Language is sometimes a good medicine to resolve misunderstandings. Lian Po, the general of Zhao, was jealous of Lin Xiangru, who was highly valued by the prince of Zhao, and threatened to embarrass him, but Lin Xiangru avoided conflicts with him everywhere. Everyone is confused. Lin Xiangru's phrase "national emergency first, personal revenge later" revealed his intention. This sentence also instantly eliminated Lian Po's prejudice against Lin Xiangru. He offered a humble apology and finally became best friends with Lin Xiangru. Lin Xiangru's words on the floor turned into a bridge, which enabled the two ministers to communicate and made Lian Po understand Lin Xiangru's noble personality. It can be seen that language is the carrier of information. Through language, many misunderstandings can be eliminated and many spiritual barriers can be broken.
Language is a carrier pigeon that conveys love and understanding. In modern society, many parents often complain that their children are always self-centered and never listen to themselves. Many children also complain that their parents always don't understand themselves and always bind themselves. There are many reasons for this, but the most important one is that there is too little communication between parents and children. Some parents don't let their children do anything, just ask their children to study hard and not be distracted. This is not a concern. Real concern should be based on mutual understanding. Some families will set aside some time every day to let their families express their thoughts and hopes. Parents listen carefully to their children's voices, and children silently remember their parents' teachings and expectations. Mutual understanding promotes mutual communication. Language is like a homing pigeon, which transmits one person's heart to another, so as to establish understanding. The understanding between parents and children enables parents to find the best way to express their care, and also enables children to show sympathy to their parents and know how to repay them. Mutual language communication opens the door to communication and understanding.
If the communication in language is inappropriate, it will lead to misunderstanding in communication. The fable that Mrs. Feng died in a fire is thought-provoking. If the language is accurate, this tragedy can be completely avoided. Therefore, learning language expression well is of great benefit to communication. Only by building a bridge of communication can we get to know each other better.
With language, communication will become smooth; With language, communication will be so colorful.