Sometimes, you may not be able to save a life or a group of lives with a charity. On the contrary, you will make them doomed. Just like that tourist, he saved a small life out of kindness, but never thought about it. As a result, he made almost all turtles food for the eagle.
Maybe this tourist's psychology is shared by human beings. They always try their best to help the weak and helpless life, but they don't know that such doting or kindness will always make them feel such dependence, but in the end it runs counter to people's original intention.
What we can do for a beggar begging along the street is to take out all his pockets and give him some charity. But we don't know that this can't solve the fundamental problem, and it is impossible for him to make any changes in his life with your "funding". Maybe we should tell them loudly that there is no way out for a person to live and beg. He should work hard and earn money to support himself. Everyone wants a self-reliant person in this world, not a beggar who reaches out to everyone. Isn't it?
The behavior of this tourist suddenly made me feel like the parents of the only child in the real society. They always treat their children as treasures, holding them in their mouths and holding them in their palms for fear of breaking them. Excessive doting makes children lose their independent ability and make them have too strong dependence. In fact, we should give them a proper space to grow up. I once read a sentence: Since God has given us youth, we should give it a try. I also believe that without the kindness and doting of our parents, we will have the ability to "fall down and get up again", instead of crawling in the same place and waiting for our parents to help us get up.
Many people will "climb into the sea with a turtle" like tourists and our parents when they encounter the above experiences. But they don't know that pain is the first step of growth. Life is incomplete without trauma and pain, because after trauma and pain, we won't all die like turtles before going through the process of life.
Therefore, I hope that all kind people will let go of your hands and let us face it and experience it ourselves! Because we believe that we can only grow through experience.
Because-pain is the first step in life.
Comments: On the basis of grasping the raw materials, the article puts forward a good proposition, which further involves the education of the only child. This paper compares the kindness of tourists-"climbing the sea with turtles" with the excessive care and love of some parents for the only child in today's society, with both praise and criticism.