A young man was in a hurry to get on the bus and accidentally bumped into a middle-aged woman who was getting off. It should be said that this young man violated the rule of "going down first and then going up" and hit someone again, which is of course unreasonable. He immediately apologized to the woman, but the woman cursed angrily and swore a lot of dirty words. The passengers at the scene began to look at the woman, but later they couldn't listen any more and criticized her for being unreasonable. As a result, the person who was hit was flushed and bored.
It seems that reason and ceremony are closely linked. Being reasonable means being polite, and being polite means being reasonable. On the contrary, impoliteness is unreasonable.
There will inevitably be collisions in public places. Who can do something wrong in social life without saying a word? Lack of reason when doing something wrong, correct the mistake and apologize. This gift makes up for the previous reasons, at least in part. If you don't admit your mistake, but look on coldly, it is both unreasonable and rude, and it is doubly unreasonable.
Of course, people who are damaged without cause are responsible. However, when we criticize, we should be kind to others and be polite. Reasonable and polite, the other party is easy to accept, and it will get twice the result with half the effort. If you are self-righteous, rude, domineering and make a scene, it is impolite. It was very reasonable, with only five points left, or even a total loss.
As the saying goes, "a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June." It is not surprising that disputes and contradictions occur, and how to solve them is very important. Everyone takes it seriously with a peaceful attitude, and it is a good thing to make amends, but it does not hurt the gas. At least it won't cause the condemnation of the surrounding people, and the contradiction will intensify to uncontrollable public anger. This is not only unreasonable, not to mention politeness, but also a serious lack of moral quality.
In real life, the communication between people, including the contact between strangers, should be reasonable. Without reason, there would be no order, and without principles, wouldn't society be in chaos? It is right to travel all over the world, but it is impossible to be moved for no reason. This is a fact. China has a history of 5,000 years of civilization and is known as a country of etiquette. It is our tradition to reciprocate, meet sincerely and live in harmony. We should not only adhere to this etiquette, but also constantly give newer content to inherit and carry it forward.
Today, with the construction of socialist market economy, the general trend of society is to move towards civilization and progress. However, due to the differences in social division of labor, benefit distribution and value realization forms, there have also been different degrees of moral decline, which is incompatible with "reason" and "courtesy" and with the characteristics and requirements of the times. Building a good country, a good society and a good family is inseparable from "reason" and "courtesy", which are the basic common sense and daily norms of our life and work, and can only be strengthened and cannot be underestimated. As long as each of us starts from ourselves, starts from small things and constantly strengthens our self-cultivation, the new civilization of society will come face to face.