"The rain in the sky is as smooth as crisp, and the grass nearby is nothing" is a famous sentence of Han Yu, a poet in the Tang Dynasty. In the early spring drizzle, the spring grass germinated. From a distance, it was light green and pleasant, but from a close look, only sparse grass could not feel the green. Being too close, sometimes you can't feel the thrilling beauty; Being too close, sometimes I regret it because of reality; Being too close, unimaginative and mediocre. Ancient landscape painting has also widened the distance between the horizon and the landscape, making people feel that the mountains are hazy, the water is empty, and it is really "quiet". Maybe that's not the case. Mountains may be cut down, water may dry up, but so is beauty. Proper distance produces beauty.
Communication between people will be better with distance. "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", which makes people know each other macroscopically through distance; Through the distance, we can't see those trivial flaws, which makes the communication between people more harmonious. As Xi Murong said: Friendship is like a flower, it is better to be light. The lighter it is, the longer it lasts, and the lighter it is, the more nostalgic it is. At a proper distance, two hedgehogs can also warm each other without hurting each other. At a proper distance, friendship between people is like wine. If there is a faint bouquet, it will become more mellow. The beauty of reason comes from a proper distance.
Since when have we lost the hazy beauty in our eyes, that is, "the shadows are shallow and the fragrance floats at dusk"? Ignorant exploration is sometimes not necessarily a good thing. Exploring the moon will only give us a devastated world. We can't see the beauty close at hand, but as long as we step back and keep a little distance, we can get up at four o'clock in the morning and find that the begonia flower is not sleeping, just like Kawabata Yasunari. Just like lotus, it has a fresh and green beauty without the delicate and charming state of flowers. Standing far away by the pond, watching the lotus leaves stirred by the wind, accompanied by the fragrance of lotus flowers, how beautiful the artistic conception is. But if you have to study hard before you go, and the rotten water is blocked, it will be too disappointing. Keep your distance, Madison
After Jesus got the word, he returned to his hometown to preach, and many people came from all directions to become his faithful followers. People regard him as the son of God. But when people recognized him as the carpenter's son, all the disciples dispersed in a hubbub. Without the barrier of distance, people's awe of beauty will disappear. Our worship of idols is often due to their beautiful personality. But without the distance, they will be mediocre, without the stage lights and the sound of music, they will no longer shine. Appropriate distance, joined the unknown, beauty was born.
Distance is another direction of vision. Keeping a distance will leave a little blank for each other, making communication lighter than water but endless. Keeping a distance will also cast a veil over the landscape, making it more mysterious and dazzling. Keep your distance, and you will stand in a new angle and discover the unique beauty of things. Distance produces beauty, and in a proper distance, many beauties in life emerge. Keep your distance and let more beautiful things appear in the world.
In daily life, we should always pay attention to the distance between people and things, as the saying goes, "distance produces beauty." Choosing a suitable distance can make our life simple and natural, full of warmth, and also allow us to keep all kinds of beautiful things and achieve our goals in life. On the other hand, if we can't control this distance well, we will lose a lot. Keeping a distance is nothing more than three situations: near, far and middle. The first two don't fit. If the distance is too close, it will be too casual in life and too close to others, which will inevitably make others feel disgusted and dare not say it, thus losing many friends.
In business, this kind of behavior will often be used by others, and many friends who can talk to each other will often become your biggest enemy. As the saying goes, "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", which is the truth. I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only on this mountain. In fact, there is such a connection between man and nature.
When you are in Shang Huashi in the garden, you suddenly find that the color and shape of a flower are just in line with your aesthetic point of view. Out of love for it, you broke it off the branch and put it in your hand to watch, but soon it withered. The number of creatures on the earth now is very different from that of a hundred years ago. Now every hour, a species disappears from the earth forever. All this is because human beings and nature have failed to keep the proper distance, which is too compact and does not give other creatures in nature the living space they deserve.
On the other hand, if you keep too far away, there will be many negative effects. In life, you will be narcissistic, you will lack affinity, enthusiasm for communicating with others, goodwill towards others, you will lose friends, life will become indifferent and boring, and people will have negative emotions.
In your career, you will lack the spirit of cooperation, make yourself helpless, lose your partner, lose valuable support that may help you succeed, encounter difficulties, and make it difficult to finish your work. It may also be that others don't fully understand your ability, which leads to that you can't be reused by your superiors and miss the opportunity.
In short, only by keeping a proper distance can we appreciate the magnificence of mountains and rivers; Only by keeping a proper distance can we appreciate the depth of the soul; Only by keeping a proper distance can we feel the magic of nature; Only by keeping a proper distance can we live well. Let's grasp this distance and enjoy the happiness of life!
In the evening, a little girl walked into a huge vegetable market. She is six or seven years old, ragged, short and thin, with messy hair and dirty cheeks flushed by the north wind.
She has not eaten since yesterday. Today, when she came to the vegetable market, she just wanted to satisfy her hunger with those poor steel collapses she got from begging for steamed bread.
The market is brightly lit and full of people. People were trapped in the slippery path and looked anxious and indifferent. The little girl looked at the bustling crowd and was a little at a loss. Thin, she walked into the crowd blankly, and was suddenly led forward by the crowd and lost her way. After walking aimlessly for a while, the little girl suddenly stopped in front of a fruit stand:
Under a wooden sign that says "Honesty first", all kinds of fruits are neatly placed on the table. Huang Chengcheng's green watermelons and oranges ... but the most striking thing is the apples like the hills in the middle of the table, all of which are red and shining in the light, as if tempting passers-by to take a bite.
The little girl swallowed hard, forcing herself not to look at those tempting apples, forcing herself not to imagine the sweetness of apples, forcing herself to take a step, but the more she thought about it, the more disobedient she became. When she made up her mind to leave, an apple rolled down beside an adult at the fruit stand and lay quietly on the ground.
The girl looked around and no one noticed what had just happened except her. She immediately bent down to pick up the apple and wiped it with her cuff. She was about to open her mouth when she suddenly stopped like an electric shock. She blinked her eager eyes and stared at the apple in her hand, thinking quickly in her little head. It seems that after a century, the little girl sighed, then held the apple in her hand and put it back quietly and slowly.
Three feet, two feet ... only one foot away from the countertop-at this moment, a hand suddenly grabbed her hands, and the little girl was shaking all over, subconsciously trying to pull it back, but her grip was tighter. She looked up, and a bloated middle-aged woman was looking at her condescendingly, with a smug smile on her mouth and her nostrils facing the sky, looking like a hippo.
"children!" The woman snatched the apple from her hand. "How dare you steal my apple!" "
The little girl opened her eyes wide and begged quickly, "I'm not a thief!" " "
"Not you who else? Ah? " "Hippo" suddenly raised its tone, which made people look askance.
Fine beads of sweat rose from her forehead: "But … I just …"
"Don't quibble! I can see everything clearly. I can clearly see that your hand is only one foot away from the fruit stand and you are still holding my' Red Fuji'. What is this? " "Hippo" interrupted her without hesitation.
"I ... no ... I'll put it back ..." The little girl grabbed the corner of her dress and mumbled something, and her tears almost came out.
"At an early age, you will learn to deny it? Give me a review! " Women are shouting around. Several nosy people who didn't know the situation gathered around with interest and nodded, but no one stood up and said a word for the little girl.
"I really didn't ..." Her voice was so low that she could hardly hear it.
"come on Think of me as a beggar. " "Hippo" pretended to put the apple back in the little girl's arms, then turned around, brushed the "honesty first" wooden sign and continued to do business. ...
The crowd gradually dispersed, but the little girl remained where she was. She stared at the apple that caused trouble, and tears streamed down her eyes. She couldn't understand why it was only a foot away.
Maybe when she grows up, she will understand.
Postscript: The furthest distance in the world is the distance between hearts, if there is only indifference and no enthusiasm between people; Only suspicion, no understanding, then their distance, not just a foot. ...