Many teachers have this feeling that "the' good students' who loved and paid for love in those years have never heard from each other after graduation." On the contrary, those children who were often trained in those years often contacted by phone after graduation. After meeting, they all smiled and greeted each other, showing respect for their teachers! " Why do "good students" appear ungrateful? Come to think of it, it's all the fault of "face":

Parents' "face": I often hear parents give their children this lesson: "Are you worthy of me in this exam?" You can't compare with others ... "In this kind of reprimand, children hear the taste: my grades are the faces of my parents-I study for the faces of my parents! creek

The "face" of the school: in order to improve the enrollment rate, the school launched an enrollment war, and it is not uncommon for students with excellent academic performance to be "bought" by competing schools. The school gives good students various preferential policies, not only exempting tuition fees, but also paying living expenses. All the subsidies that should have been given to poor students are given to "excellent students", "excellent league members" and other "honors", and we have given the green light to "gifted students". In the face of the school's practice, our "gifted students" tasted: which school and class I study in, which is a great face for the school and teachers. I am the survival capital of schools and teachers, and they have to thank me. "Students with learning difficulties" read the world coldly. ...

China people have the most face. As the saying goes, "People live with a face, but trees live with a skin". In our school, teachers and parents all think that "Bidiu's face is important when he dies", children's achievements have become the heaviest weight for us to compete with others for face. We treat children with a utilitarian heart, and children naturally don't know how to be grateful, because they don't need to be grateful, but their daily hard work has won us more important. "