Self-confidence should be based on strength. Without that strength, don't mention that vain strength, don't pose like that, suffer hardships and get angry, and let people with vision see jokes.
The first thing I can say about self-confidence is: when you are not confident, don't be confident. Of course, many times we have to have confidence. For example, in the exam, you should bite your teeth anyway and believe in yourself. The highest program is to play beyond the level, and the lowest program is not tested; There is a new person looking for a job interview. Without the minimum self-confidence, you will be tongue-tied, speechless and sweaty, and someone will even pour you a glass of water. Of course it won't work.
But there seem to be very few such young people now. Because too many people are teaching them through multimedia. What to wear, what to wear, every move, smile, basic etiquette, standard answers, they can already be teachers of early social people. But are they really confident? Not necessarily, because my horizons have also broadened. I know there are people outside, and I also know that all I have is the knowledge accumulated in the past ten years, and the rest must be carried by young and thin shoulders.
Those teachings are only technical things, because they can be operated, so they are technical, but they are superficial and trivial. They have no soul. To put it bluntly, what can be listed as one, two, three and four is just to teach people how to appear confident. Is to appear confident, not confident. The second thing I can say is, don't act confident and pretend that you are not really confident.
A person must be truly confident, or he is born rich, smart as ice and snow, and beautiful as a flower. Such people may not know what "not confident" means. Otherwise, you need to practice through your own accumulation. Since we talk about cultivation, we know it's not fun. One is to be sincere, and the other is to take time. Impetuousness is useless, and it is useless overnight. Learn slowly and understand slowly. You will naturally feel confident then. Jade is on the mountain and grass is moist. If you have confidence like jade in your heart, you will naturally reflect brilliance from your appearance. That's true confidence. So the third sentence is that self-confidence can't be rushed out, and it will be the opposite of self-confidence when it is rushed.
This may not sound as interesting as those crash courses. But don't worry, aren't you still young? You can rest assured of this. Besides, it is not good to be too confident. I want to sweep the world at a young age, and sometimes I trip myself.
It's definitely not bad self-confidence. Confidence is a flower. Flowers should bloom by themselves, not with hormones, and not with broken buds.
2. Write a short essay on the topic of "self-confidence". Life needs self-confidence. Life needs goals. Only with goals can we struggle, and only with struggle can we have a sense of accomplishment.
To be full, you must be confident. Life is not smooth sailing, and there will never be stormy waves. This is a journey full of hardships, twists and turns, challenges and setbacks.
When a new day comes, will you keep yourself busy? When the sun rises, do you catch every ray of sunshine? People with goals and confidence can still feel the warmth of sunshine and smell the colorful aura of life when they are busy, because only self-confidence can appreciate the connotation of life. Man's life is unique and solemn. Do you want this unique life to be brilliant or bleak? Since it is an accidental afterlife, watching the flowers bloom and fall, watching the sunrise and sunset, trying to change the temperature, and risking the world, then the young soul can only prove that his life is brilliant with practical actions.
Because of self-confidence, I feel that life is beautiful! Of course, a confident person, not everything goes well, everything goes well, but she opened a skylight in her soul to let the sun float in from the window. Even in rainy days, she learned to create the sun, and that sun just has confidence in herself. In a talented city, although I am ordinary, I am not small; Although the reality is cruel, I have confidence and fighting spirit.
Even if I have to trudge through Qian Shan, I will fight for everything in my marriage with confidence. Even if the storm is coming ahead and the mountain torrents are roaring, I will go all out to fight for the upper reaches, because I have confidence to accompany me on the road, so I am full of confidence. Life needs self-confidence.
Confident people are expected to succeed; People who are not confident have no chance of success. Jono Gillard, the most famous sales king in American history.
He was born in a slum in America, poorer than people think. When he was very young, he went to the streets to shine shoes to support his family, and finally dropped out of high school. His father always said that he would not succeed.
His father's blow once made him lose confidence, and even for a while, he even became tongue-tied. Fortunately, he has a great mother.
But she often tells Jono Gillard: "Joe, you should prove to your father, you should prove to everyone that you can be a great person." You have to believe this: everyone is the same, and the opportunity is in front of everyone.
You can't be depressed or discouraged. His mother's encouragement rebuilt his confidence and ignited his desire for success. He became a confident man! Since then, a person who is not optimistic, heavily in debt and almost desperate has been called "the greatest salesman in the world" by Guinness World Records in just three years.
But also maintains an unprecedented record of high-priced goods sales-an average of 6 cars a day! It has always been regarded as a legend who can sell any product to anyone by European and American business circles. From his legendary life, we can see that life needs self-confidence! From the growing process of Yuan, known as the god of Japanese marketing, we can also see that life needs self-confidence.
Yuan is short in stature. When I was an intern salesman at the age of 25, my height was only 1.45 meters. He is small and thin. Looking horizontally and vertically, he is really not good-looking, which can be said to be congenital deficiency. However, all this has not defeated the original level. On the contrary, the more frustrated and brave he is, the flame of "never admit defeat" has been burning in his heart. With "I will never admit defeat, never admit defeat!" "Yuan Yiping is unparalleled and unique!" Self-confidence and self-improvement have successfully created one sales myth after another with tears and sweat, and finally became the first person to sell insurance in Japan.
Self-confidence can be said to be an incubator for the birth of heroes, and one by one slightly better self-confidence has created a number of legends. However, self-confidence not only makes a hero, but also becomes a necessity for ordinary people. I believe that a life without self-confidence is an incomplete life.
I know it myself. Because there is a belief in my mind that supports me, that is success, and I want to succeed, so my life has been very good.
The result of all this depends on my firm confidence and indomitable will. Friends, please remember: you must be full of confidence, because life needs self-confidence, and self-confidence makes people successful.
Learn to be confident. Many facts have proved that self-confidence is a common quality of most people and an important factor for a person's success. It is often said that if a person is not afraid of being knocked down by others in life, he will get up again. The most terrible thing is to knock himself down and there is no hope.
How can we avoid "knocking ourselves down"? This requires self-esteem and self-confidence. A confident life will never be defeated by society, except for his own fatigue and inability to fight.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success in life, and the road to success must be climbed step by step with confidence. With self-confidence, people can achieve their desired achievements, become the people they want to be, and stick to the beliefs they pursue.
Anyway, the motto of a confident person is: "I think I can, I can't now, and I will!" " "Self-confidence can not only change the surrounding environment, but also change self-confidence. For example, there is a typical example: a psychologist chooses the most stupid and unlovable girl from a class of college students and asks her classmates to change their previous views on her.
On a beautiful day, everyone rushed to take care of the girl, courted her and accompanied her home. Everyone really believes that she is a beautiful and intelligent girl with a fake. What was the result? In less than a year, the girl became very good, and even her behavior was completely different.
She wisely told people that she was born again. Indeed, she has not become another person-however, she shows everyone's potential, and this beauty will only be shown when we believe in ourselves and people around us believe in us and love us.
It can be seen that self-confidence can work miracles. However, self-confidence is not innate, and not everyone has it.
Many people have low self-confidence, especially after experiencing some ups and downs in life, some people will feel ashamed. Others have actually learned how to belittle themselves.
I am not beautiful, but I am full of confidence. Because of self-confidence, I become more cheerful; Because of self-confidence, I become more optimistic. Self-confidence is an indispensable part of life!
Don't worry about anything!
I remember one afternoon, the school held a nursery rhyme competition. I can't help but get nervous when I watch my classmates in the game do well. I'm afraid I'll recite the wrong lines and do the wrong actions. So, I calmed myself down again and again, but it didn't help! Suddenly, I thought: What do you mean by reciting the wrong lines and doing the wrong actions? Be confident, don't be nervous, just practice alone. After a while, it was our class's turn. Our classmates went to the designated place and started the competition. I soon entered the state. With a burst of warm applause, the competition in our class ended, and we all breathed a sigh of relief, waiting for the result of the competition. A few days later, the results of the competition came out and our class won the third prize. Hearing this, I thought to myself: It seems that you should be full of confidence in everything!
In the heavy snow, counting plum blossoms is the most confident; In the vast sky, several eagles are the most confident; Under Ping Yuanjun's door, Mao Sui is the most confident; Among many scientists, Edison is the most confident ... from ancient times to the present, from far to near, everything is full of confidence and smiles, casting an indomitable soul and lighting the beacon of life.
Self-confidence+ability = success, so success is inseparable from self-confidence. If you want to succeed, you must have more than half confidence. If you lose self-confidence, it will be difficult to succeed. Let's "regain our confidence" and embark on the road to success!
Let's learn to work hard in self-confidence, learn to be strong, learn to move forward and meet success.
4. Helen Keller (1880- 1962), an American female scholar, was born in Tuscany, Alabama. /kloc-when she was 0 and a half years old, she suddenly fell ill, making her blind, deaf and dumb. In such unimaginable life adversity, she embarked on a long journey of life ... people say. Although fate was so unfair to young Helen, with the help of her first teacher, Anne Sullivan, tenacious Helen learned to write and speak. Little Helen once confidently declared: "One day, I will go to college! I'm going to Harvard University! " This day has finally arrived. Radcliffe Women's College of Harvard University arranged her entrance examination in a special way. I saw that she skillfully touched the raised braille with her hand and then answered the question with a typewriter. After 9 hours, all subjects passed, and she got excellent grades in English and German. Four years later, Helen graduated from Radcliffe College with a parchment certificate. Helen loves life and will devote her life to the welfare and education of the blind and deaf. She won the praise of world public opinion. She has successively completed 14 works such as The Story of My Life, which has produced worldwide influence. Her self-esteem, self-confidence and indomitable spirit of struggle are known as the eternal pride of mankind. /kloc-Helen, who is blind, deaf and dumb at the age of 0, could not have grown into a scholar praised by the world without strong courage and confidence to challenge her fate. Life. If the ego doesn't shrink back, goes forward despite difficulties and finally wins, then the ego will be more perfect and mature. In the face of challenges, we must first affirm ourselves, that is, we must have confidence in ourselves. Self-confidence can inspire people to strive for self-improvement, overcome difficulties and explore their hidden self-potential. Helen is a strong proof. Helen once said that "self-confidence is the master of fate". It is important to cultivate self-confidence temperament. But self-confidence is not innate, it is gradually formed and developed in personal life and practice. Seriously sum up our strengths and successful experiences, and let self-confidence give us strength to meet the challenges of life. Learn from Helen. Mentality determines whether you succeed or not. Why are some people more successful than others, earn more money, have good jobs, good interpersonal relationships and good health, and live a happy life with high quality all day? It seems that their life is better than others. Many people are busy with work but can only make ends meet. In fact, there is not much difference between people. But why do many people succeed, overcome all difficulties and make contributions? Many psychologists have found that this secret is the "mentality" of people. A philosopher said, "Your mentality is your real master." A great man once said, "Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. " About 40 years ago, two brothers lived in a poor village in Fujian. They can't stand the harsh environment, so they. Sold to the rich San Francisco as a slave, and the younger brother was sold to the Philippines, which is poorer than China. Forty years later, the two brothers were lucky to get together again. Today, they are not what they used to be. As brothers, they have become overseas Chinese leaders in San Francisco, with two restaurants, two laundries and a grocery store, and their children and grandchildren are full. Some of them inherited the mantle, while others became outstanding engineers or computer engineers and other science and technology professionals. Where's their brother? In fact, he has become a world-famous banker, with a considerable number of forests, rubber plantations and banks in Southeast Asia. After decades of hard work, they all succeeded. But why are there such differences in their career achievements? When brothers get together, we can't help talking about what happened after breaking up. My brother said that since we China people have no special talents in white society, we can only cook and wash clothes for white people with one pair of hands. In short, we in China are all working in jobs that white people refuse to do, and life is fine, but we dare not expect careers. For example, although my children and grandchildren have read a lot of books, they dare not dream. I have to take on some intermediate technical jobs to make a living. As for entering the upper white society, I believe it is very difficult. Seeing my brother's success, a brother can't help but envy his happiness. My brother said there was no luck. When I first came to the Philippines, I did some humble jobs, but I found some locals stupid and lazy, so I decided to give up my career and gradually acquire and expand. Business is gradually expanding. The above is a true story, reflecting the struggle history of overseas Chinese. It tells us that it is not only the environment that affects our lives, but also the mentality that controls our actions and thoughts. At the same time, mentality also determines our vision, career and achievements. There are two 70-year-old ladies, one of whom thinks that this age can be regarded as the end of life, so she begins to take care of the affairs. Another view is that what a person can do is not his age, but his thoughts. So, at the age of 70, she began to learn to climb mountains, several of which are world-famous. Recently, she climbed Mount Fuji in Japan at the age of 95, breaking the record of the oldest person to climb this mountain. She is the famous old lady Huda Cruz. At the age of 70, she began to learn to climb mountains. This is a great miracle. But miracles are created by people. The first sign of a successful person is his way of thinking. If a person is a positive thinker, he practices positive thinking and likes to accept challenges and deal with troubles, then he is half successful. The feat of the old lady Huda Cruz just proves this point. Whether a person can succeed depends on his attitude! The difference between winners and losers is that winners always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience. The loser is guided and dominated by all kinds of failures and doubts in the past. Some people always like to say that their present situation is caused by others. These people often say that their ideas cannot be changed. However, our situation is not caused by the surrounding environment. After all, how to look at life and how to grasp it depends on ourselves. The hardest thing to be a man is to grasp a degree, no matter what you do. As long as you can freely control the degree of doing things, then.
5. Write a composition about 800 words on the topic of self-confidence. Dear self: Hello! What happened recently? I don't think you are in good spirits! What's the matter? Is it because the quality inspection result is not ideal? I think you have been in a bad mood since the quality inspection, and you will be distracted in class! According to me: you must have a disease-"inferiority complex"! In real life, we can't all be smooth sailing, and we will always suffer some setbacks and failures. Don't lose confidence in yourself because of one or two failures. The great men in front of us, such as Madame Curie, Liu Xiang, Edison and Li Yang, all experienced many setbacks and failures, but when they were frustrated, they raised their confident sails and caught up, so they achieved great success. To achieve their career, they must have confidence. With self-confidence, you can have courage, strength and perseverance. With these, difficulties can be overcome and goals can be achieved. Li Yang was shy and introverted when he was a child, afraid to meet strangers and answer the phone ... His parents once decided that he was worthless, "when he grew up, he had to look for shit." 1986, Li Yang was admitted to Lanzhou University, and his life was not bright. The final exam of the first semester. I failed the English exam for two consecutive semesters. The second semester of college is coming to an end, and Li Yang 13 failed. So Li Yang shouted English sentences at the top of his lungs against the cold wind every day. The students around him laughed at him and said he was a fool. But he "go his own way and let others talk", shouting from 1987 to 650. Li Yang has memorized more than ten original English books and a large number of CET-4 questions. Li Yang's tongue is no longer stiff, his ears are no longer out of control, and his reaction is no longer slow. In that year's CET-4, Li Yang finished the examination paper in only 50 minutes and became the second in the school. Only by self-confidence can we face the hardships of life and years, wipe away your sad tears and light the fire of hope. Use your whole body and mind to open up a successful road. Edison liked small-scale production of science and technology best when he was a child, but he didn't study very well. When he was young, he still insisted on invention and creation with confidence. The light bulb we are using now took Edison a lot of effort. He tried to choose the most durable material from 1000 to make the filament. At that time, people around him made fun of him, but Edison ignored the public opinion around him and insisted on doing the experiment. Finally, tungsten wire was found to be the most suitable filament for light bulbs. He invented the light bulb and Edison became a great inventor in the world. Self-confidence is not a pleasant song, nor is it an elegant poem. It is a bulging sail, a soaring energy, and a burning fire. Yourself, your sailboat will sink into the sea without sails, so quickly raise your confident sails and strive to move forward and reach the other side. What role am I playing? I missed the composition contest; I can't find my name on the glory board; At the awards ceremony, I clapped wildly for others; On the court, I only have a loyal opinion ... everything has nothing to do with me. I'm still doing fantastic things, trying to get ahead in life and enjoy the scenery. I once dreamed that I ate a "Chiemaru", and suddenly I was full of wisdom and outstanding ... When I woke up, everything was gone, and life was too stingy. It only gave me the right to feel inferior and give up. After a lot of things, I finally understand. I was still in a bad mood when I raised my hand and elected me monitor. At that time, I felt the burden on my shoulders was so heavy. I firmly believe that I can do it well, but the fact is worse than I thought. The next morning, just entering the shoe house, I saw several classmates fighting. I don't know what drove me to stop them. However, what I got was their cynicism, and my heart was sour. I don't know what it smells like, but at the thought of raising my hand, I swore in my heart that I must have confidence in managing the class well, solving problems for the head teacher and being responsible for all the students. Some students don't understand. Doesn't that mean I can't convince my classmates? So, I made up my mind to do a good job in my study, take out real efforts to convince my classmates, have confidence, and urge me to bite my teeth and work hard. With confidence, I don't know how many long romantic days I have spent. I was eating a book while others were playing crazy on the court. When others are absent-minded in class, I swim in the ocean of knowledge with my teacher. I firmly believe that the future will always be bright, hard work pays off and my grades have improved a lot. At that time, I finally understood that "Chiemaru" came from self-confidence and my grades improved. As a monitor, I was praised by the teacher in my study and recognized by the class teacher and classmates. I am more confident. These all come from self-confidence. I am no longer sad for my ordinary. I no longer have those beautiful dreams ... because I am confident, and self-confidence stirs my growth. Confidence is a flower. A flower must bloom by itself, and the bud cannot be broken. A publication invited me to tell young people how to become confident. Hearing this, I quickly said: I don't know how to teach others confidence. Because I have many times when I am not confident. Such as computers, such as machinery, such as numbers. Seeing you makes me dizzy. I have found a master to be a teacher of every subject. Teachers are all my friends. At first they laughed at my incompetence, but now they are stupid and not surprised. At most, they gave me a high evaluation: "Alas, liberal arts students!" This is really a cool autumn. I don't know how to be confident in these aspects. All I know is that if one day I take the wrong medicine and become confident, I won't be a master, but I can't even find someone to help those in need. How can a person be confident in what he is not good at? People don't know everything. For things that you don't know, can't, are not good at, and are born with mental retardation, it seems better to be unconfident than confident. At least you have self-knowledge, and you may not be able to cover up other people's mistakes, but you will only lose face once at most, so that you will not be full of flaws and the jokes will become more ugly. Self-confidence is based on strength. Without that strength, let alone that vanity strength. Don't pose like that, suffer hardships and suffer indignities, and let people with discerning eyes see jokes. The first thing I can say about self-confidence is: when you are not confident,
6. Regarding the topic of self-confidence, the fast topic composition test has three main characteristics: First, the topic only provides the core around the writing content, and does not provide specific and clear topics in the form of topics. Secondly, it only provides the scope of writing, and the scope is quite broad. As long as the content is related to the topic, it is not required to summarize the central meaning of the materials provided in the test and make a fuss about it closely. Third, topic composition generally requires self-writing. Untitled composition does not require self-made topics, nor can it be set separately. Among the above three main features, the most important one is "wide range". Because of the "wide range", it provides writers with a broader space to play, which is conducive to writers' personality characteristics and talent selection. It can be said that topic composition, as one of the main types of college entrance examination composition, is a manifestation of the maturity of college entrance examination composition. To write a good topic composition, we must first be good at "turning small into big". The writing scope of topic composition is very wide. If we only regard the topic as a rigid concept and an "inseparable" whole, it is bound to be vague in content and loose in meaning. Therefore, to write a good topic composition, the first requirement is to be good at "choosing one point, not the rest" in a wide range. In other words, only "one aspect" is written in "large scale". Provide yourself with a good stage to give full play and concrete performance, so that you can write a good article with clear and concentrated ideas and specific content of about 800 words. There was a girl who always felt that she was disliked, but she felt a little inferior. When she put it on, several customers in the shop said it was beautiful. So she was very excited to buy a hairpin and wear it to school. Then something wonderful happened. Many students who don't say hello to her on weekdays have approached her. Some students say that she has become cheerful and lively. The girl thought, "It's all because I'm wearing a beautiful hairpin." Then she thought that there seemed to be several hairpins of the same style in the shop, so she should choose more to wear. After school, she ran quickly to the store. As soon as she arrived at the store, the boss smiled and said to her, "I knew you would come back and take your lost hairpin." When I found her lying on the ground in the morning, you had already gone to school, so I had to keep it for you for the time being. " At this time, she found that she didn't wear a hairpin at all. Please read the above, grasp the main idea and put forward your own opinions. Write an article of no less than 600 words. Exhibition of works 1, self-confidence (first-class article) Zhang Fanfan Emerson once said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success." Just like this, there is no success without self-confidence. If you want to succeed, you must first be confident. Self-confidence is a necessary condition for success. Self-confidence means having a bottom in your heart. Know how much you can do. Only in this way can you succeed step by step. If you do things blindly and have no bottom in your heart, you will be like a hanging temple, fluttering and swaying, and one day you will be defeated if you do things like that. Self-confidence is power. With power, you have the foundation for success. An American dancer was admitted to the Dance Academy many times when she was young. Very depressed. Once an old lady took her to a big garden and told her that God would help her as long as she could find the legendary six-petal carmine orchid. But the carmine orchid has always been five petals, and the girl can't find it after looking for it all day. At this time, the old lady stopped the girl, then grabbed a flower bone of carmine orchid and said, "According to my years of experience, this must be the six petals of carmine orchid you are looking for." Now, I also wish you good luck. " The girl believed, and suddenly she had confidence that she would succeed. So, in the later selection, she stood out and was finally admitted. In fact, there is no six-petal carmine orchid in the world, so why did the girl not get into the exam several times before, but was admitted after getting carmine orchid? The answer is: confidence. The girl believes that rouge orchid will really bring her good luck, so she has self-confidence, turning self-confidence into strength, faith, temperament and dance, thus realizing her dream. If people have no self-confidence, they will feel inferior or arrogant. People with low self-esteem often think that they can't do anything, so they won't let go of things and always feel that they can't reach a certain level. If inferiority, self-confidence and arrogance are the abscissa and success is the ordinate, then self-confidence lies between inferiority and arrogance, just at the location of the origin, at the intersection of the horizontal axis and the vertical axis. It can be seen that self-confidence is the only way to success, and it is also the shortest and most effective way to success. Let's follow the road of self-confidence to success! Comments: This article is a typical argumentative essay with clear conception, rigorous structure and concise and fresh language. At the beginning of the article, I lead my argument with a clear statement, then I clarify the role of self-confidence from both positive and negative aspects, and then I demonstrate my point of view with facts. Finally, it is concluded that "self-confidence is the only way to success, and it is also the shortest and most effective way to success". It can be said that this article is quite standardized and complete. It is after analyzing the role of self-confidence from both positive and negative aspects at the beginning of the article that I failed to explain it from both positive and negative aspects. 2. Live a little self-confidence (an article) Dong ① A and I are friends in life and competitors in study. We are both admitted to the economics department of a famous university. I did better than him in every exam, although he was the second in the class every time. This is undoubtedly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for each of us! We are all preparing carefully. Here he comes, a legend that reorganized the world after God created it. We were fascinated by his delicate words. Suddenly, he asked a question, an economic problem. I have sorted out the answers, but I haven't decided whether to get up and say, I dare not teach fish to swim.