For a person's personality, it really can't be changed, and Qiao Simei's eldest brother has also reminded her that Qiao Simei, who is too persistent, is completely intoxicated in the world of self, so it is doomed to encounter such a thing in the end.
First of all: ignorance of people will lead to consequences.
Qiao Simei's experience is also a common emotional problem for all of us in real life. Many people are too idealistic about love. Some people can tell the truth in one sentence, but how many people often like or want to hear the truest words in reality?
Joe's four wonderful experiences actually correspond to the emotional experiences of many people in real life. He will never be awake until he is black and blue.
Secondly, the personality problem is a three-view problem, which he can't change by himself.
Qiao Simei's experience also tells us that a person's personality has problems and will hardly change. Qi Chenggang has long been punished for his style, and he also deliberately concealed Qiao Simei.
The result of this behavior has actually told Qiao Simei that Qi Chenggang will have two problems when facing marriage, one is responsibility and the other is loyalty. Obviously, Qiao Simei doesn't have this knowledge at all. Qiao Simei is too perfect for Qi Chenggang's humanity.
Finally: the wrong decisions on the road of life are ultimately self-inflicted.
Qiao Simei's experience, while making everyone sympathize, will also make everyone reflect, because the appearance of an ending is not accidental, but caused by various personal choices before.
Qiao Simei's experience is not so much predestined by heaven as determined by her own personality. However, if she had been a little sensible or sober before marriage, Qiao Simei would not have had such an experience, which is sad.
Conclusion: Qiao Simei's experience is actually reminding everyone that we should maintain two different attitudes towards love and marriage.