Young convergence mainly refers to the transition from kindergarten to primary school. In fact, in general, it means that kindergarten children have stepped into standardized school life from the life of playing and learning in kindergarten. Since the bridge connecting the kindergarten and the primary school is the bridge connecting the kindergarten and the primary school, parents and friends must be informed in advance of the problems and solutions that are easy to occur in the young connection, so that our parents and friends can take precautions in advance and avoid the inconvenience caused by children entering the primary school campus.

I once remembered that there was a marijuana tree in our garden. Because her baby has graduated and successfully entered the ideal primary school, she always complains to me that the management of the primary school is not as good as that of our kindergarten, and the teachers in the primary school are not careful enough. In fact, it is not that teachers are not careful enough, but that as parents, they have not noticed the role change of children's life and study.

In view of the problem of this parent and friend, as the person in charge of the school, it is very necessary to inform the children of the problems encountered in primary school in advance. Please read on carefully, because it is related to the psychological changes of children.

First, children may have problems in primary school.

Question 1 No time to care-wear wet clothes all day.

kindergarten

Often many children are taken care of by life teachers when they are in kindergarten. Whether they are sweating or getting wet, take the initiative to help them change their clothes. After school, the children wear clean clothes and hug their parents happily.

primary school

In primary school, a teacher often can't take care of all the students, so when children first enter the campus, once these phenomena occur, they often stay in wet clothes for a day until school is over, and parents look at their parents pitifully, which will make them angry.

2 taste changes-not enough to eat

kindergarten

Kindergarten children, under the careful care of life teachers, will be coaxed or even fed in person. Every day, according to the students' personal situation, they will consider the delivery of various condiments when cooking.

primary school

In boarding primary schools, this is not the case. Children should help themselves to eat, and there will be no food after the meal. The food is cooked together, so there is no situation where children are not given a certain seasoning.

3 the change of attention-cut in at will

kindergarten

Kindergarten children, after hearing the teacher's speech, will interrupt the teacher to ask all kinds of questions, even questions unrelated to the class content, and the teacher will take pains to answer them.

primary school

In class, the students interrupted the questions before the teacher finished. If it is related to the content of the class, the teacher will answer patiently, but if it is not, it will definitely cause the teacher's boredom, not to mention it is impolite to interrupt others at will.

4 physical problems-I can't find a toilet or pee in class.

kindergarten

In kindergarten, whenever and wherever you need to relieve yourself, the teacher will lead the children to the toilet to solve it. So there is no such thing as not finding a toilet.

primary school

On the primary school campus, there are many students, and the toilets for men and women are separated. Many students can't find the toilet or go to the wrong toilet because of unfamiliar environment. Some children even just play after class, but forget to go to the toilet, which leads to going to the toilet in class.

5. Forgetting things-not sorting stationery or forgetting to bring it.

kindergarten

Every time I see parents sending their children to school, they help to tidy up their schoolbags, including after school, and some teachers help to tidy up their schoolbags, and they will also tell their parents about the homework content of the day.

primary school

After attending primary school, some parents feel that their children have grown up, or because they are busy, they have not taken into account their children's situation. Therefore, children often find that they have forgotten to bring stationery or books when they arrive at school, or the homework assigned by the teacher has not been completed.

Second, what happened to kindergartens and primary schools? discrepancy

1 Reform of educational system and mode

kindergarten

Kindergarten education belongs to non-compulsory education, and kindergarten curriculum is a comprehensive education with equal emphasis on education.

primary school

Primary education belongs to compulsory education, while primary education is "teaching-oriented", focusing on classroom teaching and subject learning.

2 changes in the human environment

kindergarten

There are life teachers and teachers in all subjects in the kindergarten. There are about three regular teachers every day, and friends around them also play games together.

primary school

There are teachers and class teachers in primary schools. Not all teachers are present in every class, and the schedule of each class is different, so teachers are not regular teachers. Besides playing, it is more important for friends to study, so not all students in this class play by themselves.

3 code of conduct changes

kindergarten

In kindergarten, there are not many codes of conduct, and in most cases, they are free to play. Teachers rarely blame or "look at others differently" because they can't answer all kinds of classroom questions.

primary school

On the primary school campus, there are various codes of conduct. Go to school on time, observe the classroom order, listen carefully and don't whisper. Be ready to answer the teacher's questions at any time.

4 changes in learning objectives

kindergarten

In kindergartens, children are generally allowed to spend every day carefree and happy, and there are no problems such as various subject evaluations and mock exams.

primary school

On the primary school campus, there are all kinds of academic performance evaluations, mock exams and even the choice of future schools.

Third, how to reduce or avoid such problems? Cultivate self-care awareness

Parents and friends must cultivate their children's sense of self-care. The weather is hot and cold. They should know how to add their own clothes. They should also tell their children what the weather will be like tomorrow and ask what kind of clothes Ta is going to wear. In the case of wet clothes, to learn to change clothes by yourself, you can prepare a set of clothes in your schoolbag when your child starts school.

2 Balanced nutrition, put an end to picky eaters.

Parents and friends should form good habits, set a good example for their children and avoid the habit of picky eaters. In addition, they should give their children a vaccination in advance and tell them what to eat today, not what they eat and do. Don't spoil the children, feed yourself. Cultivate children's ability to eat by themselves. Secondly, in order to solve the problem that children eat slowly, they can inform them in advance when eating. For example, today's lunch time is 40 minutes, so after eating this meal, even if they haven't finished eating, they should clean up the dishes and chopsticks. In tea time, even if children are hungry, they should be forbidden to eat all kinds of snacks, which can cultivate the habit of eating on time and at a fast pace.

3 Good communication habits

We must cultivate children's good communication habits. Parents should also tell their children at ordinary times, listen carefully to each other's words, and then give corresponding feedback when the other party has finished speaking.

4 Cultivate the habit of urinating and defecating for children

Usually at home, you can remind your child whether you need to urinate according to the class time of primary school, or simulate the scene of class with your child at home. During class, remind your child to urinate and tell him that defecation is generally not allowed during class. Of course, you should also tell your child that if you suddenly want to urinate in an emergency, you must raise your hand and report to the teacher instead of pulling your clothes. In this case, their friends don't like it, and they have to wear smelly clothes until they go to school.

5 cultivate the habit of children's belongings.

Parents must tell their children that they can only do other things when they play with them or after they play by themselves. Of course, some children don't listen to this at all, or play something else by themselves. In this case, you can accompany your child to clean up Ta's toys at first, or you can use the competition to attract children's interest. In addition, after finishing homework with your child every day, you must remind your child to tidy up the books. Forget to bring sTationery, no one will give it to ta. Finally, when sleeping, be sure to let her fold the clothes you took off and put them away, so that the children can develop the habit of putting things on their own.

As the head of the school, as the mother of a three-year-old baby, I am also worried about the above-mentioned problems and even serious psychological problems after the children enter primary school, but I know that as long as I play the role of a good parent in daily life, I can cultivate children's good habits and cultivate their independent ability. Then the child will certainly not have the above problems in the young connection. Of course, if there are some problems in the relationship between children, parents and friends must treat them calmly instead of making a fuss. They can patiently solve these problems with children and primary school teachers.