Optimistic and confident
In the face of setbacks and failures, it is courage to laugh it off as optimism and self-confidence, and then rally.
In the face of hatred and misunderstanding, it is philosophy to laugh it off as calm and tolerant, and then keep it true.
In the face of praise and encouragement, it is a kind of modesty and sobriety to laugh it off, and then keep making progress. This is a kind of strength.
In the face of troubles and worries, it is a kind of peace and relief to laugh it off and then try to resolve it. This is a realm.
Failure and frustration are temporary, as long as you dare to smile, misunderstanding and hatred are temporary, as long as you are optimistic, praise and encouragement are temporary, as long as you are not just with your dreams; Worry and sadness are temporary, as long as you are not affected by them.
The sea is vast and the sky is vast, and hundreds of people compete for the flow. If you don't refuse to flow, you will become the sea. All sentient beings, life is impermanent, and only by not being intimidated by difficulties and hardships can they show their true colors as heroes. The wind and rain are coming, the spring flowers are dying, and there is always sunshine behind the wind and rain. Tides rise and fall, clouds roll and clouds are comfortable, you can take a leisurely stroll, hang up the sails ahead, hit the water in the middle, and the other side of success is ahead.
Whether a person calmly faces life or passively endures the hardships of life depends on his attitude towards life, which determines his fate and life. What kind of mentality you have will have what kind of life ending!
There is no difference between happiness and pain in anything. Happiness and pain are our feelings for him and the qualities we give him. The same thing, from different angles, will have different feelings. Whether a person is happy or not lies not in his situation, but in whether he holds an optimistic heart.
For the same bright moon, Liu Yong, with misty eyes, said, "Yang Liuan has a faint breeze. After many years, its beautiful days should be in vain." . When he arrived at Su Shi, who was handsome and high-spirited, he became: "I hope people will live for a long time and have a good scenery thousands of miles away." The same is the bright moon, but it is so different in the eyes of people with different mentality, and so is life.
Optimism is a compass, let us sail to the other side of success and stride forward; Optimism is a good medicine, which can cure suffering. For a better life, please let optimism dominate our lives.
Respect from others is not as good as respect from yourself. Only by fully understanding one's own strengths can we maintain the momentum of progress. Self-confidence is the driving force to save yourself.
Madame Curie once said, "Life is not easy for any man or woman. We must have perseverance. The most important thing is that we have confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we have a natural talent for one thing and we will finish it at any cost. At the end, you should be able to say with a clear conscience: I have tried my best. As long as a person has confidence, then he can become what he wants to be. "
Life should be full of self-confidence, self-confidence without complacency, listening to opinions without being influenced by others, being persistent without paranoia. This is the real realm of life.
Learn to master the correct way of thinking, maintain a good attitude, abandon inferiority, regain self-confidence, learn to control yourself, arrange your own life and plan your own life.
Without self-confidence and goals, we will be obedient and accomplish nothing. Everyone should set some life goals. To achieve these goals, we must first believe that we can do it. When you encounter setbacks in the process of achieving your goals, please remember that the difficulties are temporary. As long as you fully believe in yourself, you can finally wait until the clouds clear.
Emerson, an American writer, said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success". People often compare self-confidence to the door to exert subjective initiative and start the intellectual motor. This is very reasonable. To establish self-confidence, we should correctly evaluate ourselves, find our own strengths and affirm our own abilities. Confidence is not narcissism and arrogance. Not complacent, unfounded self-righteous, blindly optimistic; It is a kind of psychological quality that inspires oneself to make progress. It represents high fighting spirit, abundant energy and optimism to meet the challenges of life.
We are unique individuals in the world, and our thinking and inner essence are the greatest masterpieces of nature, so we must be confident in the elegance of live high, and the world is unique because of us! The truly successful life lies not in the size of our achievements, but in whether we strive to realize ourselves and shout out our voices. People who are not successful are born. The fundamental reason for success is to develop people's unlimited potential. We should release our potential, awaken our potential, improve ourselves with desire, smooth the mountains with perseverance, and believe that we will succeed.
Self-confidence is closely related to courage. Self-confidence can produce courage. Similarly, courage can also produce self-confidence, and lack of courage or excessive self-criticism will weaken self-confidence. Self-confidence is the initial motivation for a successful life, and it is a positive attitude and passion for life. Confident people open a skylight in their hearts, let the sun shine in their hearts and pass it from the inside out, which looks full of vitality and warmth. People with low self-esteem have made a row of small holes in their hearts to let the rain seep in and let the damp musty smell come out. This era is full of materialistic figures and impetuous breath, and self-confidence has inadvertently become a luxury. At present, the so-called self-confidence is mostly ignorant rashness or willful stubbornness, or arrogance, or willfulness, or willfulness. People call short-sighted arrogance confidence, but they don't care about its blindness. People's conceit about blocking words is called confidence, but they don't care about its narrowness. People call the stupidity of covering their ears self-confidence, but they don't care about their ignorance. Self-confidence seems to have become a luxury that embellishes personality and an ornament that embodies personality. Therefore, true self-confidence is a kind of wisdom, that is, calmness in self-confidence, magnanimity with an open mind, calmness in calmness and awe in chaos. A truly confident person must be farsighted and thorough, have the courage to act decisively, and be open-minded and generous. It is contained in the resolute brow, just like Kuafu chasing the sun, which is endless. It is hidden in a broad mind, far-sighted, with a global mind. Reflected in the momentum of turning the tide, it is to judge the situation and choose freely.
An optimistic attitude and a confident life, full and rich, are a different kind of wealth.
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