Thinking about the past and the future, in real life, the most prominent standard that people usually use to measure their ability should be the ability to make money. As for me, it seems that no matter how hard I try, I still work hard and earn a meager salary.
Since I can't touch the ability to make money, what else can I do? I deserve a psychological balance, right?
When I was a child, my family environment was not very good, but I grew up healthily, which shows that I have the ability to survive.
Because of my parents' poverty and my mother's deafness, I looked at others with strange eyes, but I overcame my childish sadness and inferiority when I was a teenager and always cared about my parents and made them happy, which shows that I have the ability of self-respect and self-improvement.
When I was a student, I liked painting and singing. Many years later, when my daughter asked me to draw some pictures for her classmates and the blackboard newspaper in the classroom, I could still imitate the old pictures and get the appreciation of the children, which showed that I had artistic ability.
When I was a student, I was most afraid of writing, but after I stepped into the society, I was able to write my own experiences, turn my feelings into words and poems, which was appreciated by netizens, indicating that I have the ability to write.
From the beginning to now, I have knitted cloth, repaired tape recorders, stood at the counter, worked as a workshop employee, worked as a workshop manager, worked as a dormitory administrator and worked as an administrative manager. Up to now, every post of mine has been recognized by everyone, recognizing my hard work and seriousness, which shows that I have the ability to work.
When I quit my job and went home for the freedom of my heart, I persuaded the Hunan master to teach me how to cook Korean-style baked steamed bread. I cooked it at home alone and sold it door to door. I overcame all kinds of changes and difficulties in the production process, endured the ridicule and contempt of others, and made baked steamed bread that everyone likes, which shows that I have the ability to bear hardships and stand hard work.
When I can't stand the hard work of making snacks, I return to the company that insists on resigning and become an ordinary employee again, which shows that I have the ability to treat reality rationally.
Hearing others praise my daughter for being considerate and considerate shows that I have the ability to assume the role of mother; Hearing people say that my in-laws praise me for my filial piety and diligence shows that I have the ability to bear family responsibilities.
There are countless such examples. I feel that as an ordinary person, I have all the abilities I should have. So, I think, a capable ordinary person like me should live a happy life.