Before, I always made excuses for failure.
Once, I was late for school and the teacher asked me why I was late. I casually made an excuse and said, "My mother told me to get up late, so I was late."
Once, I forgot to do my homework at night. In the morning, the teacher asked me to take my homework. I said, "I made it, but I left it at home without it."
Another time, I failed in the exam, and my mother asked me. I made an excuse casually and said, "I am just careless and don't know much about extracurricular knowledge."
Today, I understand that we should not make excuses for failure, but find ways to succeed. If we fail, we should find out the reason, why we failed, and then change the reason of failure in order to strive for the next success. Failure is the mother of success. We shouldn't feel sorry for failure and be immersed in pain and sorrow. Don't be proud of success, because modesty makes people progress and pride makes people fall behind.
There are two kinds of people: losers and winners. The first kind of people are depressed and don't make progress. He is immersed in self-reproach and dissatisfaction with others all day. The second kind of people will not make excuses when they fail, but will work harder, analyze the reasons, inquire about the methods and try to do better. The second kind of people will win the final victory.
Therefore, learning is the same. I must find the reasons and methods of failure, solve the existing problems with methods, and finally succeed.
Examples of not making excuses for failure: Wujiang and Xiang Yu, who committed suicide, said: Killing me is not a war crime. It means, this is
God wants me to perish, not that I can't fight.
Xiang Yu made many strategic mistakes, such as getting rid of Fan Zeng, an adviser, and being indecisive at the Hongmen banquet.
Indecision and so on are the reasons for his failure. And before he died, he didn't realize it. God is blaming it. This is an excuse for your failure.
Don't make excuses for failure 800 arguments Goethe once said, "Reading a good book is talking to many noble people." Indeed, books are good teachers and friends of mankind. It not only broadens my knowledge and makes me understand a lot of truth, but also makes me deeply realize that there is no excuse for failure.
The United States Military Academy at West Point is famous all over the world. Not only have batches of outstanding military talents been trained, but countless business elites have also been trained. There is a long tradition in this school that students can only have four answers when they meet the chief executive: "Report to the chief executive, yes!" " "
"Report sir, no!" "Report sir, I don't know!" "Sir, there is no excuse!" Besides, don't say it again. Because, sir, what matters is the result, not listening to your long explanation. The reason why this school adopts this method is to let students adapt to the pressure and understand that there is no excuse for failure.
In fact, this kind of education often happens in my family.
Last year, around 65438+February, the school conducted a thorough inspection of Unit 5 of Mathematics. As a result, the ranking plummeted because I didn't check it carefully.
In the face of my mother's questioning, my heart is really eighteen barrels of water-so anxious. But in order not to be punished, I tried my best to defend myself: "In fact, I can do all those questions, but I don't have time to check them later ..."
"Don't fail there are so many excuses to find? ! "Mother's eyebrows are pulled into a ball, and her tone is mixed with a hint of imperceptible anger.
Yes, in times of adversity, you can always find an excuse. It is true that many excuses are sometimes reasonable, but it is precisely because there are still many reasonable excuses to find that the psychological guilt will be alleviated, the lessons learned will be less profound, and the desire for success will be less intense. On the other hand, "no excuse for failure" just drives you to a dead end, leaving you with no retreat and no choice, and your mind is always under great pressure to fight. Only in this way can your inner potential be fully exerted, your ability become incredible, and success will wave to you not far away.
There is no excuse for failure. When your boat of life encounters a storm during its voyage, it may almost knock over your surfboard. Don't be afraid, keep your eyes on the target and keep this sentence in mind, so as to add endless motivation to your journey. Maybe one day, I still want to taste the taste of failure, but at least I can say with a clear conscience: "There is no trace of wings in the sky, I have flown."
Take it.
Living in a bustling city, do you often hear complaints from others?
If you don't do well in the exam, someone will say, "Oh, what bad luck! My pen was broken in this exam, so I didn't do well. " Maybe a friend will comfort you and say, "It doesn't matter, it's just a mistake this time." But ask yourself, is it really just a mistake? No, it's just an excuse.
At the sports meeting, you can't run 400 meters well. Some people will say, "My shoes are broken this time. I will run well next time. " Some people may think that this is motivating themselves, but it is not. Just making excuses for myself.
I still remember watching the Chinese Dream at home during the May Day holiday. One of the girls sang completely out of tune and was interviewed by reporters. She actually told reporters that her voice was uncomfortable today. Is that really the case? Is this answer too funny? Oh, it's just an excuse.
I finally found that people who make excuses have one characteristic, that is, they dare not face up to failure. Why should we be afraid of failure? There is a good saying: "Failure is the mother of success." Yes, how can we succeed without failure?
I remember once, when I was 6 years old, I went out to fly kites with my friends. It didn't work, but all my friends succeeded except me. When I got home, tears rolled down like broken beads. Dad asked me what was going on, and I made an excuse for myself, saying it was too windy to put on. Dad got angry when he heard it, and said, "Then why is everyone else putting it away?" Don't make excuses for yourself! "Say that finish, strode into the study.
From then on, I woke up: don't make excuses for yourself, because there is no excuse!
Never make excuses for your mistakes. Nobody likes your excuse. Everyone makes mistakes. The key is to analyze the root cause of the mistake and avoid the same mistake from happening again.
Once you find an excuse to make a mistake, it will be extremely unfavorable to correct it, and even you will be unable to extricate yourself, and you will have the idea of breaking the jar and breaking it, which will make you devastated.
So, never make excuses for your mistakes, even if others misunderstand you, because there is no need to think so much. You can't know a person clearly by just one thing. It is possible to let others know you in the future.
Never make excuses for your mistakes. Only by knowing your own mistakes can you find the direction of your efforts. Mistakes are also the accumulation of experience. Never find an umbrella for your own mistakes. I hope I can help you and adopt it.
Trust is a ray of sunshine, which can warm the hearts of others; Trust is a bond that can connect our hearts. Trust in life can encourage others; Social trust is the guarantee of career development. Trust is a very important thing.
Trust can warm people's hearts. When we trust him, we begin to respect him, which can give others confidence and make others feel self-esteem. When we show trust in others, we can often warm others, pull them back from the cliff, or try to become strong, or regain confidence. A teenager who used to love petty theft was determined to turn over a new leaf, only to find that he was repeatedly looked down upon by others and even had no chance to turn over a new leaf. Once, he was walking in the community and met an uncle. Grandpa called him to sit down and was about to light a cigarette, only to find that he didn't bring a lighter. The door is unlocked. Go to my house and get my lighter. Grandpa said to him. He went to his uncle's house to get a lighter. He was very moved and found that he could still be trusted. From then on, he turned over a new leaf and finally became a policeman.
Trust can warm people's hearts, just like that teenager. With the trust of others, he finally regained his confidence and embarked on the right track.
Trust can connect people's hearts, and trust is the best bond between people. When we trust others, we will share many things, feelings and secrets with them. Unconsciously, trust has linked us together. Under such a connection, a company will gain the trust of others and grow stronger. A prisoner asked to see his father, and then he was going to be executed. In order to prevent him from escaping, the judge asked one of his friends to go to prison for him. If he doesn't come back after the deadline, he will execute his friend. On that day, the prisoner still didn't come back and his friend was taken to the execution ground. Everyone thinks he is stupid, but he doesn't care. Finally, the prisoner came back. When asked why, he said "I trust him".
Trust can connect people. Just like the above two people, trust can bring people closer together.
But now we often lose trust, don't trust our parents, don't trust our friends, and even don't trust strangers, which leads to the cold relationship between people in society and the weak cooperation between people, which fundamentally affects social development. Therefore, I don't think we need to be so suspicious and trust others, because trusting others is not good for you and me.
Trust makes us better.
Trust makes society better.
Enjoy the change. Distinguish between the central argument and the sub-argument: the sub-argument is generally located at the beginning of the paragraph or has iconic words: first, second, third, etc.
Fourth, we should pay attention to the expression form of the argument: sometimes the topic is the central argument. A paper has only one central argument.
Fifth, refute the inference point through arguments: arguments serve to prove arguments, and analyzing arguments can show what it proves, affirms and supports. This is an argument.
An example of not listening to advice;
1, Masu Street Pavilion. At that time, Ma Su just ignored Wang Ping's proposal and camped at the foot of the mountain. He was arrogant and familiar with the art of war. Zhuge Liang, for his own use, camped on the mountain in an attempt to use the terrain to repel the enemy. However, Wang Ping is a veteran, and he thinks about some very practical issues, such as camping in the mountains and cutting off food and water. However, Masu wouldn't listen. Result.
2. The story about this here is that during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the King of Wu did not listen to Wu Zixu's suggestion that the country should be destroyed first and then the country should be Qi, and he reused the traitor Taizai. Finally, Wu Zixu did not listen to his plan and was executed directly. Finally, when the national strength was empty, it was destroyed by Gou Jian.
Examples of taking advice:
When Liu Bang was attacked by Xiang Yu, he took his advice to seal the vassal state for the first time, but was dissuaded by Sean. Sean used nine reasons to dissuade Liu Bang, and Liu Bang finally obeyed, thus avoiding a disaster. And so on.
Prejudice and discrimination are people's unequal eyes on a certain defect, shortcoming, ability, birth and other aspects, which make them suffer different degrees of losses, and are often derogatory. From, Xue Qin Fucheng's Diary of the Four Kingdoms, February 21st, 17th year of Guangxu: "I respect my destiny, and I am a Chinese and foreign family without discrimination".
From the social point of view, discrimination is an emotional reaction and behavior between different interest groups, and discrimination is generally composed of two interest groups: the discriminator and the discriminated. In general, the discriminating party slanders, slanders, isolates or even hurts the discriminated party in words or actions for fear that the discriminated party will pose a threat or challenge to its status, rights, interests, habits and culture. Discrimination is actually that one party who discriminates is looking for unspeakable reasons to let unreasonable, legal, unfair and unjust things continue. Achieve the purpose of maintaining the status, rights, interests, habits and culture of the discriminating party.
It is the duty of every citizen to be kind to animals. Being kind to animals is the only way to make people and animals become good friends. Being kind to animals is a shortcut to harmony between heat and nature. Therefore, we primary school students should always help, love and treat animals well.
I remember once, I helped my mother dry clothes on the balcony. Just then, a bird fell from the sky and landed in front of me. I
I thought the bird was dead, so I put it in my hand and prepared to throw it away. But at this moment, the bird suddenly made a little noise and flapped its wings as if to tell me something. Seeing the bird's weakness, I can't help but soften my heart: what a lovely little animal the bird is! How can I have the heart to treat it like this? Save this poor little life! So, I called my father and told him the whole story in detail, and then I didn't forget to add a few words: "Dad, please help!" " Maybe its parents are looking for it everywhere now! "My father looked at me so sincerely, and the bird was poor. The father who was originally "hard-hearted" was also moved by his behavior. I saw my father bring medicine boxes one by one, sprinkled a little anti-inflammatory powder on the injured part of the bird, wrapped it in gauze and said to me, "You should take good care of it these days!" I let out a cry and put the bird into the warm nest I prepared in advance to let it have a good rest. In the happy days when the bird has not recovered, I ask my father to change his gauze and my mother to feed it every day, and I will also do some "physical training" for it. Gradually, I developed feelings for this bird. On the day of injury, I came to a small forest.