Self-confidence is a life attitude that modern people should have. On the other hand, believe in yourself, that is, believe in yourself. We should believe in ourselves. If you don't believe in yourself, what is there to believe in this world? Only by believing in yourself can we build confidence in success and achieve success.
Many people are not confident because of inferiority complex. They don't think they can do it. They have given up hope. Can they expect hope from others? So I think believing in yourself is the cornerstone of success. But that doesn't mean we can refuse to listen to other people's opinions.
? Go your own way and let others talk! ? It sounds chic, but no one can really do it. It is true that we should stick to our beliefs and not be interfered by outsiders. But when others give you sincere advice, I think you should accept it with an open mind.
? Full loss, little gain? It means that overconfidence will lead to losses, while accepting others' opinions with an open mind will be beneficial, which requires us to learn to correctly handle the relationship between believing in ourselves and listening to others' opinions.
Believe in yourself instead of blindly believing in yourself, accept others' opinions with an open mind instead of blindly following, fully understand and know yourself, know your own ability and kindness, fully believe in your own self-confidence and kindness, listen to others' opinions properly in areas you don't know much about or when you don't know much about them, and make correct judgments based on your own ideas.
The road of life is very long, and the road ahead is full of thorns. We always face turning points again and again. How to take every step well depends on our own choice. No one can help us, we must rely on ourselves, we must believe that every step we take is correct and go on without regrets.
? People who often ask for directions won't get lost? We can't rely on others, but we can ask others for advice and find the best way. In the process of growing up, we gradually know how to believe in ourselves. It's like listening to others' well-intentioned advice, taking your own path and accepting others' rational correction. The road seems to be no longer rugged, and we seem to see hope on the other side.
? Trust everyone, doubt everyone, their mistakes are the same. ? We are opposed to extreme ideas, and we also have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Correctly understand your own position and ideas, think carefully about others' opinions, combine believing in yourself with listening to others' opinions, carefully and firmly take every step of your life, and you will surely see a rainbow not far away.
800-word argumentative essay: modesty and arrogance
Modesty and arrogance are both manifestations of two personalities and two different attitudes. Modesty is a low-key and admirable way of learning, while arrogance is a high-profile and contemptuous pride.
Many people like modest people and hate domineering people. In fact, these two attitudes are basically understandable, whether it is modesty or arrogance. The crux of the problem lies not in this, but in the strength of people with these two attitudes. The weak should be modest, and the strong should be arrogant. What did the ancients call it? A threesome must have my teacher? It is emphasized that no matter who it is, it should be treated with a modest and low-key attitude. I don't agree with this statement.
Everyone has his advantages, everyone has his shortcomings, so be arrogant to an arrogant person. If you show a low profile to a stupid and arrogant person, it is almost flattering and will actually encourage his arrogance.
We must despise this kind of person, but not comprehensively, and despise what he needs to spit on, and we will never be soft. When we stop despising, everything in the world will be despised, including greatness.
On the contrary, in the face of people with values but arrogant personality, we might as well be modest and treat them as a breeze blowing over the mountains. Because the reason why we should keep a low profile is to learn from their strengths, where they are smarter than you, not the way they treat others.
Our modesty and arrogance are just a gesture. The attitude of the other side is not important, what matters is the strength. Don't let go of what you should learn and what you should despise. Of course, it is worth noting that because we live in this society, most of the people around us are ordinary people. Therefore, for friends who have no conflict of principled positions, we might as well completely put down the two completely different postures of arrogance and modesty, and treat others in a modest way, whether it is modesty, arrogance or humility, instead of treating others. Attitude is also a kind of wisdom